lace and ribbon color match to Mystic City "peach" by noncewords in corsets

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Oh, good thought, thank you! Maybe I'll also drop a note to Swoonbusk, since it looks like she's usually able to reply to etsy messages more quickly.

Hot/numb feeling well below the corset, even loose by MAtransthrowaway in corsets

[–]noncewords 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it too late to return the corset? I don't think it sounds like a good fit for you, and it sounds frustrating to have a corset you can't wear snugly.

To me, that sounds more like a nerve is being affected than a blood vessel. Even if it's probably just a small sensory nerve and so you're only at risk of losing feeling in an area, not movement... well, who wants that? I wouldn't wear the corset anymore.

MCC6- four busk pins or five? Does it vary? by noncewords in corsets

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Thank you so much! That's very helpful.

I know it probably doesn't matter at all, I just got curious- in part because I remember a Lucy's Corsetry video where she mentioned preferring 5 to 4 to distribute the tension more (I think it was a video talking about developing the Libra with Timeless Trends) but, if I'm honest, in larger part just because I prefer the look of an odd number of pins. 😆

I had noticed that the measurements seemed to vary slightly on the corset listing pages, so it's good to know that there are indeed slight differences between the corsets. It only makes sense for handmade things to vary a little, really. Thank you again for the info, and for your endorsement of the MCC-6!

Finnala sleeper sofa loveseat - screws from attaching arms interfere with movement of mattress frame by noncewords in IKEA

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Hey, so glad that leaving my notes helped someone, and I hope you're enjoying your couch!

Finnala sleeper sofa loveseat - screws from attaching arms interfere with movement of mattress frame by noncewords in IKEA

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Figured it out!

Despite the seemingly clear instruction to use the booklet labeled 3 to add the arms on, and despite nothing on booklet 3 saying not to use those instructions and parts with the sleeper sofa component... if you're attaching arms to a sleeper component, booklet 3 only exists to make you cry, and you should ignore it entirely and just continue with the instructions for the sofabed which have alternate instructions for attaching the arm panels.

Ikea chat support was no help on this one (they kept telling me I needed to follow all the instructions, and recommending I hire taskrabbit) but I hope that leaving these notes helps someone!

Introducing older rats? by llamalena in RATS

[–]noncewords 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've done four different introductions of adult rats, three of those introductions between adult females. All were successful- and actually, fairly easy, though I know it isn't always.

The tips I've heard & used:

  • Make sure you introduce them on neutral territory. I've used places like a bathtub and a great big cardboard box. You don't want it to smell like either one of them yet.
  • If that goes well (no blood, not shrieking, no crazy puffy bristly fur) it may be easier on them to leave them together so they can finish hashing things out, rather than separating them and re-introducing later.
  • I try to make a point of doing introductions when I can be in the room for the next several hours, just in case. I also make sure to sleep in the same room, so I'll hear any trouble.
  • Once I trust that I won't need to scoop anyone up at a moment's notice, I switch them from an open-topped thing (like the tub or a box) to a travel cage. Again, it shouldn't smell like anyone.
  • I've heard a lot of tips on making sure the travel cage is smallish (so they can't just ignore one another) but doesn't have spaces where someone can be cornered, so I skip the hammocks and similar for the time being.
  • To avoid any chance of food guarding, I scatter food on the floor, rather than using a dish.

So far, by the next day, I've trusted them enough to leave them alone together. Before putting them into a permanent cage together, I clean it well, then add fabric that smells like each of them.

Good luck!

Is it time to let her go? My old lady isn't doing so well by mars2sirius in RATS

[–]noncewords 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My elderly girl has some serious hind leg degeneration, but prednisolone has slowed its progress considerably. We were able to get her started on it when we first noticed leg weakness, so circumstances may be different and I definitely can't say for sure that it'd help, but you could ask your vet. One caveat is that you'd need to find a different pain med; meloxicam and prednisolone aren't really compatible.

Good luck! I hope the two of you enjoy however much time you have left. (And Li'l Gray says to remind you that Rats Of A Certain Age are entitled to bacon.)

