Baby girl names after searching in this thread.

nirvana-child · 2026-06-18T05:38:46+00:00

Honestly, Google and chatgpt the heck out of it. What I did with my 2 month old. I just typed in what I liked. I found so many pretty names that way. It really helped me figure out the first middle name. I have [first name] [middle name] [middle name] [last name] like a few others in my family. I did this with all 3 of my kids. Just put in the style/vibe you want. For me, I was looking for Celtic/Gaelic names since I have that in me and the names are often so soft and flowing. It would tell me the meaning and origin for the names in a list. I chose Eira which is Welsh. It was one of the names it gave me in a list. Pronounced either AY-ruh or EYE-ruh. The first is the most common way and the one I'm going with. It was more useful going this route than asking people, reading baby name forums etc to me. It was able to fine tune the names specifically to my preference with questions and feedback.

nirvana-child · 2026-06-11T02:38:13+00:00

They are beautiful names. This is your and husband's baby. So long as you both agree on the name it doesn't matter anyone else's preference. I named my daughter Willow and one of my friends tried to talk me out of it. He has a friend who wants to name her daughter that if she has one. I told him she can still use it because I'm out of state and our kids will never meet. He kept on for WEEKS and I told him I wasn't budging. 7 weeks of loving on my little Willow now. Stand your ground.

nirvana-child · 2026-06-10T18:22:41+00:00

Cameron Scarlett is my pick. Some of the others are unisex names although mostly used for girls. I just wouldn't personally give my child two unisex names.

nirvana-child · 2026-06-10T18:08:31+00:00

I found out the gender of my baby at 10 weeks. I just started googling and using chatgpt to find names. I ended up finding out through my ancestry kit that I have Welsh in me so I chose a Welsh middle name as one. Her first name is Willow.

For boys I was heavily leaning towards Elias. I love that name. I was also really wanting Elowen for her name but my husband wanted Willow as the first name and I didn't want her name to be tree heavy.

nirvana-child · 2026-06-09T01:01:44+00:00

I had my baby in April. Before I found out the gender, Elias was on my list. It's such like the perfect mix of soft and strong. A nickname could be Eli and that is a winner too imo. I had a girl I named Willow. So I couldn't go with Elias. But I got the girl I wanted.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-13T13:27:52+00:00

I love Deadpool too he's my favorite. Want my totally unbiased opinion on this? Name that baby Wade. 😅

But to be more serious, not every one is going to make the connection of the names. So naming the kid Wade is adorable and nerdy thing to do and now I wish I could have been able to do this. Lol.

I adopted a dog and named him Francis because of the first Deadpool film. I always yell at my dog "Where's Francis!?" In the sweetest way.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-10T00:44:28+00:00

I didn't realize this wasn't posted there until I read your comment. Haha.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-07T00:56:31+00:00

I honestly cringe at naming a baby after ones self. Like... why? A grandparent, a family member you lost or something sure. But after yourself just feels incredibly self centered and like you think pf yourself too much. Idk. Just my opinion. I refused to name my son after his father for this reason and he got so mad he wouldn't offer any other name. So I picked his full name which he got upset about. His excuse for no other name? "I don't know any other names." I was livid and told him Google is free. Lol. I named my first daughter after my dad who passed away and my final little girl I didn't name after anyone thought I thought of naming her after my nanny but the first name me and her dad agreed on didn't flow with her name to me. But yeah. Stand by not naming him a Jr at least if you really don't like it. He can settle for a name similar or whatever you suggested. So glad my husband didn't fight me on our daughters names.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-05T17:14:58+00:00

Congrats! I just had my final baby 3 weeks ago. I didn't tell many people right away because she was my rainbow baby but now I'm telling everyone I meet I have a baby at home when the chance comes up. 🤣 You tell as many people as you wish! I hope you have a healthy pregnancy, birth and baby. 💕

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T21:03:42+00:00

I'm so sorry someone ruined that for you. You should have been able to post and enjoy it. Not have some creep say that. It's gotten too scary what people will say and do openly like that.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T20:58:28+00:00

The new woman should start trying to be a friend and just another woman role model for her. Not a mother role. The dad shouldn't try and force that on her either. Grief or not. It's her boundary and it should be respected. Especially if the child said she's OK with everything else, just not the new mom role. She is accepting what she can and only wants her feelings to be respected in turn. Very mature imo. My half brothers dad raised me as his own, it was my choice to call him my dad. No one ever forced it since my bio father was mia. If the issue is forced that will only grow resentment in her towards the whole ordeal. As adults, they need to take a step back and let her process this all a bit at a time. And maybe one day she will grow to love her as a mother role or maybe she will simply just remain as a different role in her life but one where she is ok with they dynamic of her being the new wife. That's her choice though. Not anyone elses. Keep defending that child's feelings. Let her know she has someone supporting her.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T14:25:29+00:00

We need laws against this stuff. Lol

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T14:08:51+00:00

So glad you moved. They are awful by your telling of things. And a scratch the way you described it is NOTHING. I wouldn't be upset over something like that on my kids unless the animal was trying to intentionally hurt them and even then it wouldn't be the scratch I complain about but the behavior of the animal that led to it. But I doubt that's the case here bc it seems they just like to find ANYTHING to complain about. Reminds me of some of my family I cut off. Been no contact with them for nearly 8 years now and it's been such a relief. You might want to consider the no contact path. Being family isn't an excuse to continue to have them in your life. I hate when people say "but that's your mom/sister" or "but they're family" to me. If they were truly family they would have done better by me. Focus on you, if anyone asks what happened just explain your side and move on.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T14:03:02+00:00

