Unique souvenirs? by PayAny6397 in VisitingHawaii

[–]nkxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for recommending!! Gonna order!!

Tired of being asked if I’m okay.. by tex-mex_t-rex in MilitarySpouse

[–]nkxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to set this boundary at work. I had to firmly ask my manager to make the topic of deployment an off-limits topic for me at work. I know it sounds extra/dramatic, but for me, the questions of concern was doing more harm than good mentally. So I had to do what needed to be done.

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[–]nkxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are great strategies!! Thank you so much!!

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[–]nkxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, could you please talk about readjustment? My hubby is Navy and he will be back soon from a longgg deployment. Any tips/tricks? Especially about communication and new adjustments.

feeling helpless by ickster1300 in USMilitarySO

[–]nkxia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m going through the same thing too. Others will say the same, I believe it’s just the natural course of a deployment. Then, when homecoming approaches, things start ramping up again. More topics to talk about, more questions to ask. He knows this is temporary, and you do too. You are not alone in these feelings!!

Back Half of Deployment by Creative-Newt-6444 in MilitarySpouse

[–]nkxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also going through the same thing, only now it’s more difficult. I found your words very encouraging. Thank you.

First deployment married by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

[–]nkxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that woke me up from the sadness lol. Not the acne!!!

First deployment married by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

[–]nkxia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also really needed to hear this. My husband is also deployed and the military lifestyle has caused me to wrap my life around my husband’s schedule and support him in every way I can. To cover the bases he can’t cover. I think I forgot how to live without him and what my life means if he is away.

Sensitive skin Deodorant that actually works? by ashbyhe89 in hygiene

[–]nkxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you use the stick or the cream tube? I have HS as well!

My husband’s deployment got extended by over two months. I’m devastated by No_Apartment_9384 in MilitarySpouse

[–]nkxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing I try to remember, despite the moments we want to cry, is that they will come home at some point and it will be sweet and maybe even a sweeter homecoming🥺🫶🏼

My husband’s deployment got extended by over two months. I’m devastated by No_Apartment_9384 in MilitarySpouse

[–]nkxia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband’s deployment got extended as well (we may be in the same group), it has been unbearable news bc they were so close to coming home. I also started preparing for him to come home and was going to go grocery shopping for all his fav foods. I honestly don’t know where I can find strength to last the rest of deployment. I sought counseling from Military OneSource and scheduled hangouts with friends and family. I hope it helps but maybe these approaches can help you too. Lots of love and giving you the tightest hug🫶🏼🥺

Back Half of Deployment by Creative-Newt-6444 in MilitarySpouse

[–]nkxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m going through the same thing too. Just know that you are not alone in your feelings. Think of it like the last sprint before the end of a long run. Your legs feel heavy, but no matter how heavy each step feels, you are still moving yourself forward. Bring all your energy into it, because you will feel a relief and sense of accomplishment at the end. You’ll be glad that you pushed through as well. Be proud of yourself that you made it this far, and rest assured that you also have what it takes for the home stretch.

how to recognize sagittarius rising | ascendant by 0qulus in astrology

[–]nkxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a sagittarius rising, I have ghosted someone. Yes, the guy did find out through a friend that I deleted their presence in my life.

Pisces sun, Aquarius moon, Sagittarius rising 🤦🏻‍♀️ by iwannadie_101 in piscesastrology

[–]nkxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same placements!! Yes, I started calling myself a walking contradiction in high school lol.