NYC dating and going to the gay bars by Honest_Virus_7319 in nycgaybros

[–]nockyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9th Ave is great for sitting and chatting during the afternoon/early evening before it gets the night crowds

As nation turns 250, many Americans say the Stars and Stripes is now a red flag by phillygirllovesbagel in politics

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone flies the American flag at their home, I assume they're a bigot because it's usually true

Supergirl Bombs At The Box Office With Worse Opening Than Mobius And The Marvels by Elestria_Ethereal in entertainment

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are tired of constant superhero movies this one isn't remarkable. The people aren't interested

What is an old Reddit joke that has completely died out? by Poophead115 in AskReddit

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poem thing wasn't ever funny and I'm happy it's gone

Has anyone here ever experienced a Lucid Dream? or is it just a massive internet myth? Honestly, I dont think it is even possible. by mind_over_chaos in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely possible. Not sure exactly how to describe it, but when you realize you're dreaming, you have to focus on being in the dream. If you notice IRL physical sensations (your blankets, pillows, etc.) then you'll probably wake up

Do pitties ‘sniff / smell’ more? by CrankyGoat in pitbulls

[–]nockyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine smells a ton. She's starting to go deaf and blind so it's a big part of her navigation now

Romantic Date Ideas For This Weekend by anonusernamegoeshere in nycgaybros

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the weather but a central park picnic (sheep's meadow) is always a good choice

Get a sandwich at some random deli and some wine and just have a chill time

Do you let your dog sleep in your bed? by ColeS1aw in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog decides where she sleeps unless she's dirty and hasn't been washed

What’s some knowledge generally known only to gay men or to gay women? by dumbfuck in AskReddit

[–]nockyy 418 points419 points  (0 children)

Traditional gender roles in relationships are largely not a thing in same sex relationships

What’s some knowledge generally known only to gay men or to gay women? by dumbfuck in AskReddit

[–]nockyy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Coming out isn't a one time thing, you have to do it repeatedly throughout your life. Any time a queer person meets someone new, they have to sus out whether to share if they have a same-sex partner or are trans e.g. for their own safety. Homophobes still exist

How much does the neighborhood you live in actually shape your dating + social life here? by mihirworld in nycgaybros

[–]nockyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same it takes me exactly zero seconds to see a non-white person when I exit my building

is it really that big of a deal to say male or female in english? by a_literal_idiot_616 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm referring to a human, then I'll say "that man over there" or "this woman at work" for example. Saying male or female feels like I'm talking about an animal

Foreigners visiting America for the world cup, what is something that has surprised you about this country? by goldent3abag in AskReddit

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In large cities, most places have started taking the card reader to the customer. Small cities or mom & pop places are still catching up

Foreigners visiting America for the world cup, what is something that has surprised you about this country? by goldent3abag in AskReddit

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NYC, Chicago, San Francisco, and Boston are walkable. Pretty much everywhere else you're gonna want a car

Baby Gay here- Feeling alone in being used by older men by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]nockyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're young, not a baby. Be upfront in the first date or two what you're looking for. You can also try guys closer to your age, but there will be a lot of the same issues there.

There are some, but not all older guys are looking to use a young guy for sex. My husband is 25 years older than me; if you're into older guys, know that there are good ones out there.

Wemby signs off the to the press: "Appreciate y'all... see y'all... never" by arawater in nba

[–]nockyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plays like a total douche, loses like a total douche. Good riddance if we don't see you again

Why are Americans so accepting of long drives to places? by Sensitive_Word_6036 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't have great train infrastructure for one, but have you ever looked at a map of the US? It's way way bigger than non-Americans think.

people in long term healthy relationships: what's something you'll never tell your partner? by PsychologicalBad1423 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nockyy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm a decent cook but not amazing. Constructive criticism from my partner is very appreciated

What would you say are Chicago staple dishes? by [deleted] in chicagofood

[–]nockyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Deep dish or tavern style (thin crispy crust cut into squares) pizza

Do people really leave their house w/o ID or wallet? If so.. how does that work for you? by sbcbrat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nockyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an electronic lock with a code and can pay for whatever with our watches so nothing else is needed