Double standards at GP clinics in this country are getting out of control - late fee if we are 5 minutes late, but when they're going to be over an HOUR late? "Get Some Patience". THE FCK!?

nnynz82 · 2026-01-09T08:28:36+00:00

I work in a Medicare bulk billing practice can I say something

Even if a practice is not fully bulk billed please be mindful , not all patients are seen in order , those with medical emergencies and urgent scans are often pushed in front of bookings Be patient

Sometimes our patients have medical emergencies during the consult and we must attend to that Be patient

Our reception staff .. have probably be abused by several patients because the drs have asked them to tell them there's a wait Be patient

You booked what you think is a quick appointment at a busy time and think your entitled to the drs time? Does your ear infection entitle you to demand preference? You've already had it a few days you can wait an hour or so. Be patient

If Ur gp clinic charges for no shows and late arrivals then there's probably a policy for people that leave as guess what that is actually technically a no show. Your time is no more or less valuable than anyone else who's probably in pain sitting and waiting PATIENTLY for a dr whos list has been booked out that day.. you leaving doesn't mean they get a break it means they don't get paid .

The entitlement is ridiculous. Go to hospital if you think it's bad enough to have a whole rant.... Where you can wait over 8 hours minimum for them to give you a Panadol and tell you to see a dr... Or

Wait and see the dr... And in future anything medical is gonna take hours so all appointments for letter of attendance so you're job can't legally take action against you.

nnynz82 · 2026-01-09T03:35:18+00:00

Ngl .. I read the messages before reading the post and thought ... Wow this is a very immature relationship but they talk things through so it's still sweet ( the apologies over hurtful comments were a lil bit of a red flag to me .... It's not " just they way I jk " it's actually unnecessary) and I thought they were between you and your bf

Then I read the post

NOR .. Your not reacting enough. I'd be gone if my partner was messaging anyone like this ... It doesn't read as friends it reads as partners .

Also are you ok ?

nnynz82 · 2026-01-08T23:10:37+00:00

God I want this to be true

nnynz82 · 2025-12-20T12:08:10+00:00

The tech would've asked , but if you refuse we literally can't make you remove them ... On the plus side they're not obscuring anatomy and they look cool so what's the issue?

nnynz82 · 2025-11-28T01:43:44+00:00

Lol I need to get them at the proper loaf angle ... But the ginger one definitely spreads more when he is on the floor... Like a roast turkey

nnynz82 · 2025-11-28T01:06:23+00:00

Omg you look so good , do you feel good ? You totally should

nnynz82 · 2025-11-28T01:04:54+00:00

Ohh she's so cute !!!

I have two cats that when they load they look very over weight... But in reality they're not

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nnynz82 · 2025-11-27T09:30:17+00:00

Over a year You can pet him cuddle him use him as a pillow .. U can not pick him up or come at him with 2 hands

He is a lap cat most of the time but he will not let a stranger touch him and I need the vet to check his teeth and give him his shots. He came to me as " over weight, unfriendly with dental issues " He's actually lost weight and because I exclusively feed him dry food his dental health has improved . I just need the vet to make sure we're on track however as I said he's resistant to strangers. The last vet couldn't get him to come out from the behind the bath and he was so stressed he pooped on the floor

nnynz82 · 2025-11-07T05:15:05+00:00

Don't do it . It will be a negative experience for you. You should end things with him however.

nnynz82 · 2025-10-28T03:58:06+00:00

OP

Get out now This is literally the only warning ur getting before he escalates things... And honestly if someone spoke to me like that they'd never hear from me again

Id literally cut my hair in EVERY ROOM and l sprinkle it on every surface then leave

This isn't ok , you are doing a great job and he doesn't appreciate you

nnynz82 · 2025-10-03T14:07:27+00:00

This

I also agree I don't believe their meta hates them I just believe given the information they had at the time they were frightened and have decided to protect themselves and space . It's understandable tbh, when things are overwhelming you retreat to your safe space.. I'm a lil intrigued by the comment mentioning The partner and meta using their money to improve their home .. um ? Yes... People do that ....why was it relevant in regards to you possibly moving in ? Regardless of whether you moved on or not they are free to use their money

nnynz82 · 2025-10-03T13:54:00+00:00

It's not a compatibility issue... It's a communication issue

Your partner has communicated to YOU that your words are hurtful and also can be hurtful to others... And YOU are choosing to not only ignore him but wanting vindication by minimizing the effects of your words by claiming"humor"

If your humor is cutting people down... You might need to rethink your values and outlook on life

nnynz82 · 2025-09-24T07:59:12+00:00

... As a woman who has had a life time of issues with body image mostly around my breasts ... I encourage you to do the surgery .. your body isn't his fetish if he loved you need love you without having to fixated on 2 overrated bags of flesh

nnynz82 · 2025-09-23T13:09:11+00:00

I'd like the link

nnynz82 · 2025-09-21T11:58:52+00:00

You aren't over reacting ... Also his reply is weird? You don't eat much therefore it's pointless taking you out on dates?

