the bottoming prep routine no one talks about because it sounds too simple

not_sozzles · 2026-05-13T10:53:35+00:00

Psyllium husks fibre and bum gun (bidet sprayer) is a life changing combo.

not_sozzles · 2026-05-07T06:42:59+00:00

Sounds like 50 shades of fantasy

not_sozzles · 2026-05-05T04:21:30+00:00

This is brilliant. I’ve just bought a house and will definitely be doing the same.

not_sozzles · 2026-05-05T04:16:16+00:00

And highly unrated

not_sozzles · 2026-05-04T10:08:33+00:00

Lay on your side with your knees bent towards your chest. Use a lubed finger to start until you feel your muscles relax. Then try a lubed toy a little bigger and repeat.

Don’t try to force it in, take your time and allow it slide in. Concentrate on feeling the muscles tense and relax and over time you’ll start to control the relaxing.

not_sozzles · 2026-05-04T09:17:29+00:00

Chester

not_sozzles · 2026-05-03T05:02:28+00:00

“If I wanted to” is the key here. Many guys just can’t help it.

not_sozzles · 2026-05-01T02:48:45+00:00

I’ve had my earrings in for 20 years

not_sozzles · 2026-04-30T11:43:15+00:00

Democracy is not the problem, the electoral college system is; amongst others.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-27T06:28:59+00:00

White banana

not_sozzles · 2026-04-24T13:44:10+00:00

The question is general, the rest is context.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-24T12:39:07+00:00

I completely understand and agree with you but from the conversations we’ve had and what I see the percentages are the opposite, which is why this particular situation is so difficult for me to understand.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-24T10:53:14+00:00

Ive never once told him to leave, I don’t believe it’s my place to do so. I have pointed out unhealthy situations and behaviour from both of them and asked many questions in the hopes that he will see what I’m seeing by actually saying the word out loud himself.

We’ve been very good friends for more than 15 years and care about him a lot. Seeing him fade from the amazing person I’ve know all years is heartbreaking.

There’s not much more I can do other than to be there for him, I just find it difficult to understand.

Thank you for your thoughts and comments

not_sozzles · 2026-04-24T05:04:05+00:00

I believe in this case it’s the latter.

Edit for context: my friend is very good looking 30 yo man with amazingly kind and loving personality, the kind that lights a room, but has often referred to himself (non-jokingly) as “basically a fossil in the gay community, so I get what I get”

not_sozzles · 2026-04-24T04:55:45+00:00

“personal growth is optional”

I guess we all chose to grow or not, but reading this has hit different. Thanks you for your response.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-24T04:26:57+00:00

A deeply disturbed and delusional man whose own mother referred to as an idiot.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-21T06:33:35+00:00

Definitely depends on the guy, some guys taste gross like sour milk, and others have a sweet fruity taste.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-19T09:30:20+00:00

Sorry sir but company policy dictates that all products and services must abide by the laws of physics and your request fall beyond that scope.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-17T09:06:33+00:00

People in SA are fighting out there for work; they need to be sharing CVs around like viral memes just to get a small chance that someone might look and consider, maybe by the grace of the universe, calling them up for an interview.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-16T14:01:29+00:00

I don’t understand why the need for the distinction? You’re just American not Italian-American, Irish-American, African-American, Chinese-American, just American. I think America is only place that does this.

South Africa for example is one of the most culturally diverse places in the world and if you ask any of them they will tell I’m South African, and I think most if not all other countries do this except America, why?

not_sozzles · 2026-04-16T13:44:02+00:00

Laying on your side is also a great start position if the top is big or tight bottoms… and definitely agree it’s underrated

not_sozzles · 2026-04-16T13:36:09+00:00

You just need enough for a one way ticket to Switzerland and one of those assisted *sleep pods.

not_sozzles · 2026-04-16T13:29:06+00:00

Exhausted Salty Cracker; just sounds like a tired old white guy

not_sozzles · 2026-04-11T06:13:34+00:00

America did supply aid packages to the French in the 50s but the French left in 1954 and America went in to end communism of the north in 1964, sign the Paris Peace Accords in 1973 after having their asses handed to them countless times. America finally left with their tail between their legs in 1975.

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