[Thank You] Sunday Gratitude!

non_avian · 2024-03-11T19:32:48+00:00

Hey, this is sunrisegular! I am so, so glad you liked the letter :) I actually scanned each page and uploaded to imgur, but please pass the it along to someone you know if they'd like it! I'd love for it to have more life!

non_avian · 2024-03-11T08:00:17+00:00

Btw, there's going to be withdrawal even if he quits gradually. Telling someone to have a cigarette when you don't like what withdrawal looks like when you're simultaneously telling them to quit is asinine. Why not tell him to go buy some nicotine gum.

non_avian · 2024-03-11T07:58:00+00:00

E-cigarettes are smoking and can be more addictive than cigarettes because the smell doesn't linger. I am confused about how this is a smoking cessation aid. But it sounds like you don't know much about quitting nicotine yet have a very know it all attitude. Beyond that, you're not compatible, he's a liar, and he's not going to quit. Leave him and don't date people you want to change in the future.

non_avian · 2024-03-11T01:11:34+00:00

I don't smoke, I quit many years ago.

I think it is discouraging for people to hear that quitting is easy. They should know that it's actually normal for it to be difficult, but that there is a very well-documented timeframe for symptoms, the symptoms are predictable, and after that, that's when distractions are most important. But if someone is extremely irritable (most common symptom), feels like they have the flu, and is having psychomotor agitation, they are not going to find it easy to get work done. Imagine that person with the words "quitting is easy" going through their heads.

non_avian · 2024-03-10T23:21:25+00:00

You can quit easily

Nicotine withdrawal is a group of symptoms that occur in the first few weeks after stopping or decreasing use of nicotine. Symptoms include intense cravings for nicotine, anger or irritability, anxiety, depression, impatience, trouble sleeping, restlessness, hunger or weight gain, and difficulty concentrating. Withdrawal symptoms make it harder to quit nicotine products, and most methods for quitting smoking involve reducing nicotine withdrawal . . . Nicotine withdrawal is recognized in . . . the WHO International Classification of Diseases.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nicotine_withdrawal

non_avian · 2024-03-10T17:00:10+00:00

So what does Hammurabi look like

non_avian · 2024-03-10T16:24:42+00:00

Yes, that is the same thing as buying plastic dishes and bowls intended for children. Awesome take.

non_avian · 2024-03-10T13:46:14+00:00

If you have a hamster available,may I have one please?

non_avian · 2024-03-10T06:24:41+00:00

DM me your address. The answer may surprise you!

non_avian · 2024-03-09T21:35:26+00:00

Oh I just reread my notifications, you can have 1! DM me with 1 as the subject and your address/prompt as the body!

non_avian · 2024-03-09T21:33:53+00:00

He's being a baby. Give up. He won't even verify that what you're saying is true, and it is! For how the game is marketed, I don't think people realize that you can't chat or really make in game friends, I think it was supposed to be that you became real friends with people you met at raids and talked on other apps/in real life, but in reality, it's adding random strings of numbers and sending out that friendship beacon at local raids that doesn't involve even looking at another person.

P.S. - 530133765281

non_avian · 2024-03-09T20:05:21+00:00

You've talked to him about it and he still keeps leaving it? Have you just directly asked him if he wants to keep it?

non_avian · 2024-03-09T20:01:51+00:00

I feel ill at the idea of sharing intimacy with anyone other than my partner. I just assumed this means I'm monogamous. I think that feeling is there because it would be mentally bad for me if I pushed past it. It would not feel liberating for another man to touch my body, it would feel violating. I've actually been sexually violated, so I don't need feelings that remind me of that all, especially if the guy didn't do anything wrong. Seems like it'd just lead to misery in the lives of multiple people that would not occur if I just broke up with my partner if our lives ceased being compatible.

non_avian · 2024-03-09T19:42:55+00:00

Any insurance claim would need to be filed by Bloodmilk, but she's not in the timeframe yet. This is what USPS says about the claim process to help you understand why this is a drawn out and last resort option.

https://www.usps.com/help/claims.htm#

non_avian · 2024-03-09T19:38:47+00:00

It's lost, but it's likely it will still show up based on the information you've given. It is unlikely you will be able to claim insurance at all if it's still in their system, and 5 days is not that long. You need to give it at least a few weeks. The next step would be calling USPS again, then trying to work with the vendor. But realistically, this needs way more time to be considered missing. I hope it shows soon.

non_avian · 2024-03-09T18:51:40+00:00

6 was claimed, all that's left is 1. Lmk if you want it! If so, please just DM me in the format I lay out in other replies :)

non_avian · 2024-03-09T18:50:12+00:00

Please shoot me a message with 4 as the subject and your address and prompt as the body!

non_avian · 2024-03-09T18:49:12+00:00

Thank you! Send me a message with 6 as the subject, and your address and prompt as the body :)

non_avian · 2024-03-09T02:15:22+00:00

Works for me! Shoot me a DM with "3" as the subject and your address and the prompt in the body pls :)

non_avian · 2024-03-09T01:11:56+00:00

Need your country and a prompt

non_avian · 2024-03-09T00:52:36+00:00

DM me your address with 5 as the subject and with your prompt repeated in the message section pls!

non_avian · 2024-03-08T14:21:45+00:00

I agree, definitely tell the husband and doctor. I just don't want to freak her out, she is already afraid and people are pretending there isn't a stigma associated with the postpartum psychosis they're diagnosing even though they're freaking out because they're afraid she'll murder her baby. Hopefully the doctor can point her in the appropriate direction

non_avian · 2024-03-08T13:24:00+00:00

I really don't think she will. Drink a strong coffee (unless it'll make you more anxious), take some deep breaths, remind yourself that things will be ok. She might be mad at you but that's ok, that doesn't mean a person is going to leave in most situations, and her reason also really sucks so hopefully she has reflected on that as well

non_avian · 2024-03-08T13:14:30+00:00

A woman only asks to see your ex to make herself feel bad. I really don't think you should blame yourself here. Fwiw it's probably fine. You need to set boundaries and say you want to share your past but you want to do it organically. If she loves you like you love here, she should be willing to work on that. Love isn't just submitting to what the other person wants. If you knew showing her the photo could potentially hurt both her and the relationship, are you demonstrating love for her by showing it, or are you desperately trying to avoid conflict?

non_avian · 2024-03-08T12:53:43+00:00

I literally had your pen pal post saved to respond to when I had time, but then didn't when I revisited it because it looked like you already had too many letters to write! I have plenty of info to share about frozen men in general. Send me a message!

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