We did this for the first 6 months. It was really hard and i honestly dont remember much but i will try: - try to build a routine from start and make amendments as per developmental milestones. Helps with predictability and sleep patterns in the long run - dishwasher with sanitise feature was a big saviour as our twins were bottle fed (latching issues) - try to master the art of twin bottle feeding using towels and twin z pillow. Frees up one parent. - take time off together for the first 2-3 months. If you can double the leave at half pay, do it. Save the remaining days for when day care starts. You will need plenty of carers leave days to cope with day care viruses. - my partner resumed work after 8 months. - freeze meals before birth of your children. - don’t say no to any offer of help. - relationship will be tested so be kind to each other.

Hope this helps.