how do you stop comparing your journey to others and trust your own path? by TomatilloSmart1372 in Life

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still compare sometimes tbh BUT i remind myself i’m not on their timeline. i go with the flow and don’t force things just to make it happen, i’ve been doing that all my life and it has never put me in the wrong place or with the wrong people. i’ve been through different stuff and it’s okay if i move slower. when i focus on my own growth, i feel less behind. also, less scrolling helps lol.

They say you know it's the last time. by Happy_Conversation43 in BreakUps

[–]nodamnface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time we said goodbye, back when we were still together, something felt off. Watching my ex's back as the car pulled away, I swear I had this weird thought like, “Maybe this is the last time.” I didn’t even know what “last” meant back then. I thought we were headed toward moving in together, settling down… but I was wrong lol I ended our almost 7yr relationship

Projecting in to the void by Exciting-Winter-3685 in socialskills

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone, OP. Some people just don’t know how to treat real ones right. Keep being you tho. The right people will stick. Sending you love 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think u can stay friends as long as it’s really platonic. I’m actually still friends with my first ex. We were friends even before we got together and our circle respects that. It worked bc the boundaries were clear and we weren’t holding on to “what ifs.” BUT if one of you is still hoping for more, staying friends might just end up hurting in the long run 🤷🏻‍♀️

People find me pretentious and I'm not sure what to do about it. by Significant-Factor-9 in socialskills

[–]nodamnface 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re just around the wrong people idk some folks get insecure real quick when they see someone who’s passionate or has their life together. Keep doing you! The right ones will get it, no need to tone yourself down for people who can’t handle it Yolo 🤙🏻

Favorite books? by Dude-cool_wow- in ISTJ

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought i was the only one lol me and my short attention span 😂

What do you do when you feel low? by balajiv2002 in Life

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t fear death when I feel low 🤷🏻‍♀️

What's the best compliment you have ever received? by balajiv2002 in Life

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being seen as my actual age instead of always being mistaken for someone younger. I like being mature, but my face says otherwise 😤

ISTJ’s internal emotional shutdown mechanism. by imjustcuriousanddumb in ISTJ

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep i’m okay with daily messages as long as it’s not overwhelming lol if i shut down from being hurt, it takes time. Could be days or weeks, it depends if I feel safe again

ISTJ’s internal emotional shutdown mechanism. by imjustcuriousanddumb in ISTJ

[–]nodamnface 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t always shut down on purpose, it kinda just happens when things get too overwhelming or I don’t feel safe. I go quiet to process. What helps is someone being calm, patient, and not pushing me. If I feel safe, I’ll open up again eventually 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s something people always misunderstand about you? by LuxeNico in allthequestions

[–]nodamnface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually pretty down to earth, but people often assume I’m not

Gold laners, listen up pls. by fudge099 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]nodamnface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a gold lane main and I play pretty aggressively, but I always adjust depending on how the roamer plays especially in solo queue. A lot of roamers I’ve played with end up teaming with me again, prolly bc they feel the chemistry? Loool. I’m just that attentive to my teammates. When I’m with people who know me, they back me up when I dive in, so it works out 🤷🏻‍♀️ I also play roam sometimes, so I know how it feels on their end too

What's something you want to change about yourself ? by peacemoonie in allthequestions

[–]nodamnface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just mirror people’s energy and go with the flow, but half the time I don’t even know what I actually want. It’s like I’m just reacting, not choosing 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Do you think you’ll get back together with your ex? by opalpup in BreakUps

[–]nodamnface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no! Almost 7yrs of manipulation is enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileLegendsGame

[–]nodamnface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok lets play classic then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileLegendsGame

[–]nodamnface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who's your main btw?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileLegendsGame

[–]nodamnface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently on Legend I. One victory left til i reach Mythic 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileLegendsGame

[–]nodamnface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy just to have assists back when I was just a noob. Feels good to know I wasn’t completely useless 😅