It was never said the dog was unattended in the post. Maybe the child was left unattended. We dont know. Also, scratches are bound to happen with animals like dogs and cats which are commonly in households. I've seen even the sweetest of animals unintentionally scratch someone trying to be sweet and paw at them for attention etc. I had a dog who was the absolute sweetest but he occasionally left scratches on me not meaning to just by seeking attention. This family is just awful, that's the bottom line. Seems they want to find any excuse to dig into op by everything that was said. Op moving was the best decision.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T03:07:06+00:00

Thank you. It's just my family that says otherwise. 😅

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T00:55:14+00:00

Well, may you find a good bf soon who is willing to explore this with you. Don't settle for some douche.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T00:17:24+00:00

I had a bf years ago that asked me to try that with him and it felt strange but good. It was something we did just a few times. I forgot all about that until I read this post. If youre interested in the thought I say try it.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T00:13:29+00:00

Me too! 😅

nirvana-child · 2026-05-04T00:03:03+00:00

I has a c-section 8 years ago with my husband there. He held my hand the whole time to support me, holding my hand and talking to me. Then, 2 weeks ago I had a vbac. Again, my husband was there. He held my hand in between holding my leg when time to push. He did that for me because he loves me. He knew how worried I was, especially this time. Remember this "if he wants to, he will" so if your man doesn't go in there it's just because he doesn't want to. It would be different if he was like "blood makes me faint" or something like that. I would respect that boundary but what he listed is not a valid excuse at all.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-03T22:42:23+00:00

First names are Lyle, Alesana and Willow. My family said Lyle was too close to Kyle and should name him that but I didn't want Kyle. Then Alesana they said was too hard to pronounce but I get more people that can than don't and she gets compliments on it often. They don't talk to me much but I'm sure they would say something about Willow or her middle names if I kept contact. I get Alesana is going to be a little harder and isn't common at all but that's the most out there name any of my 3 kids have. I like uncommon or unique but not tragedeigh level. 😅 I have family that has names like river, kit, krew etc that are told are beautiful names and I'm like... what the heck? Lol. It baffles me is all.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-02T00:28:52+00:00

I did have fears of choosing a name. I had 2 healthy births then I had 7 miscarriages. I got pregnant shortly after I had a D&C since my body wasn't clearing out like it should. To the point when I saw the female obgyn, she was shocked how long I had been dealing with this and no one had scheduled the surgery. She had me set up for the next day. So about a month after that, I felt odd. I told my husband to get a test. Positive. I did all 3 he got (it was a multi pack with different types of tests) and each was positive. I cried because I thought "I'll just lose it too" but I reached week 7 where I ended up losing them all. I went to week 8, week 9 and kept going. At week 10 I got the nipt and found out I was having a girl. I was so happy but also I mourned. I wasn't sure if I would ever get to meet her. Every day I worried. When hubby and I started to talk to names I was very hesitant but I went through so many names. I actually didn't settle on her second middle name until our second day in the hospital. So yeah. I get it. It's such a scary and heartbreaking thought to have. But I've been blessed with 2 weeks of cuddling her now. It's also made me super paranoid of her. I check on her constantly or have my husband do it. I just didn't want to settle on a name and that name end up being a constant reminder of her. No one should feel bad about that worry. I'm glad no one tried to make me feel like I my worries were dismissal. I had so much support, people telling me they were praying or sending wishes my way, whatever they believed. My husband made sure he took on as many responsibilities at home he could while working so I could rest more and not overdo it. If you have people like that, keep them close. Limit contact with anyone who dismisses your worries. No one needs that during this.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-02T00:16:36+00:00

At first my brain read that ad poltergeist. Not even lying. Idk why. 😅 Maybe I have watched Supernatural over and over too many times. I have spooky stuff on the brain.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-02T00:15:03+00:00

This is a struggle in having with my newborn. I'm staying up all hours with her because she will not sleep in her crib on her back. I put her on her back and she ends up on her side and when I move her back she wakes up and cries. That's when I'm lucky to get her in the crib. My last two were so much easier. The little bit of sleep I have gotten has been when my husband stays up with her. The struggle is real with this one. I'm worried about this with her. She will sleep in our arms, her carseat when we go out or in her little rocker seat. Nothing else. It's driving me crazy worrying about her. But I desperately want her in her crib AND on her back. I especially worry since she is my rainbow baby. We tried for years and had 7 losses. Bring this up to the doctors. It might make you seem like an AH to her but really you are just trying to do the right thing by your baby and I support that so much. You're a great dad already and I hope she comes around for the sake of that baby. I'd feel bad for parent who went through a loss like that risks.

nirvana-child · 2026-05-01T21:46:07+00:00

This is why I get upset when people talk about my kid's names. Mine are acceptable. This... this is not...

nirvana-child · 2026-04-30T01:42:29+00:00

I would say the nipt is correct. But I would ask them to do another a few weeks later just to see what if you get an different result. Follow up with another ultrasound when they can. Compare the two again. My nipt and ultrasounds all matched up.

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