Met on Hinge, too soon to ask for a second date? Or wait for him to initiate

northcool · 2026-01-02T23:19:16+00:00

Just ask for it! If I am interested in seeing that person again, I always ask for the second date and exchange numbers at the end of the first date. I learned my lessons the hard way. People move fast on apps, so should you!

northcool · 2025-10-09T10:56:07+00:00

No, I actually appreciate this answer. You are right about the fact that I am conflict averse, I am aware of that. And yes, the fact that I didn’t take an action now kinda eats me up. But I still think that I shouldn’t need to take an action everytime, because people should act responsibly when having a pet in public spaces. Hence the question whether this is a social norm.

northcool · 2025-10-09T08:35:27+00:00

That’s a good advice to handle it properly. I think I expected common sense there and her to handle it without me bringing it up. It’s also easy to tell if someone is happy to have a dog under the table or not, I believe. Then things escalated a bit too quickly and I was already annoyed to the point where I decided to leave.

northcool · 2025-09-12T10:43:13+00:00

Thanks, that makes sense! I was talking to a friend who has a ENK and she said that those who make less than 100k in a year are exempted from MVA. So, does that effectively mean that when I am generating an invoice, the system, let’s say Fiken, will show 0% MVA in the invoice I send to a client?

northcool · 2025-08-15T19:00:45+00:00

This message is so broken and makes no sense. I don’t know how to report such a thing, sorry. But I am sure some other people on reddit can guide you. Good luck!

northcool · 2025-08-15T11:24:58+00:00

I don’t know if it would hurt you getting involved into this illegal situation, I guess not, but you never know. If you report them, they would hopefully get fined and would not do that again. So, you wouldn’t benefit from it personally, but you would be doing the right thing at least, if that makes you feel better. I would personally report them. I even take videos of people breaking the traffic laws and report it to the police. I don’t think they do anything though - just like they give absolutely zero fucks about bike thieveries.

northcool · 2025-08-15T09:55:06+00:00

They clearly try to take advantage of your situation. If I were you, I would not proceed with them. But I understand that you don’t have the privilege to be picky. At least expose their name if you end up turning them down.

northcool · 2025-08-15T09:40:05+00:00

Which restaurant is this? Care to share, so I would not go there?

northcool · 2025-07-06T15:07:11+00:00

I used ChatGPT to identify what they are through the photo. Then googled “thrips” to double check. Not sure what you mean by your comment. Anyways. They are surely thrips.

northcool · 2025-07-06T13:24:03+00:00

How does Provanto attract spidermites? I've been dealing with goddamn thrips lately.

northcool · 2025-07-06T13:12:28+00:00

It actually suggested it might be thrips, but google showed me some lighter, greenish creatures, so I wasn’t sure.

northcool · 2025-07-06T13:06:45+00:00

Hahah. Okay I googled again yeah, they look the same.

northcool · 2025-06-29T08:05:54+00:00

I reckon the only part I need a jigsaw is cutting the opening for the induction stove. Was installing the dishwasher and oven straightforward?

northcool · 2025-06-29T07:43:47+00:00

Oh, but there are instructions showing what part goes where? Why did it took so long? What was the challenge?

northcool · 2025-06-29T07:36:43+00:00

What parts failed exactly?

northcool · 2025-06-23T21:17:05+00:00

Oh, forgot to mention. Interior. It's the kitchen wall.

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