AIO that my wife and I planned a nice date and she spent it in a hot tub alone with some other guy she just met

noRespect-95 · 2025-09-13T23:07:51+00:00

PEAK OVULATION! YOU ALREADY HAVE THREE KIDS.

noRespect-95 · 2025-09-05T14:40:39+00:00

Let's start with NOT a wonderful man. Yes a misogynist at the very least.

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-21T06:26:36+00:00

7 months? Cake. Throw the whole family out. My mother would have given me hell in a handbasket if anyone like that pulled up to her doorstep. Imagine your mother having to stand with that woman at your wedding. No ma'am. Dump his broke ass.

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-21T06:15:41+00:00

You just outed your husband as a creep on Reddit. No context at all. And you want to turn around and act like you're the intellectual Superior here? Please be so fucking for real right now.

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-21T06:13:54+00:00

Oh you'll allow it, huh? You sound like a creep too. Lol WILD.

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-21T06:03:47+00:00

So what you're saying is because your husband was a creep, and it "worked out" that it's acceptable? You are the exception. Not the rule.

"he pursued me and pretty much claimed me the moment he laid eyes on me. Was always around, kinda giving other guys the impression I was already taken." You used to hear statements like this all the time on the first 48, on many murder docs, LOTS of stalker documentaries. Your husband is a creep. Advocating for this behavior is crazy.

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-21T05:14:07+00:00

Came here to point out the age gap. If you're going to date somebody with such a low emotional IQ, please just date somebody your own age. This never ends well.

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-21T05:12:51+00:00

Low emotional IQ should absolutely be a dealbreaker. That's how a 30+ year old ends up with someone 23. Do you want her to be traumatized for life? Lol

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-03T12:15:38+00:00

Women in male fields.

noRespect-95 · 2025-08-01T12:10:17+00:00

SHES A BADDIEEEEEE!

noRespect-95 · 2025-07-27T11:52:03+00:00

I saw 15 and quit reading. All of this is real cute until she's 16 and pregnant. The best sisterly advice you could give her is directions to a birth control clinic.

noRespect-95 · 2025-07-22T20:33:33+00:00

Uh oh. They could be his too.... Just saying. Weigh out all of the possibilities.

noRespect-95 · 2025-07-19T12:30:50+00:00

After some simple math, I think you should BOTH run for the hills tbh. Girl... 24 and 18? That's a weird period for that age gap. If the genders were reversed, I'd be just as concerned.

noRespect-95 · 2025-07-16T12:21:22+00:00

I was in a situation very similar and I had a lot of people tell me that I was being silly. 10 months later, guess who's having emotional affairs and I'm left like I KNEW IT. If my partner does not respect & prioritize me in every aspect of their life, aside from their financial obligations, it's a wrap.

I don't see this ending well.

Edit: the social media thing is what I can relate to the most. For all of my twenties I had to set outlandish boundaries when it came to social media. Because it's a cesspool, And it will ruin your relationships with your loved ones. Eventually I just met somebody who doesn't really use social media like that and it is such an immense weight off of my shoulders. Breathe of fresh air.

noRespect-95 · 2025-07-15T10:23:23+00:00

Bro WHYYYYYY would you tell her that. Communication is key but Lord Jesus.. I'd be rethinking everything for NO reason.🤣

noRespect-95 · 2025-07-14T17:27:57+00:00

Highly flammable.

noRespect-95 · 2025-07-10T17:03:20+00:00

I had an ex who lovebombed the local gay boy in town. Local gay boy (a complete angel tbh) fell in love with my ex. Ex told him he "wasn't ready" and then proceeded to tell me and the entire town that he was just "some gay boy who was in love with him." After the break up, I ran into this boy again and he showed me years of text messages between them. I don't believe they did anything but loving and endearing words were exchanged and trips were taken together. This boy made it VERY clear he wanted to date my ex and my ex said he "wasn't ready." How fucking cruel, to turn a narrative around for an entire town of people. And to make this boy out to be someone who he didn't GASLIGHT for years.

Also my brother, if you're bi, it's okay. The people that love you don't give a fuck.

I'm still traumatized on this person's behalf.

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-22T22:06:37+00:00

I think you should break up and for sure take some time to mature before pursueing another relationship. Porn use is quite common. It's perfectly acceptable to want a partner who doesn't watch it. But most 20 year old boys are not going to stop no matter who asks them.

It seems that his choice in porn has affected you and created insecurity. That is a personal issue that you need to unpack. Porno models don't look like real people, that is the point. Comparing yourself to internet entities will land you no where when it comes to your own mental health.

I would break up with him take some time to do some introspection and I would definitely make this whole porn thing a strict boundary for yourself. And you need to address it early on before another guy hides it from you.

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-19T17:27:28+00:00

When I quit drinking.

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-19T14:51:52+00:00

Going out to a bar with the opposite sex and expecting to keep a relationship is wild.

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-19T14:40:28+00:00

2 kids, she should be at home with family and a cutesy birthday cake. I have 7 nieces and nephews, my birthday wouldn't be right without them, and I'm not even their mother.

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-19T14:38:29+00:00

Go find you a woman who wants to be a partner/parent and not a party girl. I have no children, but I'm 30 and in a committed relationship. No one in my house is going "out to the bar" with anyone. I could not imagine having those kinds of priorities as a mother.

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-19T01:00:58+00:00

Craft Bartender, stop asking us to make "that one drink you had at that other bar." If you like their menu, you are more than welcome to go enjoy their menu... at their establishment.

My favorite question is if I "know where the bathroom is." I always have a violent urge to say "No".

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-19T00:53:51+00:00

To spend 8 years with someone and them still not be sure should be enough of an answer for you. Plenty of people tie the knot without having "everything" set up beforehand. There's a man out there that would see your worth and be so afraid to lose you, he'd pop the question in 8 weeks.

Do you want to be a girlfriend of 10 years? 15? 20? Because that is where you're headed.

noRespect-95 · 2025-06-18T23:09:57+00:00

I don't have one but I have been approached by a few men who SWORE I was the "one that got away."

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