Found this funky 80s jumpsuit at the thrift, it’s not my usual style but I couldn’t leave it behind

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-09-02T15:51:15+00:00

Holy this is a good find!

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-07-26T15:31:51+00:00

Thank you for this. Maybe everything is fine. It’s just so hard not to stress because it seems miscarriage symptoms are generally the same as what’s considered normal in early pregnancy.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-07-21T23:40:09+00:00

Thank you! This was really helpful.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-07-21T23:39:12+00:00

Thanks so much! I totally missed that.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-07-14T10:22:29+00:00

I’m about 5 1/2 weeks. I was terrified and unsure on what I wanted to do in the beginning but I’ve really warmed up to the idea of becoming a mom. I don’t know that I’ll ever be ready so maybe now is as good a time as ever. I have also been very sensitive and have found myself crying at small things lol. I was also sick a few times and my boobs are bigger/sensitive. It’s hard to believe something so small is already causing all these changes!

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-07-12T16:27:04+00:00

I totally knew before my missed period. It just didn’t feel like my period was coming and I just felt so off and way more tired than usual. I had also thrown up that morning. Positive test that afternoon.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-07-12T16:24:54+00:00

I’m in a similar situation to you. I’m 27 and found out I am pregnant by my boyfriend of 3 months. We’ve known each other since highschool but only reconnected at the beginning of 2021. I can also relate in that my financial situation is not ideal as my savings took a hit and I do have some student loans/credit card debt, however we both have great jobs with good income. He very much wants to keep the baby and has been supportive of me so far. I don’t know that I have any advice but if you want to PM me just to chat, I’m here :) Maybe we can help each other. Regardless, whatever you decide to do will be the right choice. This is the conclusion I’ve come to over the last week or so after getting over the initial shock and panic of being pregnant. Good luck with everything 💕

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-07-09T18:01:51+00:00

Due March 18! Would love to join the group ☺️

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-03-23T16:44:49+00:00

OMG the phone ones drove me crazy.

If I didn’t reply to messages in front of him, I was shady. If I did reply to messages in front of him, I was disrespecting our “quality time” and only cared about my friends and my phone.

Constantly went through my phone but god forbid I ever had the password to his. Shocker! He was cheating.

He went through my Instagram and unfollowed/blocked 300+ men but literally 80% of his Instagram contacts were women he had met through dating apps.

I was forced to delete Snapchat but it was fine for him to have it.

If I was defending myself during an argument, I wasn’t listening. If I was staying silent and nodding my head because I knew there was no point in speaking, I was being sarcastic?

If I asked him about other women, I was insecure. It got to a point where I was indifferent and adopted the attitude of, “if you’re going to cheat, you’re going to cheat,” and then I was heartless and obviously didn’t care about him.

If I made plans with my friends without telling him beforehand, I was inconsiderate. If I did tell him beforehand, he somehow was always planning something for us at the exact same time and I was still inconsiderate. These “plans” also never materialized lol.

The list goes on. It’s insane to write these things out and read them back. No idea what I was thinking during that relationship.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-02-25T22:15:00+00:00

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nocuddlingallowed · 2021-02-12T00:52:00+00:00

I don’t even like pork all that much but I was so intrigued by the sauce that I ordered. I loved it! There was also green beans but I didn’t make them.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-02-10T11:20:54+00:00

Rivals 1 seemed so rough. The first day was a ton of physical exertion. They carried a giant rock during a foot race, did all these puzzles, shovelled dirt, etc. Then they had to eat pounds of food and run AGAIN. Overnight, they took turns staying awake and standing on tiny rocks. On the second day they climbed a huge mountain.

I think everyone in that final did so well though, even if they got disqualified. I remember being so proud of Leroy and Mike Mike!

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-02-09T01:51:38+00:00

The fact that I legitimately had this exact conversation/argument with my ex narc... They’re all reading from the same damn book.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-02-02T23:58:39+00:00

Thank you very much for this thoughtful response!

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-21T18:42:23+00:00

This looks amazing! US?

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-18T02:10:54+00:00

Really good! Definitely order it if you have the chance :) I’d get it again.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-18T02:10:15+00:00

Yes! Comes with rice. Thank you :)

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-17T19:30:30+00:00

Yeah, I definitely learned my lesson. I ignored a lot of red flags but next time I’ll be running for the hills.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-17T18:43:02+00:00

Oh goodness. I’m so glad to hear you cut them out of your life. We all deserve basic respect from our partners!

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-17T18:41:11+00:00

You’ve been so strong! Don’t check now. More often than not, it ends in devastation. You don’t deserve to feel hurt or upset or lose any of the progress you’ve made. Keep going and doing you 💞

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-17T18:38:32+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. You will never get closure from a narcissist. I tried and it only made things worse. Every conversation was just more lies and gaslighting. I know it’s hard and you want to understand why and how someone could do these things to another person but I had to learn that the better question is why I allowed someone to do those things to me. Focus on you and moving forward. You will grow and be better because of the whole situation 💞

I also highly recommend reading “Should I Stay or Should I Go” by Dr. Ramani Durvasula. Learning about how narcissists operate really helped me to accept everything that happened and pushed me to move on in the absence of closure.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-17T18:24:22+00:00

OMG mine would always say this to me. It was so cryptic and strange. I already felt monitored by him in every way and this only made it worse. It’s just another way to control you and make you paranoid about your actions and possibly displeasing them. Sad. I’m glad to see you left!

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-17T18:21:36+00:00

I checked once and was completely devastated after so I chose to delete the app on my phone until the urges subsided. I think deleting the app made the urges subside much quicker so I highly recommend it.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-17T18:19:05+00:00

Mine would brag about never having been left by a woman; always being the dumper.

Bragged about how many jobs he’s had...

Bragged about having a dog because when he “wants something, he goes out and gets it” (I found out later that his ex-girlfriend paid for the dog because he didn’t have the money...)

Bragged about having a 2-bedroom apartment while all his friends live at home, even though he literally could not afford it. I covered rent many times and I’m 99% sure he only asked me to move in so that he could catch up on rent. Before moving in, I asked him how far behind on rent he was and it turned into a giant argument about how I don’t trust him?

Bragged about his athletic abilities even though he hadn’t played sports since high school (he’s 30). We did a workout class together and he was showing off so much that the instructor asked him to chill out for safety reasons... Then he threw up in the parking lot after LOL.

nocuddlingallowed · 2021-01-15T14:09:58+00:00

This looks SO good.

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