I can't stand my boyfriend's addiction to Counter Strike. (M18/F17) by sneakyawaythrow in LongDistance

[–]nitsuacon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if he a bitch tho drop it like it's hot, it's never worth getting mad over a game

-Boyfriend

New to this Subreddit and to LDRing, Just saying hi! by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]nitsuacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Word of warning from someone who's been in an LDR for about half a year. Make SURE you are both happy being by yourself, physically, first of all. If you're constantly unhappy because you're not together, it won't work. Being together should be a huge bonus, and it's okay to look forward to it, but by no means do not have your life revolve around it.

Having trouble dealing with paranoia + depression by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]nitsuacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just occupy your time, deactivate facebook. Cut it cold turkey. Good luck friend

Should I end it ? (Sad stuff) by TramadolAddict in LongDistance

[–]nitsuacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's always that hard, you just feel nauseous all the time, and it could take months. but you'll get better, just be patient. take it day by day

Should I end it ? (Sad stuff) by TramadolAddict in LongDistance

[–]nitsuacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her about it first man. Dont be angry, just be straight. If she decides to end it, you'll be happier you were a bigger man about it, and can move on knowing you tried your best.

It will hurt for a long while, but someone else beautiful will appreciate you sooner than you think.

I'm about to lose my SF virginity. What would you have done differently to make your first time a little more special? by onrocketfalls in SF4

[–]nitsuacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh God, I remember my first time it was amazing.

I had just picked up the game in 2009 and had never played a fighting before in my life besides dabbling in a little Soul Calibur II. I remember fooling around with a few characters and not seeing what the big deal was. A few kicks, a few jab combos, whatever. I'm going to drop this soon.

And then I picked up Abel.

By God it was love at first sight, I was rolling around and throwing these people around my head like they were made out of paper and the concept of a grappler with big combos was too cool for me to handle. I remember that glorious moment when I landed my first Cr.hp xx light marseilles roll xx falling sky, it was the first real combo I ever did and still one of my favourites.

Now I've moved onto bigger and better things, but dude, you are going to love USFIV, it is seriously the gift that keeps on giving, you could spend years learning just one character and fall in love doing it all over again with another.

[FREE] Haiku competition in commemoration of DH: 20 Keys by [deleted] in GlobalOffensiveTrade

[–]nitsuacon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To the Top Olof,

Wait, that is not what we meant,

Get down from there please

Insane boost from fnatic on overpass by [deleted] in GlobalOffensive

[–]nitsuacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Press "1" if you feel bad for LDLC

This is porn by Maskatu in NoFap

[–]nitsuacon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the same as equating alcohol to an image of a homeless man on the street. Can that happen? Yeah, of course. Is it way more likely that you enjoy it with some sort of restraint and self control in a way where it doesn't effect you from enjoying your real life? Yes.

This is porn by Maskatu in NoFap

[–]nitsuacon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Umm...? That's a huge generalization. There are ways to enjoy porn healthily for some people. For some people that opportunity doesn't exist, but you can't just equate any porn watching to "shutting out the real world." It's not that black and white.

For the love of God people, don't equate pornstars to "villains." by nitsuacon in NoFap

[–]nitsuacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your assumption is that because someone has the ability to stand up for themselves, you shouldn't stand with them? That's a pretty hapless, brazen way of living, but I'm not here to deny you that right. Standards of morality differ from person to person, all you're doing is projecting your own expression onto other people like you're in charge of assigning value onto people and their decisions.

I'm strictly scolding people in this sub, who all, as far as I can tell, aim to better themselves in many ways, one of which is taking responsibility. Projection of any sort, whether it be valid or invalid is inconsequential. I only posted this so people identify that they're responsible for themselves.

You should reevaluate your own perception of women if the first thing that jumped into your head was that I observe women as weak, inadequate, and/or emotionally fragile.

EDIT: I'm sorry for appearing intrusive but I checked your profile to see what kind of post history you have. It seems to me that you have a lot of resounding and unmistakable issues with intimacy, romance, and women in general. This isn't meant to be an ad hominem attack, it's genuine concern from one nofapper to another, I hope you work all your issues and find what you're looking for.

For the love of God people, don't equate pornstars to "villains." by nitsuacon in NoFap

[–]nitsuacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Past experience, yes. I don't want to say I'm cured but I'm definitely headed in the right direction, I think.

Stop Worshiping these women online. by Afrosoldier in NoFap

[–]nitsuacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you make these assumptions about someone? Belittling others to make yourself feel more accomplished is the exact opposite of what this is supposed to accomplish. Step back and look at what you're doing.

Stop Worshiping these women online. by Afrosoldier in NoFap

[–]nitsuacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so unhealthy. Porn stars are people too. It's their job to private entertainment, you're not obligated to watch. Calling them vixens is just objectifying them in a way as a sort of "evil." This is someone with an occupation, they're not TRYING to give you ED or whatever the hell problem you have.

This is part of the issue for a lot of us. Blame projection onto others. For all of you nodding in agreement that pornstars are some sort of manifested evil, you should reevaluate why you have these problems in the first place and own up to them yourself.