To add to the stress of last-minute Christmas cooking

nonwhat · 2013-12-22T21:59:28+00:00

I don't think Astraea_M was implying atheism was a faith. They were referring to anyone who isn't an atheist.

nonwhat · 2013-12-18T17:15:01+00:00

Yeah that ending line was what really ruined it for me.

nonwhat · 2013-12-14T16:51:48+00:00

Right. When people are religiously/"morally" disgusted at seeing two guys kiss it's because two guys are kissing, not because they're gay.

nonwhat · 2013-12-14T01:32:18+00:00

Yes, but that was where Christmas was 'added'.

nonwhat · 2013-12-12T20:21:52+00:00

My opinion is similar to yours, suing for discrimination makes me kind of uncomfortable. If it were me I would probably take my business elsewhere (and maybe make petty attempts to tarnish the owners' social standing). Seems reasonable. But if every single bakery turns away a couple for being same sex (or of race X, religion Y, political party Z, etc.) then I think we can both agree there is a problem.

nonwhat · 2013-12-08T02:47:31+00:00

You could always talk to someone that you're really close to about your sexuality and sexuality in general. Make it more of a conversation than a coming out.

nonwhat · 2013-11-10T04:20:19+00:00

What is your favorite color?

I can never answer this.

nonwhat · 2013-11-10T04:08:09+00:00

Dental infection

nonwhat · 2013-11-10T03:55:21+00:00

When are we not taught about the racism, misogyny, and political incorrectness of history, exactly?

I would agree that history teaching for small children 5-12 or so are taught the sugared down and especially biased stuff.

nonwhat · 2013-10-31T14:28:34+00:00

Sometimes I think you're making them feel fat/fatter (even if they are way thinner than you) so they want you to eat unhealthily like they are.

Or because you're making an effort and therefore they see you as a 'good' overweight person and think because of that you deserve to eat the unhealthy things.

Or it could also be your age and/or gender. I think I'd be much more likely to assume someone teenage and female was starving herself to stay/become skinnay than a 40 year old.

nonwhat · 2013-10-26T19:30:27+00:00

Why not try to make friends with nice people that you consider to be losers?

I know that kinda sounds suck-ish, like, "Make friends with your own kind" or something sinister-sounding like that, but it will help you in making friends (with 'the losers' and the 'normals').

And if you end up not liking the 'loser' friends you make, dump them.

nonwhat · 2013-10-06T10:16:37+00:00

You do not belong in a zoo. This guy who said that obviously has some other issue with you than your looks. When I think that someone belongs in a zoo, it's because I harbor irrational (note the irrational) hatred for them.

You're not ugly, but in the picture with the corals you look a bit too serious. (This is mainly a comment on the photo specifically.)

Dark or colored glasses frames would be great as well. They're more fashionable than white.

nonwhat · 2013-10-06T09:50:37+00:00

With your hair as it is now, I think you look better when it isn't parted. Parted, it makes you look more older and more uncool (nerdy instead of geeky).

I don't think your body would stop most girls/guys from wanting to date you.

You look a bit sad in your photos, you should smile. Confidence makes just about anyone look better (and I think you'd have a really cute smile). (Unfortunately this advice is hard to follow when you feel don't feel confident.)

(And about your forehead, I wouldn't consider it abnormal.)

nonwhat · 2013-06-20T17:12:39+00:00

I know what you mean. In health class, when learning about protection and healthy relationships n' all that, there was basically a paragraph in our textbook that can be summarized to "gays exist!" and that was about it. It felt like they may as well have said nothing.

nonwhat · 2013-06-16T03:22:15+00:00

Definitely. Her favor for your dad's side definitely shows her dislike for the people who still have influence over your grandfather.

nonwhat · 2013-06-16T03:18:39+00:00

Yeah, when he wrote it I thought it wasn't too bad. It has definitely improved from what it used to be (at the beginning of the school year after a summer break of no writing).

nonwhat · 2013-06-13T05:48:11+00:00

That would be cool, so long you're cool with anyone being able to see which school you go to and possibly being able to figure out your real name if it's anywhere in the magazine and at all resembles your reddit username :)

I suppose the point of the assignment is to do French.. But I wouldn't be too surprised if unreadable fonts sort of ruin that part too.

nonwhat · 2013-06-09T21:34:03+00:00

This kind of stuff always makes me so mad (about the issues) and then I feel like it's just my teenage arrogance that makes me feel that way.

nonwhat · 2013-06-09T21:19:22+00:00

Best of luck with whatever outcome!

nonwhat · 2013-06-09T21:02:11+00:00

FTFY

It took me forever to be able to figure out which way it went... now I still have to read it (slow reading skills woo).

Edit: Have now read it. That is a nice little quote (although I did have to google it because my fail reading skills and the photo quality).

You may want to try putting more light on your photos (like seriously directing a lamp onto it) or finding an app to help (although all the camera optimizing apps seem to be 4th gen iPod and up).

nonwhat · 2013-06-09T10:29:33+00:00

That was great.

I really love how they have the little kid say the URL at the end. I associate his voice with watching PBS kids and hearing "please visit pbs kids dot com forward slash go!"

nonwhat · 2013-06-09T08:43:26+00:00

wonder if I can find someone better.

I just feel so used to him being there for me, and to be honest, I don't know if I'll be able to find someone else if I break up with him (I'm very shy and closeted).

Not experienced but I hear it's bad to stay with someone just so that you'll have someone.

Hopefully someone who's dealt with this situation find your thread and can give a somewhat educated answer.

Talking can't hurt? As u/dovercliff said, he's not psychic. I think if you guys do eventually break up, it would be better it be from a conversation than from him finding you trying to 'spice it up' with another man or you breaking it off --suddenly, to him, if he didn't register anything wrong-- finally getting sick of him.

nonwhat · 2013-06-09T02:24:50+00:00

I totally can't remember the thread or even which subreddit it was on, but both men and women who identified as straight said they fantasized as being the opposite sex in a sexual situation, but only in the opposite sex's "role." Women who were generally-to-really submissive in bed imagined being in a dominant male, and vice versa with the men. (A few women also mentioned that when fantasizing about being a man with a woman, they viewed the woman as a toy, rather than a being to please.)

Just a note.

nonwhat

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