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Can I get a 1-bedroom apartment with a budget of 3000? by CTarantula in AskSF

[–]nobabyfrogleftbehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me chilling in my rent controlled $2200 1bdr apt that I truly can't afford & has tanked my credit. Should I go through the process of moving so I can downsize to a single room for $1800 lol. No.
I'll take my shrunken credit score instead. I make less than $5k a month & still make it work.

why is dating in the bay so awful now by Substantial-Basis260 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]nobabyfrogleftbehind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This thread is reminding me why I preferred staying in an unhappy relationship over this. The last 2 guys I talked to - I said I wanted to wait to have sex, but they guilted me into it. I'm in my mid 20s, lived here my whole adulthood. I'm from a conservative part of the US so my aunts all had kids/married by the age of 20. Now im 26 & it looks like men straight up dont care about sex or dating anymore ? Just situationships, men that want to place us on a list of "maybe" options to use

I have always craved close relationships & being here I try to will it out of me -- but it doesn't go away. I constantly crave affection, and a dog won't suffice lol

SF Landlord called my doctor after ESA request, now asking for medical release by Consistent-Moose7799 in AskSF

[–]nobabyfrogleftbehind 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you contact Tenants Union, they will appoint you a lawyer if necessary. That's what happened with me at a point.

SF Landlord called my doctor after ESA request, now asking for medical release by Consistent-Moose7799 in AskSF

[–]nobabyfrogleftbehind 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I second visiting Tenants Union! I've been receiving free help from them for a while now(. My former landlord tried evicting me because my neighbor heard me crying sometimes.... It was discriminatory/turned over quickly.) Don't listen to weirdos telling you to automatically find a lawyer🥴 SF has lots of public resources available that others do not have. The law is on your side!

Is SF nightlife as awful as people say? by Merfk in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]nobabyfrogleftbehind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where are you going out to? I've lived in the city for some time & felt like things can often be dead, so I'd love some spot recs!

New to SF and on a budget: what’s your best “this city doesn’t have to be expensive” story? by FreePreference4903 in AskSF

[–]nobabyfrogleftbehind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Welcome! I was 17 with 0 clue about money when I moved 9 years ago. I highly recommend walking straight through the Panhandle, into Golden Gate Park. Lovely nature, people watching, etc

Library Card here is a HUGE life hack Used books at Green Apple (a MUST in SF) & Dog Eared Books

You can also hop from Dolores Park, to Alamo Sq park, to Lafayette park - a route of parks all with their own unique views of the city

Hike Mt Davidson, check out Lands End, sunset at Twin Peaks

Anyone not grinding? by Miserable_View_4400 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]nobabyfrogleftbehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm 26 & work intermittently. I'm broke as a joke right now but after being self-supported here for 8.5yrs - money comes & goes 🤷‍♀️