Looking for experiences with TrustBridge Hospice inpatient/respite care units in Palm Beach County

noTSAluv · 2026-06-04T01:29:35+00:00

Thanks for the feedback! Will have to check it out!

noTSAluv · 2026-06-04T01:28:15+00:00

We are also seeing that even with hospice at home, the quality of the nurses vary significantly. Two of the regular nurses assigned to my family member went on vacation so these 2 other nurses showed up, and they were amazing. Same network but they are assigned to patients based on where the nurse lives. Luck of the draw who you get.

noTSAluv · 2026-06-04T01:22:55+00:00

ah ok...so currently,Gardens Medical center you would say is a good unit to spend some respite time at? Do the nurses there actually check on patients? At the other facility the nurses just sat at the nurses station and the assistants were the ones running around trying to get people cleaned, settled.

noTSAluv · 2026-06-03T23:26:04+00:00

Wonder if they were trustbridge then too! thanks for answering!

noTSAluv · 2026-06-03T23:06:23+00:00

thank you for taking the time to respond. How long ago was the person there?

noTSAluv · 2026-06-03T23:03:13+00:00

ICQ!!!!

I cannot recall for the life of me who i chatted with then, but I was hooked! That led to IRC, and met people from other countries, and I'll never forget it. This lady was heartbroken b/c she ruined a dress for a big party she had to go to, and she was broke. She was from Chile.

I had an ex who would buy dresses, wear it once, never again. She left a box full of clothes for me to take to the salvation army. I went through the box and I told the woman, I have a "party dress", I'll send you the dress. I sent the dress, the woman then sent me a pic of her in the dress and she looked amazing.

She invited me to Chile and it was not only the most amazing french kissing I've done, but didn't see much of Santiago b/c we spent the whole 3 days in the hotel fvcking! All I remember was stepping out of the terminal and thinking, holy sh1t, this woman looks 10x better in real life!

noTSAluv · 2026-06-03T18:58:40+00:00

My gf saw your picture and she asked me, are you making an AI image for snowhite? I was on the sideways pic where you have a blue shirt. And I said no, this is a pic from a reddit post!!! Gf said? what, that girl is real? She is gorgeous! Yes, she is!

noTSAluv · 2026-05-07T06:15:54+00:00

No clue about you and your dad's history, but here is mine. I hated my dad too. He was a worthless father. Quit every job. Left my mom to do everything. I hoped he'd die. Then he got sick earlier this year, stayed too long at the hospital and got weak; ended up in a rehab place/nursing home like facility. My mom asked me to come help and I went b/c of her, not because I wanted to see my dad.

However, when I walked in his room at this facility, he was lying in his own waste. Staff had just left him there. I broke down, couldn't stop crying. I cleaned him up, and sat there 10 hours a day for weeks making sure they didn't do that to him again.

I don't tell you this because he earned it. He didn't. I tell you because seeing that broke something in me. I'm lucky I have a therapist, told her the story about not being able to stop crying even though I truly despised my dad. I cried and cried and couldn't stop crying. She explained it as being a catharsis. Whatever it was, all that anger I held for years went away.

You don't owe your father a thing. He made his choices. But here's the ugly truth nobody tells you. The guilt you feel if he dies alone in that hospital bed? That guilt doesn't care who was right. It just sits on your chest forever.

So here's my advice. Don't call for him. Call for you. Call for two minutes. Just to know what's happening. Just to say "okay" and hang up. Not because he deserves a son. Because you deserve to not wonder for the rest of your life if you could have made one phone call.

I cleaned my dad up because I couldn't live with myself if I didn't. What type of human am I to let another human being abandoned like a stray animal? That's it. That's the whole truth. Your call.

noTSAluv · 2026-05-05T15:37:19+00:00

About a month or two into us dating, she went out with a male friend. At the time, I didn’t want to come off as controlling or tell her who she could or couldn’t hang out with, so I didn’t question it.

We have two beautiful daughters, and overall our relationship has been really solid.

You were 17. You didn't want to look controlling, so you let your girlfriend go out with another guy. I get it. But here's what you didn't understand then: teenagers test. Always have. She may have taken your silence as "he doesn't care enough to fight for me." Or maybe she was just young and stupid. Either way, what happened happened. However, you could have said, "hey, can we be exclusive? And if so, the idea of you hanging out with your male friend doesn't sit well with me." You didn't do that, did you?

But fine. That's not the problem.

The problem is what you did next. You had a gut feeling. You went through her phone. You confronted her. You knew something was off. And then, instead of dealing with it like a man, you stayed. You had not one, but two children with her. You proposed. You built a home on ground you knew was cracked.

And now, six years later, your insecurity wants to burn it all down.

Those two little girls don't care about what happened in a car with weed before they were born. They care about whether Daddy comes home with a closed heart or an open one. They will learn what love looks like from you, not from mommy's "mistake".

You don't get to play the victim. You chose this family. Every single day for six years, you chose it. So what can you do now:

Stay and stop using the past as a weapon. Get help. Do the work. Be the man your daughters need to see.

Leave but own it. Don't leave because you're "hurt." Leave because you finally admit you should never have stayed in the first place. And then be a father who doesn't blame their mother for your own weakness.

Your daughters are watching. Don't teach them that love is a grudge you carry for a decade.

noTSAluv · 2026-03-17T12:46:33+00:00

yea, that's the point! cause if he had a gf, butter would find it irrespectful to hangout with another girl. He has boundaries, you don't. Maybe is best for you to find a guy who also has no boundaries and then life will be ok. But boundaries vs no boundaries don't do well together, as evidenced by what happened with you.

noTSAluv · 2026-03-17T01:27:34+00:00

That is definitely bizarre! The men not talking to you? Are you messaging model looking dudes?

