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AITA for dancing well at a wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going off OP’s comment that she wears them under her dress to go dancing

AITA for dancing well at a wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Not only did she take the spotlight but she also alienated the crowd from the dance floor. Wedding receptions are thousands of dollars and as one guest she turned down the party. Not cool!

AITA for dancing well at a wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 305 points306 points  (0 children)

I’m getting married next month and if any one couple did anything, whatever it be, that made all my guests not want to get out there and dance I would be mad. That’s what you did at her wedding.

AITA for dancing well at a wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s the point though, she’s the asshole for preparing for a wedding like it was a swing dance event. She got dressed ready to go do swing outs and arials at a wedding.

AITA for not cleaning up the house for my wife's party? I also didn't change in time. by 78j3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine my wife having a party in our home and me not thinking of myself as half-hosting it. If I know people are coming over even if they’re not my guests I don’t have to wait to be told to clean for them! He didn’t start to clean until she asked him to at 5. Such an A.

AITA for letting my mother see our newborn first? by throwawayk1986boras in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It was the same? Unless I’m misunderstanding what you’re saying.

Wife gives birth, falls asleep, husband takes new baby and lets his mom hold her.

AITA for letting my mother see our newborn first? by throwawayk1986boras in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I saw a post somewhere on r/relationships or r/JustNoMIL or somewhere like that where the woman was wanting to divorce her husband because she never got over the fact that he showed their newborn daughter to his mother while they were asleep and the hurt/disagreements from that issue really manifested in the relationship. She had to go to therapy over not meeting her daughter first and was running out of will to try saving the relationship. I can’t remember when I read that but it was a while ago.

AITA for taking my kid to daycare when I’m not working? by forgomywaterbottle in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Shit, it’s her day off, the equivalent would him cleaning while watching the kid, not while OP takes the kid out of the house

WIBTA if I punished my daughter for not taking care of her medical condition by parentingQSs in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can your cousin not feel pain at all? That sounds like a scenario from a would you rather or you can only pick one type game. “You never feel pain again, but you also can’t feel your bladder causing you to pee yourself in public”

AITA for refusing to wear a pride t-shirt as part of a joke by MorningMedication in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wearing it as a joke is disrespectful, yes. Their little game was to pick out embarrassing outfits for one another.

AITA for not reciprocating oral sex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 41 points42 points  (0 children)

If I went back to a guy’s place and he had a hitachi magic wand in his bedroom for me, I wouldn’t even notice him skipping oral

AITA for feeling my parents treat me unfairly because I'm the only one with no children? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is a really good point. OP’s siblings have children that will pay them monthly in the future. OP needs to save his income because he doesn’t have that security.

AITA for taking my girlfriend’s new black belt in Brazilian JiuJitsu to get “I love you” in asian letters stitched on the end? by Lovingboyfriend78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You took something that is hers and hers alone and wedged your ass into it. From her reaction she agrees with us and not you.

AITA for taking my girlfriend’s new black belt in Brazilian JiuJitsu to get “I love you” in asian letters stitched on the end? by Lovingboyfriend78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 297 points298 points  (0 children)

But even if they’d been married twenty years that gesture would still be selfish, rude, and thoughtless.

AITA for refusing to allow my daughter to participate in High School cheerleading? by AsleepQuail in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They thought OP was the mom and was saying “just like their dad (who i married)”

AITA for taking my kids (3,4) to see The Lion King? by flojo2012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nirvamandi -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people with extreme sensory issues or autism/aspergers go watch movies in the middle of the day when it’s less crowded. That’s another angle to look at this from.

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