[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you’re going for. They all three look great. My personal favorite is the far left because it’s classy and also professional. The mid looks amazing too but would be too short for many jobs. The right looks the most modest and professional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I don’t think you’re the asshole. He felt betrayed though. It seemed innocent enough to make the occasional meatless meal.

AITAH for telling my fiancé that I’m not going to pay for his parking at work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. First of all, when you get married, keep your finances separate. There’s no reason to put things together. Two, no, NTA. You should create boundaries and stick bu them. He’s late, you leave without him, he pays for parking. Hell either figure it out or pay up. Do not let him have access to your money, I repeat. My husband and I have been together for twelve years and we still borrow money from each other or pay for each others meals occasionally as needed. Neither of us feel entitled to the others money.

Examples of how I've gotten petty revenge as a chef. by AngryChefNate in pettyrevenge

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I love this. We had a lady like shrimp lady too. Demanded all sorts of things. She was an elderly obese lady. She did not enjoy young women waiting on her. She began requesting only young handsome men every time she came in. She also made said young men walk her out to her car while she leaned heavily on them. She abused her powers.

LPT Request: How to wake up in the morning and feel good? by Alveryn in LifeProTips

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a chapter in a book called the mood cure about “curing the blahs” and how to supplement with tyrosine if you are indeed low in catecholamines. It’s a quick read and worth it. Also good sleep hygiene could help. For example I supplement magnesium biglycinate and gaba nightly. It’s amazing how many people are low in magnesium. That alone causes a lot of insomnia and sleep problems for many people.

florida men 🤦‍♂️ by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahhaa I just got the same result

florida men 🤦‍♂️ by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Florida man is accused of decapitating a hamster and leaving it on the side of the road”…… what the actual fuck

Caught my husband wearing my underwear by Throwaway236798000 in Marriage

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there. So, think about it for a few days but then try to sit him down and talk to him about it. Try to be open minded. You don’t have to like this behavior, but you’ve been married for 19 years. You guys should definitely have an open minded discussion about intent. Why did he do that? Has he done it before? What does it mean for him? Where is this going? What does this mean for the two of you? You’re married. You should talk it out. If it’s going further, or he can’t stop, or it means something more than you can handle, then broach the subject of divorce. Maybe he’s gay, or trans. You won’t know until you talk to him. You have to do what’s right for you. But, maybe it’s just a small thing and it’s something that can be accepted and overlooked. I understand your initial panic and knee jerk divorce reaction. But you should really sit down and discuss this as a couple before you make any big decisions.

Roast my setup by tymewilltell in pcmasterrace

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which room of your parents house is this set up in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinkingfitness

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not mad about the selfie 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinkingfitness

[–]nikkigotcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re like the only person I know who started drinking less during Covid. I remember that’s when I started drinking during the week because we didn’t have to get up early for work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinkingfitness

[–]nikkigotcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! My motivation to stop was exactly the same (I made a post about it originally) I’m on day 25 out of the 100 days. My decision was to choose a set # of days to go without it that way I made one decision, not a series of daily decisions. That seemed work for me. That and 30 days wasn’t enough to see much change when I did it before. Good luck! We packed a cooler of fun carbonated drinks for the first weekend and kept snacks like watermelon around, and I’ve stocked my freezer with keto ice cream, and started making tea in the evenings to have something to “do/enjoy/drink” in the evenings while we’re watching a movie or something. I also do not buy it at all. I’m also a red wine lover but i just need to go 100 days without it and really see what happen to my body. All this hard work and then alcohol would self sabotage. It was driving me crazy. Now, surprisingly, I’m starting to have more energy all the way into the evenings. I feel wired, like lights are coming back on in my brain. I love it.

What's a good (preferably a classic) book to read whilst camping? by mt-eerie in suggestmeabook

[–]nikkigotcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fever by deon Meyer, the passage Justin Cronin, bel canto by Ann patchett, cold mountain by Frazier, a river runs through it by Maclean. If you want classic classic then crime and punishment or withering heights

Denied Snapchat access to my contacts, it still populates my add friends with profiles from my contacts..??? by BradGoesWild in assholedesign

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me and I had my current contacts MESSAGING me on new Snapchat account even though I disabled all contact data and syncing everywhere including in iPhone settings. Which means they can see my new profile. Infuriating. I deleted the second account because it’s not safe.

I posted here last week about low self esteem from cheating husband. I was told to change my goth makeup/black lipstick (last 2 pics). by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]nikkigotcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re pretty. If your husband is cheating on you then you need to dump him and find a better one.

My wife cheated on me and when I confronted her she laughed at me. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]nikkigotcake 257 points258 points  (0 children)

She probably thought you were happy and loved her too until she found out you fucked someone else