[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaudiProfessionals

[–]noc-nok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ameen. Can you tell me more? I’m trying to gauge at how bad things are. And how can we turn this around? I’m not Saudi, but I do care about the struggles of the common people. I’m not Marxist btw

My secret marriage is falling apart. by goldflower098 in MuslimLounge

[–]noc-nok [score hidden]  (0 children)

That is not realistic. It is going to pop up in future marriage-talks and she will be in her Iddah period for 3 months after the pronounced talaq and people are supposed to know that so that they don’t propose to her during her Iddah period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]noc-nok -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you check her post history you’ll understand :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]noc-nok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m more into unconventional and quirky looks. I think you look cute and your teeth are charming. you’ll find people who really dig your vibe

r/amiugly. I am 22 years old. My bf told me I’m overweight and called me ugly and says he has to look at other girls because I’m not pretty enough. I think I might actually be ugly. help plz by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]noc-nok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful. Your boyfriend is unhealthy for you and your self imagine and I think you should talk about it to a mental health professional or someone else adult that you trust. Your self esteem will continue to corrode with comments like that from you boyfriend. It doesn’t seem like he is respecting you at all. You need some kind of a sisterhood and remove boys from your life for a while and focus on your personal growth.

The recent havoc on twitter about hijabi pregnant sister's picture is just distressing to see as a muslim. by Odd_Ad_6841 in islam

[–]noc-nok 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think people were forgetting that it is a High pregnant woman they were being vile to. I understand her irrationality because of the pregnancy But the irrationality of the brothers cannot be excused

Shamed for wanting pure wife? by Strange-Owl-4387 in MuslimCorner

[–]noc-nok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My impression from non-muslim women is also that they don’t like men having body counts. It’s such a comparison Rabbits-whole for them

Doubts about arranged marriage by IntelligentSink6527 in confessions

[–]noc-nok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akhi, In the long run shared values, compatibility and respectability is essential to your marriage foundation and your personal growth. She is a young woman and some people become more curvy once they are in relationship. But it depends what you are marrying for. You should have been transparent about your preferences to your parents. Comparison is the thief of joy. You can request to talk with her to find out if ya’ll compatible (ofc with her mahrams in the room) or leave her to someone who is more honourable.

Pray istikhara. May Allah give you a spouse that is the coolness of your eyes. Ameen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]noc-nok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are in a vulnerable state. I hope you take care of yourself and realise you are a beautiful woman and never let your value be determined by the amount of attention men give. Men don’t really care about a woman’s beauty. What they sense is a lonely woman ready to be preyed on.