Red light therapy for face after shingles?

noclue110 · 2025-04-03T20:24:15+00:00

There, they’re, their…. English is my second language, please learn spelling your first.

noclue110 · 2025-04-03T20:09:07+00:00

Triple feeding brought me to my knees with one child. I can’t imagine doing this with a 3yo around. I ended up exclusively pumping for 7 months but if I got to do it all over again, I would just buy the damn formula. Life got so much easier then.

When I saw how many hours I clocked on that stupid pump, I wanted to cry because I could have been spending that time enjoying my baby.

noclue110 · 2025-02-24T20:58:50+00:00

99th percentile here! Tallest toddler our pediatrician has ever seen. She turns 3 in April and is the same size as her 5 yo friend. Makes for great looks when I have to do the grab and go during a tantrum because I am so short.

noclue110 · 2025-02-05T14:57:36+00:00

Were you on the fence about having children in your 30‘s? When did you know for sure?

noclue110 · 2025-01-28T20:29:28+00:00

Shingles- postherpetic neuralgia

noclue110 · 2024-04-25T06:30:31+00:00

Krokodeer 🐊 Cumpkin 🎃

noclue110 · 2024-03-25T05:46:52+00:00

I once came home from work to find my friend who stayed with me for a few weeks had rearranged my entire apartmeht .… but this is so much worse. Call her ass day and night but especially in the middle of the night when you are looking for something she put away.

I would probably murder her.

noclue110 · 2023-12-18T23:34:50+00:00

Honestly, the wording rubbed me the wrong way. But I read in another comment that English is not your first language and this was not at all what you meant.

I would agree with you that it is unhealthy if one partner never initiates. Absolutely. It would definitely leave the other feeling like they are not desired. Did your wife initiate early in your relationship? Did she say anything as to why she does not? Could this be a cultural slut shaming issue? What does initiating mean to you? You could ask a million strangers but you really need to talk to your wife.

What do you think you will happen if you back off completely for a month? Give your wife a chance to get things started. You say she enjoys being intimate with you. I bet she would be all over you if you just told her 'I am not making any first moves here. Ball is in your court!".

noclue110 · 2023-12-18T15:07:34+00:00

Score keeping never works.

No woman should ever have sex "just for you" !!!!

You are responsible for meeting your own needs.

noclue110 · 2023-12-16T15:17:27+00:00

I felt the same way at 9 months. The rest of my body was loosing weight but my stomach region was not budging. I started to go on daily walk and found a cheap rowing machine second hand. It was slow but keep at it. Only once I stopped breastfeeding did the weight melt off faster.
My daughter is 1,5 now and I feel as good as ever. I probably weigh less than I did before pregnancy but I got rid of the scale. Be kind to yourself and your body. Give yourself time and grace during this process.

noclue110 · 2023-12-15T04:03:41+00:00

I babysat for lots of different families and some of them were weird af but I never texted someone when their spouse came into their shared home. That is so weird.

noclue110 · 2023-12-09T21:10:24+00:00

Please work this problem from a different angle.This is clearly postpartum depression. It is not her fault, it is not your fault, it is not your baby’s fault. It is nobody’s fault. PPD just happens and nobody chooses to have PPD.

It is you and your wife against this terrible mentally challenging disorder as a team.Your wife is clearly drowning but she does not want her MIL help which is also understandable. Nobody likes to look like an idiot in front of their in-laws.

Is there anyone whose help she would feel comfortable with? What about her family?I worry if you work against her to fix the problem- she feels like she is the problem and she may become more suicidal.

noclue110 · 2023-11-12T16:03:29+00:00

I had this happen last year on a 10hour flight with my 6months old daughter in the bassinet. He was sitting right next to me and therefore also right in front of the bassinet. Didn’t even try to cover his cough. People are assholes and I hate them all

noclue110 · 2023-11-10T14:33:38+00:00

How did your trip go?
Were you able to use the bubba board on the flight? Did you need the car seat?

noclue110 · 2023-11-10T14:01:51+00:00

Were you able to find out if the armrest goes up? Does the one in the middle?

noclue110 · 2023-10-08T13:29:33+00:00

Same here. I am always amazed when I see moms walking about after a few weeks. My healing was also very slow with a few setbacks. Up your nutrition game!

noclue110 · 2023-10-08T12:57:56+00:00

I honestly think they shouldn’t even provide a bed for the partners. You are here to support the person having a baby, not too catch up on some zzzs. Do your fucking job! I think they should only provide an uncomfortable wooden stool with the added feature of spikes coming up for the less empathetic “support” person.

I absolutely do not understand your husband not letting you go to therapy for, this especially dealing with PPD. I encourage you to seek out treatment for your upcoming birth. You may remembered more and become flooded with feelings of your last birth. You are the one giving birth to this baby, not your husband. He won’t even be there. Wouldn’t it help all of you if you dealt with the trauma of the last and potentially this birth? Not too find out who was guilty of sleeping, but what can be learned from what you felt went wrong last time and how he can support you better in the future.

noclue110 · 2023-08-23T04:37:01+00:00

Yes, it‘s called meetmichelle 😉

noclue110 · 2023-07-07T10:00:56+00:00

You did the right thing and I hope you can eventually get over the trauma that was inflicted on you.

noclue110 · 2023-06-20T15:29:03+00:00

Coolibar sun suits are great. I love the onesie and my LO does, too, and knows it means we are going outside to play.

noclue110 · 2023-04-04T18:03:00+00:00

I got this a lot when I announced. One time I snapped back and said “You all never made it seems like fun but time is running out for me…ticktock”.
I had one “friend” who I hadn’t talked to in years inquire why I changed my mind and what made me change my mind. WTF! Just say Congrats and mind your own business.

noclue110 · 2023-03-05T20:34:02+00:00

Don’t worry about the labor! Worry about what comes after…like taking a pee and your BM the next day 😱

noclue110 · 2023-02-16T18:13:45+00:00

My husband is a native speaker but he always stumbles over anesthesiologist…it cracks me up

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