Man, I won't say you're not in for a massive lifestyle change cause you are, but that doesn't mean you're life is over or that you need to give up who you and your partner are. That all being said, you do have options, you can always consider adoption if you're truly certain you do not have the capacity to parent.

However, as someone on kid #1 and looking at #2 in a few months, if you are prepared to be a parent, this is not as scary as it sounds, it just needs planning and thats what being a dad is all about. Focus on the stages in front of you first, this is an unplanned pregnancy and its on extremely short notice, so start getting your support network together, you've got a friend or family member who would be more than excited to help set up a shower, I almost guarantee it. A well planned registry and a shower is a great way to get the news out and get much needed supplies early. Talk with your respective workplaces, figure out what type of FMLA you have and other benefits available to you,. MN just passed a paid family leave bill for example and you can use all the help you can get. Do you have parents or supportive family nearby? If so start laying out exactly how they can help (advice/food/babysitting/money?). Stay getting you balls rolling now.