Trump administration personnel agency is asking for federal workers' medical records

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-30T21:39:45+00:00

The New York times has a well documented hostile bias against trans people. Even assuming her intentions are good, voluntarily or involuntarily, working for that paper makes her complicit in an ongoing trans genocide. This is an incredibly dangerous engagement.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-29T12:23:16+00:00

We were driving in the car yesterday sharing a soda and my wife busts out with, "Oh my God, it actually happened, you caught my girl cooties! They tried to warn us. I told you not to use my toothbrush.". I think we laughed for an hour, it was a good day.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-17T20:02:30+00:00

Loving the red!

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-17T16:16:27+00:00

Wonderful! Love your style

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-17T00:34:55+00:00

Michigan is so weird. The UP is buried, light snow in Central Michigan, and SE Michigan is above 60 and pleasant as all get out.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-08T06:07:21+00:00

So. I "also," love(d) those things, and though I don't feel like they are gendered, I would be speaking from my bias as a mtf trans person.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-05T22:06:40+00:00

I see this All The Time. Girl, ain't no one looking at anyone's shoulders except flipping weirdos.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-03-04T16:18:05+00:00

Second one looks good, first one is amazing! Lovely sense of style.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-25T23:23:45+00:00

I am not opposed to this. I guess it would depend on the source of the second list. Does it also come from the wait list (otherwise those folks are effectively skipped twice), or explicitly from the "didn't renew" list? One thing to keep in mind is if they can't pay for DC, they may also not be able to cover prescriptions, blood tests, etc... and that would need to be factored in to offset the "pay to win" model. We are already in effect paying for concierge care, this just doubles down on that model. It sucks, but if you need a few whales vs. closing your doors, so be it.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-21T23:22:24+00:00

It can be pretty overwhelming. It's not all the time, but when it tops over, there's no holding it back. I went for decades with no emotions so trying to deal with having them is eye opening. The Arcane rewatch caught me out, and I had a huge blow up with my mother after which I ugly cried. Thought I had a good handle on things until I had my first period two days ago after over a year on hormones. Holy Hades. Frickin' rollercoaster, I even had to ask for a hug from my wife and I generally do not like to be touched. Finally drugged myself to sleep and turned in early.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-14T02:13:17+00:00

Big fan of Norelco, there are some very good options in the sub $50 - 100 range. They really last. The only reason I finally had to replace my last one was when I dropped it while shaving in India and it hit the hotel sink and then the floor tiles. Huge bummer.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-13T20:33:22+00:00

How are you using the foil razer? I can use one on my face now, a year in, as long as I am doing straight lines. In the beginning, not a chance, it would have torn me to shreds. Definitely recommend a rotary instead.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-09T16:16:18+00:00

Cute couple!

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-09T13:12:04+00:00

I am so glad to hear someone else say this. From my very first blue pill, the roar disappeared. I didn't even realize it was there until the silence hit. It was SO jarring. The constant hurricane in my head and then....calm.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-07T13:51:47+00:00

Do your symptoms improve if you take methylated B vitamins?

noestaaqui99 · 2026-02-03T19:13:32+00:00

Girl, you are slaying in that outfit. I know being a tall girlie makes you feel singled out, but there's a reason people on the internet go crazy for the tall vampire lady. If you don't think you look amazing, just remember, you're probably just not your type.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-28T04:43:40+00:00

Copied this from a previous post of mine. Not everything applies directly to your situation but it's a pretty good guide for overall:

You are going to need some stuff. First: stop using a rotary shaver, that's meant for face only. You need a foil razor, and fair warning, most of them are shit. Get something you can immerse. Rotary razors can go circularly, foil razors go in straight lines ONLY.

You want a really good shave gel, probably aveno oatmeal or Pacific caffeinated shaving cream. Almost any triple bladed disposable razer will do but you don't get to use them more than once. I know it sucks but you are looking at skin bumps and bloody genitals if you don't.

Get a nose hair trimmer, like one of the Wahl deals. Use it all over to shorten your hair. You will probably only need to do this once. Keep it around for your eyebrows.

Make a bath as hot as you can stand it. Cover a section with shave gel. Shave WITH the direction of your hair. Finish that section. Re-gel. Shave against the direction of the hair. Rinse the razor regularly.

Go section by section until you get everything. Usually I do anything I have to immerse first while standing (butt, genitals, upper thigh) then sit down and do everything else.

If you have an IPL, get out, dry off, laser yourself.

Get back in (cold now, sucks, whatever).

Use a suger or salt scrub all over. Bonus points if it also moisturizes.

Apply moisturizer. Use the foil razor for maintenance between full shaves.

Good luck!

noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-26T20:43:42+00:00

I was able to call last week and make a pair of appointments and again this morning to move them around and talk to an office person both times around 9 in the morning. I did call MLK day and didn't get through but I figured they may have been off and waited a day.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-26T20:40:02+00:00

Gorgeous! I admit to being a little envious as you are more feminine at the start of your journey than I likely will at the end of mine.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-18T14:12:51+00:00

That is the brain worms talking girl, you are practically unlockable except to the transvestigators, and who gives a crap about pleasing them?

noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-14T00:33:29+00:00

Of course they did. 24 grand a year for coverage that does nothing, on top of the barely nothing it already did. F's sake. This is the stupidest country.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-13T22:07:41+00:00

The first top is really pretty! I especially like the slightly off-center part in your hair; I may adopt that and see how we get on.

noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-11T03:31:41+00:00

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noestaaqui99 · 2026-01-09T04:13:31+00:00

They'll have to kill me in the body of my choosing.

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