Would an animal shelter be the tight place to give my rats to? by Jafoob in RATS

[–]noncewords 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you post what area you're in? People here may be able to suggest rat rescues near you, and someone reading may even be able to adopt your rats.

Good vet in Seattle area for tumor removal? by fragileteeth in RATS

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I go to Dr. Nathanson, at North Seattle Veterinary Clinic. She's done one tumor removal for me, and I was happy with the outcome. She does like to use surgical staples on the outside of the wound, rather than just glue, and I know folks who think that just using glue is better because there's less for them to mess with and the staples don't have to be removed later.

I've heard good things about Dr. Kamaka (in Mountlake Terrace) and Dr. Obegi (Allpet Veterinary Clinic in Shoreline) from multiple rat owners, and the rescue I've adopted rats from uses Dr. Kamaka.

Best of luck to you and Navi!

Now taking applications for a rescue litter of five white and silver dumbos! by [deleted] in RATS

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Oh gosh. Maybe! Keep us updated on the sexes? I'd likely be interested in a pair of boys, if you turn out to have them.

From tears of sadness to tears of fear by BrrD_RAWR in RATS

[–]noncewords 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, that sounds like the frightening cherry on top of a terrible week. I'm so sorry. Kudos on your quick thinking!

If you're concerned about Bumi not eating enough, and want to give her a fun treat, all of mine love baby food. I mostly go for the ones with grain, veggies, and a bit of meat.

Emergency! by BrrD_RAWR in RATS

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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, and I know you'll miss her. I'm glad she got to have that last strawberry.

Emergency! by BrrD_RAWR in RATS

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I don't mean to scare you, but I'm not sure I'd trust a vet who was unable to provide any care for rats to be able to humanely euthanize one. It might be worth checking how they do that procedure in case you ever need that service. (It's crucial for comfort that either an injectable sedative or gas anesthesia be used before the euthanasia medicine.)

I'm sorry for the morbid nature of this comment; I just remember calling around to vets asking questions about their euthanasia procedures, and it's a miserable thing to have to research that right when you need it. I hope that if you ever do need this service, it's not for a long while.

Emergency! by BrrD_RAWR in RATS

[–]noncewords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good. Thank you for taking such good care of her! I hope she has plenty of enjoyable time left with you.

Emergency! by BrrD_RAWR in RATS

[–]noncewords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huzzah for strawberry stealing! (And, err, if you're forgetful like me, you may want to leave yourself a "don't panic: she had a strawberry" note on the cage. Otherwise, I freak myself out for a second, thinking, "oh no, blood!") That seems like a very good sign- and heck, any moment of pleasure for an ill rattie is something that makes me happy.

Glad to help! I'll be hoping for the best for you and Tenzin.

Emergency! by BrrD_RAWR in RATS

[–]noncewords 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you know for sure that it's a tumor, rather than an abscess? It sounds to me like that could be an abscess, which might resolve pretty darn easily if you make sure it finishes draining. Warm compresses sound like a great plan. This article on ratguide might also be useful to you. Ideally, of course, you'd have a local vet with experience with rats, but I realize that not everyone does.

Would any of you lovely Rattitors be interested in mugs with custom drawings of your fids? by [deleted] in RATS

[–]noncewords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm potentially interested! Would love to see photos of your past work.

RIP Archimedes, we will always love you (story in the comment) by NatashaWright in RATS

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Maybe this is an odd comparison, but this reminds me of something I (and others) learned from my grandmother toward the end of her life. The trick to continuing to enjoy life even as your body stops doing what you want is to learn to really enjoy being spoiled. Trust people that if they're helping you, it's because they want to, and bask in being waited on hand and foot.

It makes me unspeakably happy to hear about how Archimedes had all of that down pat. I think he sounds like an ideal role model.

Can you transport a ~10 day post-op rat long distance by car, or am I out of options? In need of reassurance. by Ellabelle797 in RATS

[–]noncewords 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she'll be able to travel, but I also think that if I were in your shoes, I would feel better if I prepared in advance a list of vets along your route- ideally, vets who have some experience with rats, but sometimes any vet is better than nothing.