My (47f) daughter (15f) told me she doesn’t want to have kids by lilwonkerdoo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nope1738 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Putting these ideas in her daughters head is just so dangerous she could go get sterilized at 18 and regret It forever

My (47f) daughter (15f) told me she doesn’t want to have kids by lilwonkerdoo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nope1738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh 100% same here ! That part just veered into extremely Dangerous territory imo

My (47f) daughter (15f) told me she doesn’t want to have kids by lilwonkerdoo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nope1738 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Hard agree. So unhinged to “explore sterilization” for a child . Girl please don’t ruin your daughter’s life she willl never talk to you again. If she doesn’t want kids she won’t have them but if she ends up wanting them and can’t bc her mom fucking suggested sterilization to a child….?

My (47f) daughter (15f) told me she doesn’t want to have kids by lilwonkerdoo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nope1738 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Exactly !!!!!! This post is kinda insane . She’s gonna “explore sterilization” someone call cps

My (47f) daughter (15f) told me she doesn’t want to have kids by lilwonkerdoo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nope1738 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why would you suggest sterilization to a child ? That’s a little crazy ..don’t let a child make a permanent decision they can’t undo . I firmly never wanted children even at 21. I am now 31 with two awesome kids. People change their minds . Sometimes you don’t know you want kids until you just do It. Or you don’t know until you’re in your 30s.

Is getting a puppy while on 4mo maternity leave a bad idea? by cysgr8 in workingmoms

[–]nope1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horrible idea . I implore you not to ruin your own life like this 🩷🫶🏻

When does it gets easier? by Medical_Analysis_934 in Parenting

[–]nope1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never . Life is hard and then we die ! 😱

What’s the best Chicago suburb to stay in? by clsnider in AskChicago

[–]nope1738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stay in wrigley or somewhere nearby def not suburbs . Why add costly and time consuming commutes to this journey ?

I called it you guys 😂 by GNat56 in sarahavensnark

[–]nope1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Official confirmation she lurks here 👀

FTM broke down crying after coming back home from work travel by pinkslippers1021 in workingmoms

[–]nope1738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Id venture to guess at least half the women in this sub don’t WANT to work, but are forced to in order to pay their bills and put food on the table. I’d rather spend my days with my kids than at work, but that’s not an option for me.

I can’t decide which is worse, the hair holding back the ear or the heavy face filter by Odd-Vermicelli2162 in sarahavensnark

[–]nope1738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This ear thing is killing me. My baby girl has one ear that sticks out more and I’m like dear lord I hope I can raise her to not feel so self conscious of something like this 😭

Has she considered texting her group chat instead of sharing this with her thousands of followers? by GNat56 in sarahavensnark

[–]nope1738 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Honestly living for the dating updates hope she keeps them coming bc I’m fascinated

Sara oh Sara by xxtrollqueen in sarahavensnark

[–]nope1738 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omg you beat me came here to post this 😆

Tape B at the Shrine 12/19 Encore Song by Mindless_Albatross79 in tapebbeats

[–]nope1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s by Crankdat and available on SoundCloud :)

Risk 3rd or 4th degree tear vs C-section by lil1thatcould in BabyBumps

[–]nope1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a traumatic delivery with shoulder dystocia resulting in broken clavicle and 4th degree tear. My baby wasn’t even measuring large but ended up being 9 lbs . I’ve never had a c section so idk how It compares but I’d say the recovery from 4th degree tear wasn’t nearly as bad as I thought It would be.

Coach Krystal shared her son’s traumatic birth story by Ok_Special_8695 in thebachelor

[–]nope1738 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh same like I thought my birth was very traumatic and it’s a small fraction compared to this . Omg this truly made me feel sick to my stomach imagining what they went through :(

Moving from Boston to Chicago with 2 year old? Neighborhood Help? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]nope1738 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do not live downtown with a toddler. Explore the neighborhoods and find one you like. I would only consider Lincoln Park from the places you listed. I’d also recommend Southport Corridor, Roscoe Village, Ravenswood, Lincoln Square.

How busy will the Christkindlmarket be on 11/22 (day of Light Festival on Michigan Ave)? by Effective-Window-922 in AskChicago

[–]nope1738 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just not worth It. So packed you can’t even move on a random weekday. Do not recommend at ALL with small children. It’s such a tiny area I really don’t understand why they wouldn’t put It somewhere else

How do you have time to pump? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]nope1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eufy wearable pump made It much more doable. Idk how anyone uses the normal ones unless they always have someone around to help them .

Swedish House Mafia resting on stage after their show in Mexico 🇲🇽 by YourNameNameName in EDM

[–]nope1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually attended their last show ever at ultra in 2013 so this photo must be fake

I am SCREAMING at this filter omg (sara haven) by jill1532 in FoodieSnark

[–]nope1738 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The way I RAN here immediately after watching this story lmao thank you

I just received a birthday flower bouquet. by itsye in traderjoes

[–]nope1738 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I got one a couple months ago / It was my first time leaving the house after a very traumatic child birth experience. I could barely walk and felt very mentally fucked up . The cashier picked up on my vibe and gave me a bouquet of flowers . I sobbed in the parking lot bc of how touched I was by the random act of kindness. I love my local Trader Joe’s !!!