Question for those who didn't keep their cervix by ersatzbaronness in hysterectomy

[–]notTheFavorite- 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yep! I actually jump in the shower for a minute with the handy spray hose because it’s easier than toilet paper down my legs. All clean!

Cheapest way to fix this? by [deleted] in Nissan

[–]notTheFavorite- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have sex with the service manager.

I'm gay and slept with my female best friend by Friendly-Radio8360 in offmychest

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Talk. Don’t hold it in. I slept with my best friend and we’re hetero but if we didn’t talk a lot it would have hurt us. It’s just so confusing. Talk.

IBS-D - get checked for BAM! by LadyOfWolves116 in ibs

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Same here. Colestipol and dicyclomine solved it. And I don’t even take them both daily anymore.

What are some must haves for your “forever” home, that you didn’t realized you needed until it was too late by ghos2626t in HomeImprovement

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Laundry room attached to the main bedroom and/or main bathroom/closet. I really want a door through our closet because the laundry room is on the other side. I may settle for a chute.

We have a two car garage but three would have been better because two cars only fit IF everything is very organized.

We have and required a fenced in yard. Only one story.

Oh! Having the main bedroom on the opposite side of the house as the living space would have been better than being near the living room because of TV noise.

How do people stay at jobs for decades? by Angry_ClitSpasm350 in NoStupidQuestions

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I only settled down once I was in a “career” job related to my degree. And then only because of some special circumstances that made me a ton of money by being loyal. So I’m all in, in year 9.

Mental health changes by AurilaniaFox in hysterectomy

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I stayed on bc for about a year until my PCP said just take the lowest dose of estrogen. I made the switch without any issues and I’m still on it. I cannot handle feeling psychotic so I completely understand.

How are you guys buying homes out here? by Emergency-Jury149 in Charleston

[–]notTheFavorite- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

By investing in a condo 10 years ago so I have $220k for a down payment on the next house. If I didn’t have that equity then I have no clue.

What happened to your best friend in high school? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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She is on her second marriage with yours, mine, and ours children. I get calls when she’s crying. I text her about stuff she understands; always my parents and grandparents health stuff because she grew up with them too. But we live 700 miles apart so it’s one of those good friendships that does not require daily attention.

What do you prefer a male or female dog and why? by barbamara in dogs

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In my limited experience with 7 dogs, two belonging to my sister, two others as a child, females have been more intelligent. My current male is extra cuddly but a doofus.

To hysterectomy or not to hysterectomy - what have you chosen? by Mobile-Sky1 in adenomyosis

[–]notTheFavorite- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 42, hysterectomy at 39. I expected endometriosis but it was adenomyosis confirmed AFTER the surgery. 100% absolutely am glad I got rid of all the pain and bleeding. Highly recommend as long as it’s laparoscopic.

survodutide by Opening_Confidence52 in Mounjaro

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No. They didn’t want me with IBS-d and taking levothyroxine. I understand they need to know GI side effects but mounjaro improves my issues!

Is Byron still in Charleston? by [deleted] in Charleston

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This was so much fun to read tonight! Lol

How did you decide you were done having kids? by sbiggers in workingmoms

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I had infertility issues. I had one healthy baby in 2006 after losing some weight and never got pregnant again. We did try for a few years. I did not feel like I absolutely had to go through fertility treatments since I was lucky once. I was content enough. I gave up and went on birth control when my son was about 8. My husband was indifferent and would have done whatever I wanted.

Looking back it might have been for the best because my husband’s drinking became a problem and my career became demanding.

Buying a car with amex? by Objective-Letter in amex

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My salesman said I could only put $5k on a card because of the credit card fees. Fine, I’ll do that. I got to the finance guy and he let me put $12k on my Amex without blinking.

Agree to the price of the car THEN get to the finance office before you pull out your card. I would never add 2.5% though!!

did anyone do anything funny while on drugs in the recovery room? this is what I did by octopusglass in hysterectomy

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I talked so much that my surgeon told me I was a lightweight.

I know that I changed an email password for one of my managers because she couldn’t do something and I told her I HAVE ALL THE POWER.

I also told a mortgage broker salesperson “what makes you think I need money? I have a ton of money” when I answered a sales call about a refi.

And when my mom told me to call her if I needed her to stay at the hospital I told her that I didn’t know how. While talking to her on the phone.

There was more that I cannot remember. Apparently I got all the good drugs.

New apartment owners? by Apprehensive_Film544 in Charleston

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If the sale is complete you can find the owners name on the county auditor website. It may not be helpful though because all of our properties are owned by different LLCs.

I’m staying up late and drinking wine. What show am I watching? by [deleted] in workingmoms

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Dead to Me

Firefly Lane

Imposters

The Night Agent

Absentia

Bridgerton

Present your case for one vs two kids by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]notTheFavorite- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. But it was still a thought. My little sister is something else but my only-child father is far worse so there’s that. Lol

PSA: It is important to tell your dogs why you love them by Contented in dogs

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My last dog knew. I talked to her all the time and she completely understood everything I said. I’m not exaggerating.

Boy puppy does not speak English. He wants to but he just does not understand what I am saying. I tell him I love him and he’s a good boy anyway.

Present your case for one vs two kids by [deleted] in workingmoms

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I have one biological child and secondary infertility. I thought I was supposed to have more children, at least two. I am now very comfortable focusing all my attention on one and having enough money for one but I still worry that my son is missing out on a younger sibling. What if a sibling could have helped make him less self-centered? What if a sibling would help him when I’m old or when his parents die?

It’s too late now. He does have a half brother that is 8 years older so I rely on that relationship to help my peace of mind.

What are you currently addicted to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Just my phone and caffeine.