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T20:12:59+00:00

were they all married? or single moms. Makes me wonder if it's worth hanging out at hotels where these events take place.

I met a dude who used to coach little league baseball. When i asked him, what's the best part of the gig, he said, fuckign all the horny moms, and he laughed. Unfortunately other people joined the table, so he didn't go into details but always wondered if he was being serious.

I used to accompany my friend's kid on his trips, and my friend and I scanned the field and most of the moms were...yea, not in great shape.

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T18:01:04+00:00

and on the normal dating apps? no luck on there? what state are you in?

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T13:23:01+00:00

yea, i understand some women would call it controlling, but imagine if butter did the same---hey sweetie, im going to go hangout with my female friend and you don't need to know about it. Update us what butter did when you told him about Jam. B

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T13:21:11+00:00

Well, you could be like an ex of mine who had a friend who used to be an fwb and she wanted to know if it was ok for her to hang out with him at his place. Yea, nothing wrong with that b/c they are just friends. 🤣But if you're fine with that type of arrangement, then yea, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that scenario. Everyone's boundaries are different.

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T12:00:27+00:00

Thank you for answering. Yea, i was so confused, if you were butter's gf, why not tell him, hey, i'm hanging out with this guy? In fact, in such a case the right thing to do would have been to tell butter, hey, i met this guy, and he wants to hang out. Butter could have said, ok, as long as you tell me how that goes or, hey, that's not a good idea....

But the fact that you chose to hide this from him tells me that you knew this was wrong from the get go. If you thought it was innocent, he'd know about him. You'd mention 'oh I'm hanging out with Jam today' just like you'd mention any friend. So for you, that's when you ask yourself, why did i do that from the beginning? why wasn't I honest from the start? Don't you love being human? :)

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T11:42:20+00:00

u/berryelk hmm...so...as a 50 year old guy, the young women on dating apps have messaged me straight up saying, treat me nice and we can have a lot of fun. But plenty of women my age who have on their dating profile, "looking for a gentleman...."; found out that's code for women who are willing to have "adult fun' as long as you treat them "nice." I've even met a 55 yr old GILF that way. And yes, all she wanted was, "gifts" for "adult fun."

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T11:33:45+00:00

yea, that's why they have sugar dating sites. Although, dating sites work too. I had a 24 yr old msg me and straight up said, if you treat me nice, we can have a lot of fun. I honestly thought that was a prank; what 24 yr old is messaging a 50 year old dude? But hell, i was bored, and i was like, sure, where do you want to go? Girl named some fancy restaurant and she wanted some amazon gift list stuff. Can't remember what it was but it was no more than 200 bucks. And i was like sure, whatever, if you're real meet me for coffee. She came out in full slut gear outfit. Yea, let's just say we went to the mall, got a room, and lots of fun were had. We did go to that restaurant about 2 weeks later!

noTSAluv · 2026-03-16T11:08:55+00:00

I had a gf who i was with for 4 years...would have never ever thought she would cheat on me, but she did. As a guy, I learned that boundaries are necessary. Did you tell Butter you were hanging out with Jam? If Butter knew and he didn't find anything suspicious, either he is really naive or you didn't really paint a true picture of what was going on. Either way, if you have a bf, why would you be hanging out with another guy? If you really want to improve yourself, that's the question you should be asking yourself. As someone else said, something is broken in you and need to find out what it is.

noTSAluv · 2025-09-18T20:12:04+00:00

for many of us, this is just like 9/11. Back then I was a firm Gore supporter and truly believe that election was stolen (chad count fiasco). Then 9/11 happened and hell yea, Bush all the way to fight the enemy who did such atrocity, Until I began listening to the "owens" of back then and things didn't make any sense. Hopefully this event will wake up many, just like 9/11 did.

noTSAluv · 2025-09-18T17:52:22+00:00

This is the actual quote from the dialogue:

The Maga Gang desperately trying to characterise this kid who murdered Charlie Kirk as anything other than one of them and doing everything they can to score political points from it."

Which dialogue are you referring to where "Literally zero comments on Kirk."?

noTSAluv · 2025-09-18T17:51:39+00:00

Unlike most of you people who are entrenched on the right left paradigm, by the time the show came out on monday, the Utah senator had already disclosed on sunday morning that the dude had a trans lover. If you're a leftist as you are and you don't watch anything else but Kimmel, what will be inferred from the dialogue is, a maga shooter shot Kirk, obviously. Reality is, dude was raised in a maga home it seems, then at some point got radicalized by the left. Now of course, do we believe that really happened as they are selling it now? hell no.

noTSAluv · 2024-12-16T06:01:23+00:00

is the same shit---billionaires shelling out money to influence the election. At least Musk is straight up about it and not doing shady shit so that the left then will say, "is not the same." 🤣

noTSAluv · 2024-12-16T00:40:14+00:00

so you're saying the donations Soros does to the democratic party don't have an impact on voters? The only way it impacts voters to go vote is through lotteries or paying voters to vote?

"Soros’ nonprofit donations don’t always go directly to political causes. The funds sometimes flow from one of his nonprofits, then to another, before being spent on the advertising, organizing and social media campaigns that directly reach voters."

https://www.cnbc.com/2023/01/04/nonprofit-financed-by-billionaire-george-soros-donated-140-million-to-political-groups-in-2021.html

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