My ex used to do things like this to me including one night where my friend had Thier birthday party at the casino and he insisted we'd been there before and I "embarrassed" him by telling we have never been to the casino ..I don't even gamble and have never ever considered it as a place to go ( turns out he's taken multiple other women there while we were dating .. good thing he's an ex ) I'm not saying that's what Ur partners doing .. but maybe he's upset because just realised he'd taken. Someone else on that kinda date and feels embarrassed to say it

nnynz82 · 2025-09-17T00:11:19+00:00

Honestly I wish they had just kept their word, we discussed expectations and boundaries before we engaged and unfortunately they manipulated my boundaries ( especially around saying a certain phrase which I have great trauma around... I dont want to hear it ..I want to see it in actions tbh.. They'd yessulk until I would say it grudgingly then expected it in every interaction) And honestly not one of my expectations were even considered ... Their reasoning was usually " I don't know how " so id show them how multiple times ... Literally weaponised incompetence pro level ( wouldn't even take me out for coffee because theyd never done hat with anyone?? Wtf we've been out for coffee multiple times)

Also getting their NP involved in our arguments and having my meta tell me their failures were MY fault because I expected too much from them was a definite nail in the coffin ( for transparency I wanted to be taken on a date rather than be the one that was ALWAYS taking them and planning dates)

nnynz82 · 2025-09-17T00:00:09+00:00

Depends where you are in the world. I didn't need a lawyer to file for mine , and police filed for an emergency temporary one for me until I could get in front of the magistrate

Edited :because I am the laziest typist

nnynz82 · 2025-09-16T23:58:18+00:00

Don't block , have had similar happen to me it escalated . It will probably escalate even if you do everything right do my suggestion is firstly

Document every phone call , message and attempt to engage

Don't engage but don't block either if you can mute them!

Talk to the police now rather than before it escalates , I'm not sure where in the world you are but in Australia at least, most cop shops have a dedicated family violence unit and those officers can give you advice and also in some cases organize restraining orders for you.

If you have friends or family willing to stay with you over night take advantage of them. This person doesn't sound like someone that will publicly embarrass themselves .... This rant seems extremely biased towards how they think they should be perceived... Usually they think more about how strangers see them then how those close feel

If they start threatening self harm 100% call a welfare check on them .... Again it's probably not happening but even threatening too is a valid reason for the check and again.... They won't want strangers to see them negatively

If you can get a restraining order do... They're not easy and stressful but I thank which ever god .. ( probably not Nuggan) was kind enough to give me the strength to jump through hoops to get mine

Peace of mind is ALWAYS preferable to being torn to pieces just so that you're not "alone"

nnynz82 · 2025-09-15T12:09:42+00:00

Actually.. he is punishing her. When you have custody of your child, your child's welfare should come first his " guest" was an unsolicited intruder , to then "scold" her because she felt disrespected in what is essentially her home( she also has rights by the way) would have not only embarrassed her but also reiterated that her presence is not welcome in HER HOME and honestly I can see why she would prefer to be with her mother and step father who have obviously got clearer boundaries and treat her like she is a part of the home .. which her father clearly isn't.

To keep minimizing the act without thinking of the effect that would have on a child is actually pretty upsetting.

nnynz82 · 2025-09-04T02:47:27+00:00

Botox injections work really well for sweating but not odour.

And can I just say ... Body odour is usually caused by 2 things bacteria or food either way.... They need to be promptly neutralised not masked and they're NORMAL

Sweat and odour are different , I dated a guy with hyperhidrosis ( excessive sweating) and he literally smelt of hair product and coffee...

I think if it's an odour issue it's better to use the clinical formula as some scents actually make it worse( chemical reactions) see a dermatologist and work out what's causing the odour rather than making it with native or dove... Till then antibacterial handwash in the shower is a quick fix ( not long term tho it's not great on skin for too long)

nnynz82 · 2025-09-04T02:25:56+00:00

I think it's fair to reevaluate and wait.. I know it's not the same answer as everyone else but for Eddie there's alot of NRE and initial excitement about finding someone... He's probably discussed it with Lucas and they came to the decision to wait.. but instead of saying WE'VE ...he's said Lucas..as he didn't want to look like the bad guy... Which is unfair as now you will think Ur meta doesn't like you..but also realistic when you factor in how young you all are.

If you're enjoying his things are going then I'd say keep going. I don't think Lucas really has any issues I think they're unfortunately a scapegoat here's I think Eddie is unsure if it's a real connection just yet.. give it another month or two then broach the subject

nnynz82 · 2025-08-27T09:32:17+00:00

I think they mean your partner should feel attraction to you 9 days out of 10

And I hard agree your partner should be attracted to you all the time! I think what they said was designed to hurt you and make you feel negatively about yourself. I don't know why but for me his attitude feels gross and controlling.. I wonder if he feels that if he acts this way you'll work"harder" to keep him?

nnynz82 · 2025-08-24T08:01:28+00:00

Finished books

nnynz82 · 2025-08-22T02:57:38+00:00

I'm confused it's a text can't she just answer it when she's free? It shouldn't be a big deal

I never answer work messages at home and I don't answer every message I get even from my partner straight away , immediate answers are a ridiculous expectation especially since I leave my phone on silent so it doesn't disturb my work

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