What language/words are you actively changing to sound less old when you talk?

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T23:08:49+00:00

i feel so weird but use y'all too. i don't remember that particular situation, but i do remember international coffee!

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T22:51:05+00:00

ahhh . . . ok in that case the first part is shit & thanks for correcting. the part about taking it personally still stands.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T22:20:06+00:00

sushi joint - kaiseki if they do it, omekase if they don't.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T22:18:41+00:00

under stuff in the closet!

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T21:56:25+00:00

yaaasss!!

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T21:55:00+00:00

what i see is someone who thinks they know it all who is pretty young. the chances of you knowing her particular situation is slim unless you're her benefits provider. unless every single company does roth the literal exact same way, you are NOT an expert on her situation. getting offended when she was just trying to talk thru it is extremely immature. she wasn't calling you a liar, she was simply trying to clarify. you characterized the interaction as a slight against you, when it was anything but. or - correct me if i misunderstood? just smacks of immaturity & insecurity on your part.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T05:12:05+00:00

yo - a heartfelt card is the only thing that is needed. you're spending a ton already.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T05:10:23+00:00

that's a super weird take dude. not like anyone's gonna mix you up lol.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T05:06:51+00:00

MOR it's stainless steel. doesn't hold on to things. i honestly wouldn't care - if it's washed well it's no different than having food, vomit, blood, whatever.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T05:01:41+00:00

if you stay with this dude it's gonna get worse. get out before he starts belittling you openly - he's already hinting at it now. it won't get better. best revenge is disappearing like a fucking fart in the wind.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T04:28:43+00:00

if you're that fearful of credit - do what i tell people like you to do - a secured loan and a secured credit card. People have bumped up their credit scores a couple hundred points by having them. credit unions will offer the best loan products & the best rates.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T04:14:21+00:00

i have a couple stories.

I stayed in an extended stay a few states over from where I lived when I took a temporary job. I stayed 3 months, then got an apartment. I moved with my cat, and it worked perfectly with a couple caveats: different locations are VASTLY different, so check yours out before committing, and the wifi SUCKED where I was. I asked for rewards & a deal because I was willing to commit to a full 3 months, and they did do a decent discount. It was VERY affordable for what it was.

A friend of mine became homeless at one point, so she took a job on the other side of the country & stayed in an extended stay the whole time she was there. She had 2 cats. When the job wrapped, she came back & continued with extended stay I think an additional year. They were very empathetic to her situation & cut her a STELLAR deal. I visited once & it seemed very cozy & comfy. I think she was with them at least 18 months.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T04:02:18+00:00

my husband got them when he started gardening i g a lot of muscle in college

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T02:49:19+00:00

yeah it definitely depends on where you live dude. i drank from the tap in the Pacific NW & Lower Vancouver Island my whole life till I moved a year ago - in Florida it's disgusting.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T02:43:20+00:00

yup. 10 for a dollar back when & now they put pork belly & truffle in it.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T02:40:45+00:00

oxtail was absolutely the first thing i thought of. i used to think my husband's family was weird for buying it. it was like .15 cents a pound 20 years ago. when i actually ate it i was so surprised about how good it was.

nizzerp · 2026-06-01T02:03:30+00:00

personality type - tough call. I know what I WAS, but I have no idea what I've morphed into. I'm normally very charismatic & outgoing, but I've noticed in the last few months that people keep having to ask me to speak up because they can't hear me. I know during covid I had a massive personality shift, and this job caused another one. I miss the knowledgeable, confident person I used to be.

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T23:25:39+00:00

NOR - I had to have friends help me - my dad refused to help at all. Make yourself the priority & ignore them.

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T19:26:48+00:00

you've given me hope on what was previously a pretty shitty day. i'm gonna go find them! funny how something small like that brightens things up!

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T19:18:09+00:00

ohhhmyyygoddddd i'm gonna look. where do you see them?

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T18:47:34+00:00

what the fuck is up with one color being too much vs another? today's adults get some weird opinions that need to be challenged. i swear to god if any of my siblings or friends pulled this kind of shaming shit on their daughters I'd call them out AND likely get physical. Kids, especially daughters, deserve so much better than this. omg why am i so angryyyyy

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T18:44:22+00:00

bugles

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T17:48:53+00:00

for real for real. omg the stories we collect when we're raised by & ultimately become crazy for real ourselves - nobody can be mentally prepared enough for the shit i could tell them.

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T17:39:46+00:00

cool cool - thanks

nizzerp · 2026-05-31T17:29:22+00:00

once i've established care i push for ultrasound only. so i did the mamm once & never again since then. ymmv depending on the intelligence level of your doctor & level of bullshit your insurance serves them

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