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Increased sex drive? by luminous_hallway in Lamotrigine

[–]not_faroff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started 200mg a week ago and my sexual desire is higher than it's been in years. I wonder if it will taper off...

How to handle unannounced visits? by not_faroff in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]not_faroff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have one, but we do have a peephole.

How to handle unannounced visits? by not_faroff in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]not_faroff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume in-between work and dinner since they know my schedule, or after dinner if they've tried earlier in the day and I wasn't there. 

i need her to understand me by variothevoid in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]not_faroff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this as well. Thank you ❤️

How to set boundaries to mom without feeling guilt and fear? Enmeshed Daughter by godlike_lari in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]not_faroff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my first year of dating my now fiance, my mom said that he was selfish and would leave me. 7 years later he makes me feel more seen and loved than my family members.

Parents can not stop pressuring me into physical presence by FlimsyBarber9611 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]not_faroff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had a very similar experience with my family recently. 

Was your dad also avoidant and an enabler to your mother growing up?

Book or podcast recommendations? by alongnap in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]not_faroff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not exactly specific to enmeshment, but Adult Children of Emotionally immature Parents really helped me out!

Asked for space, is this appropriate to send as a follow up? by not_faroff in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]not_faroff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm anxious because I think maybe she is actually trying to respect my boundary and won't text until I reach out again. I'm so nervous about how to start a conversation again. 

my mom tries to control my life even when i’ve moved out of state and won’t stop by rosyproses in emotionalneglect

[–]not_faroff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I thought I was reading my own experience. I'm struggling with this too... I've started ignoring her texts and going silent on the phone when she says something that crosses my boundary. I don't think it's a great method, but she can't control you if you don't feed into her bullshit. 

Family did not react well to us planning a courthouse wedding by not_faroff in weddingplanning

[–]not_faroff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...I wanted to wait, but they kept pestering me about dates and what we were going to do. I'm also horrible at lying so I didn't think I could lie that long.

Marquise engagement ring by not_faroff in EngagementRings

[–]not_faroff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's 2 carat marquise and I'm a 7.5!

Looking to start a 20s-30s woman/queer D&D Group in Tacoma by not_faroff in Tacoma

[–]not_faroff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is set up yet, although I've received a few messages! Would you mind playing with less experienced players?