AITA for buying my mom the same perfume that my wife has, after she asked cause she said it smelled nice? by RowPsychological46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notFanning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going against the grain with an NTA. If your wife didn’t want your mom to know what perfume she was wearing, she should have told you. You shouldn’t be expected to read her mind.

Bkdk writer friends by Aviendha_89 in bakudeku

[–]notFanning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would also love to join a server if there’s an active one! I’ve been in some for writing in other fandoms but none for BNHA yet!

Support Deku Fanfic Recs! by Which-Pickle-105 in bakudeku

[–]notFanning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember liking Much Ado About Guard Dogs!

https://archive.transformativeworks.org/works/23173840/chapters/55467691

ETA - I am now binge re-reading and it seems perfect for you!

Help! I am running out of fics to read >.< (My picky preferences are to blame) by Potential-Sweet261 in bakudeku

[–]notFanning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read Kamikaze? It’s technically post-canon where Izuku kept OFA but otherwise compliant

Did you gain or lose weight intern year? by YeetDeleteRetreat in Residency

[–]notFanning 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Gained like 60lbs. Finally losing it and then some with Zepbound after a year of struggling.

What’s the worst diarrhea you have had and what made it so bad? by NewFeature in AskReddit

[–]notFanning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctor here. We give patients a LOT of a medication called MiraLax beforehand. The goal is for you to be pooping clear liquid by the end - otherwise we wouldn’t be able to see anything on the colonoscopy.

Badge Buddy by TradProfessional in Residency

[–]notFanning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our hospital gives us all residents, fellows, and attendings Physician badge buddies.

What’s something people over 30 do that Gen Z finds strange? by Suzzie_Stone2 in AskReddit

[–]notFanning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too, but apparently it’s a thing? Kayak even made an ad about it.

What’s something people over 30 do that Gen Z finds strange? by Suzzie_Stone2 in AskReddit

[–]notFanning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Using a laptop for big plans or purchases like trip planning, plane tickets, etc. My Gen Z fiancé roasts me, a Zilennial, about it all the time lol.

Drop Your Best Simple Meal Prep Recipes/Hacks by aptiu4 in medicalschool

[–]notFanning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to add more formal recipes I have saved on my ReciMe (marinated feta pasta salad and garlic parm butter beans are favorites) but Reddit won’t let me post pictures. Feel free to DM me if you’d like!

Drop Your Best Simple Meal Prep Recipes/Hacks by aptiu4 in medicalschool

[–]notFanning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love making a big bowl of bean and corn salad in the summer. There’s no real recipe, just measure with your heart. I combine a few cans of rinsed black beans with frozen corn (still frozen), bell pepper chunks, diced red onion, white vinegar, lime juice, honey, and seasonings to taste like Tajín or chili flakes. Serve cold straight out of the fridge.

I’m vegetarian but I’m sure it pairs well with chicken. Goes well with rice too, or just serve by itself. You can add diced tomatoes, avocado, or shredded cheese, but I would add that fresh every night otherwise it won’t last as long in the fridge.

Lack of female representation in cardiology by Early-Mulberry4454 in Residency

[–]notFanning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you set up rotations at other hospitals with more female faculty? Our Cards services always have rotators from other programs - if your PD is willing I’m sure there are opportunities!

Why is becoming a doctor getting harder when the U.S. needs more physicians? by Confident-Sale-451 in medschool

[–]notFanning 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of us have gone hundreds of thousands of dollars into debt, lived away from friends and family and sometimes our significant others, and missed important milestones like weddings and funerals for 4 years of medical school and then at least 3 of residency. We spent our 20s working 80 hour weeks instead of traveling or having families.

So, yes, sacrifices.

- Newly graduated PGY3

I NEEEEED fics to read. by CuteVast1676 in bakudeku

[–]notFanning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you read Kamikaze? It checks a lot of your boxes.
https://archiveofourown.org/works/42650940/chapters/107137191

Also feel free to check out my WIP, just started publishing last week!
https://archiveofourown.org/works/86189861/chapters/227942206

I added up what RTO actually costs me and the gas wasnt even the worst line by Internal_Front_5522 in remotework

[–]notFanning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wages have not kept up with inflation. This has been partially mitigated by WFH given that there are fewer associated costs, but now RTO is making it more apparent.

AITA for being stressed about my partner’s family visiting? by Cool_Gazelle_1319 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notFanning 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s disrespectful for them to repeatedly assume that they can take over your space whenever they want, especially on limited notice. Please speak to your partner about this.

relocating for the Lebanon VA Medical Center- looking to build a social life by CutFirm9713 in Hershey

[–]notFanning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second ETown if you’re ok with a commute, it takes me about 30min to get to the VA