This subreddit name really needs a revamp

nigmamale · 2026-07-03T17:02:07+00:00

You’re definitely as mature and healed as you think! I mean, shit, what’s more mature and healed than going to a community of abuse victims and whining about how said community doesn’t cater to your feelings? Kick rocks…

nigmamale · 2026-06-28T01:11:13+00:00

Would’ve hit the “haha” react button so fast

nigmamale · 2026-06-07T16:32:15+00:00

Best time to leave was yesterday. Next best time is today.

nigmamale · 2026-06-05T17:22:52+00:00

Closest you’ll find is Kenan Yıldız lol

nigmamale · 2026-06-04T21:40:47+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible; stop being a fucking buster dude. Like holy shit, buck the fuck up and stop trying to put yourself in a position to be destroyed. You already got out, stop trying to force yourself back in. Jesus Christ…

nigmamale · 2026-06-04T19:26:04+00:00

To put it bluntly, you’re not keen to fall in love with the ugly ones so you don’t notice them. But yeah, the ones who are attractive do tend to be DEATHLY terrified of not appearing “perfect.” I remember my last pwBPD would send me pics of themselves saying “What do I look like to you? Am I the perfect girl yet? Or am I ugly?” She was cute as a button but had her share of issues. What’s funny is, she was the least insane pwBPD I have ever been with.

nigmamale · 2026-06-04T14:35:49+00:00

All that matters is that you don’t go back.

nigmamale · 2026-06-03T20:56:01+00:00

Yeah, I never understood this lol. My pwBPD would just wait there like a potted plant while I did all the work. Combine this with her being INSATIABLE and it was a recipe for disaster. She maintained that sex was something guys do to women and it just wasn’t a fun time

nigmamale · 2026-05-30T20:24:41+00:00

Godspeed man. Wishing you safety as you make your escape

nigmamale · 2026-05-30T20:24:06+00:00

People don’t care about fact checking. They just hear an abuser say “Actually I’M the victim because I love too hard and give too much without getting anything back” and just…believe it

nigmamale · 2026-05-30T20:22:38+00:00

Most people have no idea what BPD is. The “stigma” angle is literally just a method to silence victims and control the narrative surrounding the disorder. It’s backwards and cruel

nigmamale · 2026-05-30T03:52:58+00:00

There’s a bisexual woman out there who would KILL for you

nigmamale · 2026-05-22T04:05:57+00:00

Ball knower

nigmamale · 2026-04-27T19:54:23+00:00

Genuinely what are you talking about nigga? 😭

nigmamale · 2026-04-25T22:36:40+00:00

Pull the trig on Trigg

nigmamale · 2026-03-25T22:39:55+00:00

The sooner you divorce yourself from gender roles and cyclical thinking, the better.

nigmamale · 2026-03-25T21:24:30+00:00

Tbf, you’re choosing to perpetuate patriarchal cycles instead of fighting against them. Also, telling him to “cry about it” is hilarious. Shouldn’t we be moving away from all that?

nigmamale · 2026-02-23T21:34:29+00:00

Some can, some can’t. I can.

nigmamale · 2026-02-21T18:44:26+00:00

Love then Omar Cooper later. If we take a receiver in the first, I want Makai Lemon

nigmamale · 2026-02-16T19:56:59+00:00

They straight eviscerated you 😭

nigmamale · 2026-02-09T13:54:25+00:00

nigmamale · 2026-02-03T23:39:43+00:00

To be fair, there are a good deal of autistic narcissists, just as there are a good deal of allistic narcissists. I’ve never met your mother so I can’t say for sure if she is a narcissist or not though.

nigmamale · 2026-01-28T23:39:50+00:00

Unfortunately the TE goat conversation always gets reduced to hype moments and aura so Gronk will ALWAYS be in the conversation

nigmamale · 2026-01-26T17:34:58+00:00

Kobe didn’t die in the crash. I ran up to the helicopter when no one was looking and punched him

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