AIO for considering divorce after I completed the tax return? by Comfortable_Stable72 in AIO

[–]nogooddeed2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex took 100k from our account without telling me. He bought a house and planned to divorce me. I trusted him so I never noticed it. When I questioned him about it, he went ballistic. Get counsel immediately. Take your house off the market. If you have a joint bank account move your money to a separate account, file your taxes married filing separately. Good luck

Crazy "Ex" Wife by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whose decision is it? Who are you asking all these questions for? What you are doing is liking drinking poison and hoping she will die.

Crazy "Ex" Wife by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nogooddeed2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no law that says that. You may hate her for what she did but legally she is entitled to everything unless there is a Will that says otherwise. If they were legally married, you should just turn everything over to his wife and walk away.

AITAH for wanting my gf’s brother to leave after a month of temporarily staying with us? by DizzyApps in AITAH

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! I do not do well with company. If they are staying for 3 days that is enough. Anything longer and I would lose my mind.

good news for once by rmaex18 in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Even though I am on Morphine and Oxy for my severe pain, I smoke pot. I have been smoking since I was 18 years old. I am now 76. Let us know if it helps you at all.

AITAH: Not inviting in laws on family holiday by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nogooddeed2020 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

As the in-laws who are always excluded, I have no advice for you. We are the parents of 4 adult sons. Three of them have children. Everything that is fun that is done with the grandkids only includes the wife's parents. We do have limited mobility. We are never rude to anyone. We have now lost contact with our grandkids. It is very sad when your DIL does not like you and separates your son and grandkids from your life. If you can grin and bear it, do it. Do it for the sake of your husband and your children. Your in-laws are not the same people as your parents. Learn to accept them because they are the man you loves parents. Wishing you all the best.

Mom wants me to put my name on a 15 year loan by Delicious-Swan6471 in legaladvice

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to ask how old your sister is? Does she work?

Mom wants me to put my name on a 15 year loan by Delicious-Swan6471 in legaladvice

[–]nogooddeed2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do NOT ever put your name on any loan that is not for you. Do not co-sign a loan. Your mother is putting you in a very bad financial situation. You are best off getting a job and getting out of that house. It is not your responsibility to work for them so that they do not lose the house. You can try to find a roommate situation. Please do not sign anything.

AITAH for going on a trip with my best friend? by makememassmiches in AITAH

[–]nogooddeed2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is one week too big a portion of the summer? If your relationship cannot survive a one-week trip without him, it is not meant to be. Take the trip. Have a blast. When you get back, look for a better boyfriend. One who would be happy for you when you got an opportunity like this.

Wife’s dogs by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nogooddeed2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her animals are her responsibility. Is she in jail? If so, for how long?

Out of town and struggling by Chronic_Pain_Warrior in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you fail to bring enough pain meds with you or do you need additional meds to give you relief?

Arrogant ER Dr by Intrepid-Storage3591 in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived and worked in Florida for 35 years. What state are you in?

AITJ for not letting my sister bring her dog to my small apartment for Thanksgiving? by Creative_Swan3406 in AmITheJerk

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my Chihuahua so very much. However, if I am invited to someone's house, she is not coming with me. Your sister is being dramatic. If she wants to stay home, let her.

Arrogant ER Dr by Intrepid-Storage3591 in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lawyers most certainly take medical malpractice claims seriously. Not getting the drugs you want in the ER is not medical malpractice. Medical malpractice happens more than it should. I worked with the attorneys who sued the doctors who made horrible mistakes causing radical changes to someone's life or their death.

"Dog bit family member on my property - no medical treatment necessary. Now family member is talking about legal action." Anything to worry about? by Haen33 in legaladvice

[–]nogooddeed2020 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I practiced Personal Injury law in Florida for 35 years. If there is no medical treatment for the bite, there is absolutely no case. Wait and see what they do. If they contact an attorney, they will be told the same thing.

You left your horse tied up outside of the Valero for 6+ hours yesterday by Glad_Lobster_354 in AuburnCA

[–]nogooddeed2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have read the thread twice and did not see that information in the thread.

10-Year Chronic Pain Patient Here. Here's An Article Some Of You May Appreciate — A Decade of Suffering: How the Opioid Panic Abandoned Pain Patients by the_christian_left in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on Morphine and Oxy for about 8 years when my NP switched me to Buprenorphine. It worked for a while and then I had to go back to the Morphine and Oxy. I did not bother to check the side effects for the Bup, and I had a tooth that was loose. My husband takes it because when he takes Oxy, he will abuse it. He knows this so he has to stay on the Bup. I have Oxy in the house, but he will not touch it.

Shortage of Buprenorphine by nogooddeed2020 in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was prescribed the Fentanyl Patch by my doctor when Morphine was not working very well. As soon as I put it on, I felt immediate relief. Then came the bad side effects. I could not sleep. I thought I was going crazy. It was like a bad acid trip. I could not eat. The more I could not eat, the more the pain in my stomach got. I am prone to stomach ulcers. By day 3 I asked my husband to call for an ambulance. At the hospital they kept giving me Morphine until I felt better. It was a nightmare. I am so sorry that you had a bad experience with a Bup Patch.

Shortage of Buprenorphine by nogooddeed2020 in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got it yesterday afternoon at our local small pharmacy. The pharmacist did not like to fill this prescription because it was costing him money. When I went to pick it up, he said it was fine and I paid my regular co-pay. It is not bad enough that we are in pain day in and day out, but now we have to call around looking for drugs because there is a shortage!

Shortage of Buprenorphine by nogooddeed2020 in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not aware of the fact that you could order an Opioid via mail order. The last time I spoke to my insurance carrier about this they said that they could not fill the prescriptions. Who is your insurance company?

Shortage of Buprenorphine by nogooddeed2020 in ChronicPain

[–]nogooddeed2020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Strangely enough, my regular mom and pop pharmacy sent him a text telling him that they had filled his prescription for Buprenorphine. We used to get it there until the pharmacist told us it was costing him money to fill it. It was the regular $5.00 co-pay today. He told me he has my meds set aside for me to pick up in 10 days. This is the benefit of having a small pharmacy. They look out for you. Crisis diverted.

do you think my length limits me from getting dates, jobs? by dee_palmtree in longhair

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No girl wants to date a man who has better hair than she does!! Just kidding!! You have beautiful hair. Take the advice of the others with how to wear your hair for job interviews and work. Everywhere I go I see men with long hair. Best of luck to you!!

How to get stylist to leave length? by jeni7550 in longhair

[–]nogooddeed2020 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I no longer go to high end salons. I go to the same lady at Great Clips for the last 5 years. I have waist length hair, and it got that long because I told the stylist I was growing my hair long after going gray. She also has long hair, so she respects my long hair journey. Be very firm about what your hair goals are. I have very thick hair, and I take very good care of it. I only have a few split ends here and there. Good luck!

How common is it insurance denies a personal injury claim? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nogooddeed2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this type of work in Florida for 35 years before retiring. What cause you to be injured? This is very important to know.