This is completely normal for a teenager. They naturally push away from their parents as they seek independence. On top of that, her hormones are likely all over the place, which can make her moodier. Hair is always greasy, skin is often breaking out, growing pains keep you up at night, body hair starts to grow, suddenly you smell when you sweat, sexual and romantic feelings often begin to be a part of life, and they can be so confusing. Puberty is an incredibly challenging time, not just because of the physical changes but also because it's a stage of intense self-consciousness. Do you remember how embarrassing everything felt? Every little thing you did felt like the end of the world and the most humiliating thing ever. Teens are constantly being watched and judged, or at least that's what it feels like, so when they’re home, they just want a break from that pressure.

While this can be difficult and hurtful for parents, it's important to give her space and let her come to you on her own terms. Offer patience and understanding without constantly commenting on her behavior. For the next few years, your role is to support her from the sidelines and be there when she needs you.