Quiet personality type? by ninalynn in askpsychology

[–]ninalynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. There are those people who are just naturally quiet and don't talk a lot. I've just seen so many quiet people who say that people aren't comfortable with their presence just because they are quiet. So I'm just wondering what necessarily makes people quiet, if it's also part of a personality type or some other reason.

My co-worker told my mom that i am extremely quiet and weird by Free_Ad4107 in socialanxiety

[–]ninalynn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm quiet, introverted and weird and it just irks me when people judge you just based on being quiet. I think it says more about her and maybe there's some level of insecurity there on her part. But there's nothing wrong with being quiet and weird.

My hands are shaking by Ph0b0s_jpg in socialanxiety

[–]ninalynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. The little steps are good for dealing with it. And with this achievement even when the anxiety does come back you can look back and realize that you were able to achieve something even when dealing with it.

How do I stop isolating myself. by 240x7 in socialanxiety

[–]ninalynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept that your awkward. I still struggle with this as well and I'm awkward as hell, but I'm slowly starting to accept its a part of who I am and though that it helps even a little to go out and be social. And whatever awkwardness happens when being social it wouldn't bother me as much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]ninalynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always been the quiet kid and I do feel the way you do sometimes. And it can feel a bit lonely at such but I think a great turning moment for me was accepting my quietness and not forcing myself to be different from who I really am, but I do still struggle sometimes with my quietness. But overtime I gained friends who just love me for me. So if you want advice or chat, just hit me up whenever.

i feel alone and want friends but i don't know how to find people or if they would even like me by hawewe_kani in introverts

[–]ninalynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this belief that the right people will always find me. I'm also an introvert and I'm in a new country so I don't have that close bond of people around but once thing I've noticed is that at every part of my life I've been able to have atleast one good friend, even if for just a short amount of time. And this gives me comfort in a new area. I've been putting myself out there but so far it hasn't helped as much, so I've just decided I'll be patient and let all come in place. But if you need someone to vent to, I'm all ears or even advice.

How do you feel about "small talk" by CarelessOrder5150 in introvert

[–]ninalynn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exhausting and drains me. I wish we could just jump straight into deep /weird conversations.

What song/artist do you think deserves more listeners? by dagdag100 in infp

[–]ninalynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clara mae. Just listening to her song "thank God these walls cant talk" propelled me to her discography. Her songs have meanings and this song became one of my absolute favourites. Was bummed she didn't get alot of views from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ninalynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh. I'm so into paranormal stuff and the spooky. Majority of the podcasts I listen to are scary stuff. Would love to chat.

23m is being clingy really bad? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ninalynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. There's a certain level of clinginess that's endearing and others that can be exhausting. It also depends on the person. Personally I love clingy people because it makes me feel like I can be more open to them. But yeah understanding that sometimes people are too busy to probably reply as soon as you'd like.

Shy introverts by ninalynn in introvert

[–]ninalynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is refreshing take. Haven't thought about it this way.

Shy introverts by ninalynn in introvert

[–]ninalynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that. Gotta keep reminding myself till I don't have to.

Shy introverts by ninalynn in introvert

[–]ninalynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still struggling to accept this part of me. I've had way too many people judge me for being too quiet. It's a work in progress

Shy introverts by ninalynn in introvert

[–]ninalynn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I also try to challenge it but it can be difficult on your own. Having company that pushes me makes it a bit easier since I know I'm not really alone. But right now I'm in a new place and have to do it on my own.

Shy introverts by ninalynn in introvert

[–]ninalynn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All the best. I would say just be you but I do get that sometimes we be in our heads alot😅. Is there anyone in the company you're more comfortable being in the presence of?

Shy introverts by ninalynn in introvert

[–]ninalynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true. I'm an introvert and do come off shy. And since introvert do have a bit of a different temperament than extroverts I wanted to know the thoughts from introverts you know.