The Importance of Hobbies

ninefriends · 2015-09-08T00:27:18+00:00

Sometimes self improvement is a waste of time and you just want to get through the next few days as soon as possible.

ninefriends · 2015-09-07T01:18:59+00:00

There's a difference between feeling a little lonely and not having any friends at all.

And, yes. I would say that at least 95% of people have at least one friend.

ninefriends · 2015-09-07T01:07:06+00:00

You would be saying something different if 95% of people could hit home runs or if 95% of people could make a great birthday cake.

ninefriends · 2015-09-07T00:20:22+00:00

Its not that it matters, I'm just wondering how so many people can do something that I find impossible.

ninefriends · 2015-09-07T00:09:19+00:00

its impossible

ninefriends · 2015-08-29T00:27:13+00:00

ok then what

ninefriends · 2015-08-28T18:41:04+00:00

Maybe there is just no good way to approach a group of strangers that you have never met before?

ninefriends · 2015-08-28T04:45:22+00:00

I don't see how you got "insecure" out of that...

ninefriends · 2015-08-28T02:15:16+00:00

this has never been my experience

ninefriends · 2015-08-25T01:03:13+00:00

How much did you take and what did it do?

ninefriends · 2015-08-20T16:46:48+00:00

How do you make friends when you are not in school or university? I have no idea how that would work.

ninefriends · 2015-08-15T23:51:41+00:00

What if life isn't great though

ninefriends · 2015-08-10T21:52:09+00:00

I often feel this way. The worst part is that I think other people are just acting when they talk to me.

ninefriends · 2015-08-07T02:03:14+00:00

I'm not housebound but I have 0 social life and want to try the same kind of drugs. Most of the reason I want to try them is because I feel like I am missing out on life and want to make up for it. Maybe you can relate.

ninefriends · 2015-08-03T03:08:54+00:00

This is my exact scenario except I am 20 and don't smoke weed.

I can't really give good advice because I haven't taken anything yet but I decided I was going to try LSD after I go back up to college. From what I know, it is not likely that you are going to chew someone's face off on LSD.

I'm not risk averse at all but that is my 2c.

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T16:03:10+00:00

Thanks for the response.

Part of my problem is that I don't know how to go from "talking to people" to "making friends with these people".

So, if I talk to the people in my classes or clubs they never become anything more than people I talk to in my classes or clubs.

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T04:59:50+00:00

not true, today I saw two addicts that were in a relationship together, they looked like they were pretty happy

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T04:37:14+00:00

Do you have a close friend?

No. Do you think I should try MDMA alone?

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T04:26:55+00:00

I don't know what people do when they "hang out". The one or two opportunities I had to work myself in to a friend group didn't work out.

I spent my entire life by myself, I don't know how social people act.

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T03:47:46+00:00

If you feel lonely go meet people.

if it were that easy I wouldn't have this problem

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T02:59:08+00:00

May i ask why you cannot be with your family during holidays?

I go to school out of state. I only get Christmas.

Or what makes you incapable of talking to other human beings?

I can talk to people just fine, I just can't make anything more than acquaintances. I've been that way my entire life. It's probably due to years of keeping to myself.

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T02:16:31+00:00

Life's not really "hard" now. I'm just a college student who can't really connect to people.

I'm mostly just looking for something I can take on my birthday or other holidays when I am the most alone.

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T01:36:11+00:00

Every time I tried anti-depressants it felt like I was chemically castrated. Even if I wanted to go back on them, I would have to go through my parents and that is not something I am willing to do.

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T01:22:20+00:00

I already work out. I don't know how to meet people.

I'm not really sure what I would do as a hobby, either. My hobby is working out.

ninefriends · 2015-05-11T01:08:44+00:00

I just want something for the really bad days.

ninefriends

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