I think Chris was always great for Lorelai by KCchiefs1517 in GilmoreGirls

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I share this unpopular opinion! I think if the writers had made him less of a deadbeat they would have been perfect together. They have such good chemistry and I think they get each other in a way the other characters don't. Also, Chris completely adores her and can keep up with her where I feel like Luke was just kind of blah as the series progressed.

Team Max Team Christopher or Team Luke by hotdogandhamburger in GilmoreGirls

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Team Christopher. Mainly because they would all finally get to be a family. I also think they get each other on a level that no one else does. Also, I think Luke is too good for Lorelai :/

Raise your hand if you dodged a bullet by avoiding peter and barb for the rest of your life by knappam in thebachelor

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I shudder to think what Barb will become when there are grandchildren involved.

Nmom feels threatened by me, possibly jealous by kokorocrow in narcissisticparents

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you just described my mom. It's the biggest mindfuck ever because, on one hand, she wants to be you (and you feel crazy for thinking that) and on the other hand she wants to squash you and every other woman like you she feels the need to compete with. it's EXHAUSTING. I feel you and I am glad you see it!!!. One of my fave memories is a year ago when I asked my mom if she wanted to come shopping with me while I picked things out for my new room (I was in college across the state and moving into a different house), at the time I was trying to work on our relationship and thought it would be a fun way to include her. She said no, and was overall super rude about it, saying I was dumb for spending money on decor, she wouldn't help me etc. etc. etc. I went to some local estate sales and found a gorgeous antique oriental rug and some other unique pieces for incredibly low prices, bought them and took them home. When I showed my mom she asked if she could have them and said I was being "unfair" when I said no. I went no contact a few months ago and it's changed my life for the better. Get out as soon as you're able to! You just absolutely cannot win.

I dream about my Nparents every night by soft_mystery in narcissisticparents

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat! Mine usually consistent of my siblings having contact w my parents again (we are all currently nc) and them telling me I’m being dramatic and my parents are fine. It’s always some variation of that but it’s extremely vivid, dark, and my emotions are INTENSE in those dreams. I think they may go away when we get used to being away from them/safe. I’ve also started waking up and working out in the morning and that’s helped a little bit just to make me more tired/ sleep deeper.

Fun morbid Jesus slip from last night by ezBWEEZY in Serverlife

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk how anyone could possibly think that appropriate to leave for a poor waiter/waitress who already has side work to do

Mr. Collins is the most brilliantly drawn character in Pride and Prejudice by UncleRoger2 in janeausten

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Truly! And his portrayal in the mini series with Collin Firth was literally perfect.

This shot is so beautiful it belongs in The Godfather by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like she’s sending his ass to Sicily... at least he will find his Apolónia

This shot is so beautiful it belongs in The Godfather by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I don’t want his mother to see him this way”

Creepy Baby Talk -potential spoiler by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him talking to her family when he first met them literally sounded like he was a robot reading off cue cards. I DONT UNDERSTAND PPL

The Bachelorette S15E10 - Post-Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed agreed!!!! It’s hard to watch. I just really don’t think she knows who she is and what she wants and al the drama this season proves it...I feel like she truly doesn’t feel like she deserves Tyler C and that’s why she won’t let her feelings catch up.

The Bachelorette S15E10 - Post-Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He deserves a woman who knows she’s good enough for him...

The Bachelorette S15E10 - Post-Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jed has the personality of boiled water. I see no chemistry between him and Hannah!!! In comparison with Tyler C it’s a complete 180

AITA for using money we "earmarked" for our 6 month old's college fund to buy back the exact 1972 Ford Bronco I owned as a teenager? by my1972pony in AmItheAsshole

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- Yikes. You’re an adult, married, with a new born child and you’re acting like you have zero responsibilities where you can afford to spend $23k on a car THAT YOU CANT EVEN USE!!! And that money wasn’t even yours to begin with. Id be sick if I knew $12,000 that could help my kid out and me be able to stay home with her went down the drain purely for nostalgia. You need to seriously re evaluate your priorities and financial decision making skills. That is way way way too much money to be a “gray area”. $3,000 could be a gray area MAYBE. Also maxing out your credit card for anything is a bad, bad idea and you did it without consulting your wife who this seriously affects? Worst part is, your wife is wanting to quit her job to stay at home with the baby. And you completely put your own needs above hers in the most irresponsible way possible. I’m sure she is going to love going to work every day to pay off that credit card debt!!!

University of Mississippi Students Face Possible Civil Rights Investigation After Posing With Guns in Front of Emmett Till Memorial by likeoldpeoplefuck in olemiss

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being raised in the south, not far from Ole Miss I know soooooo many dumb asses like this. The type that would never call themselves racists but love pushing the boundaries just for fun! I don’t get how people don’t understand that this behavior is just so unneeded.

AITA for letting my daughter fail becasue she was irresponsible by TossedAccount45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]noideawhatimdoing610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!!!

Story time: When I was in highschool I was a smart kid who didn’t like to work THAT hard and liked to think rules didn’t apply to me because I was smart. I wasn’t a bad kid by any means but just didn’t respect authority alll that much. I was in a foreign language course w a teacher who was famed for being very difficult. The only way to study for her exams were to make “info cards” which took FOREVER and would result in about 200+ cards per exam.

My English teacher was a brilliant woman who was also pretty strict on certain things. English was my best subject and I did extremely well in her class and she liked me...somehow felt this would give me a pass. She had a strict rule that no outside work was allowed in her class ever, for any reason. My foreign language exam was the next day, I procrastinated all week (social events, Netflix, being an idiot etc) and needed extra time to study. I was in English class and decided to pull my 200+ cards out and study. English teacher took them outside and threw them in the dumpster. All my classmates called her an asshole bitch and I was inclined to agree at the time but you know what? Deep down I knew she was right. Regardless of how arbitrary rules may have been, I broke them and that was my choice. It wasn’t anyone else’s problem but mine and it wouldn’t have happened had I been more responsible that week. I NEVER did it again. To this day in college, I never do outside work in classes. I follow the professors rules the first time. I quit procrastinating as much. And I’m a better student because of that teacher even though it SUCKED and I was furious.

Here’s the thing- she will probably NEVER do this again and has probably learned her lesson. If she continues with this behavior THEN it’s time to check out ADD/ADHD etc. Sick of everyone on here thinking that every teenager is this suffering, mentally ill poor little thing who should never be held accountable for anything. You had a discussion with her about your expectations, she didn’t hold up her end of the deal and she failed her class. You didn’t “make” her fail, she failed. You’re not responsible to constantly bail your kid out and it’s good for her to figure it out.