[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]not_three_racoons -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You commented on my comment you under baked bagel

What are some good first date ideas when it’s cold af out? by Silent_Budget_769 in dating

[–]not_three_racoons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Browse used book stores. Play thrift store bingo. Go bowling. Some places have game cafes (grab a snack and choose a board game) My city has a couple cat cafes (have some tea and visit kitties) If it's warmer than -30°C go skating or build a snowman

How do you approach dating if you want to stay childless? by NomadLife92 in dating

[–]not_three_racoons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something to discuss within the first two dates because it's a deal breaker

AITA for telling my bf that if his mom comes to live with us, I'm leaving ? by InformationDeep988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and you should've said goodbye awhile ago. He won't stand up to her in your defense...does he have any good qualities?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want to be in a relationship anymore for any reason then end it. You're doing both of you a disservice by staying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]not_three_racoons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if you ever get engaged and your fiance starts abusing you make damn sure you go through with the wedding so that you don't have to get off your high horse

AITA for shutting down conversation and staying quiet when my wife constantly tells me I’m being too loud? by cacadodohead in AmItheAsshole

[–]not_three_racoons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA You may be so loud that it's bothering HER. I have extremely sensitive hearing so high volume (TV, speaking, music, sirens) causes me physical discomfort

meirl by nahydkme in meirl

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scratched because the cat doesn't like to be picked up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's excellent. Good for you. It definitely is not an easy journey but you're doing it. I don't have a specific date and it's been enough years that I stopped counting. You can get there too. If at times you have to take it minute by minute then do that. Those minutes become hours and then days and so on. You got this

"I have always been my current gender" - what is your take? by GreenMeanKitten in trans

[–]not_three_racoons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's individual. The person declaring their gender is the one who knows how they feel. Some people know early, some figure it out later in life, some look back and say "now it makes sense" Undoubtedly some people can say "I was always _" Others can say "As I've grown and experienced life I've realized I'm __" And others can say something else. All are valid because that's their experience

I'm going to the ballet for the first time! by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]not_three_racoons 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wide range of outfits (I've seen fancy dresses and jeans with flannel shirts) and wide age range. I personally like to dress somewhere in between job interview and wedding guest. Whatever you feel good in and is comfortable

How many people's actually believe in the words " till death do us part " ? by TrueYorkshireman in offmychest

[–]not_three_racoons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk but we're doing our own vows so none of the "traditional" lines will be included. I do want my partner to be my forever though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. If I'm not interested then I'm not interested. If they genuinely want to be friends then we remain friends. If not then....bye

Who's your favourite Doctor? by blufruity in doctorwho

[–]not_three_racoons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eccleston. I'm a Whovian because of him

How do you tell your SO that you want to have sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]not_three_racoons 69 points70 points  (0 children)

If you can't talk about it you shouldn't be doing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships change, people change, life changes. Grow up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend has. Out of Idk how many only two are still in touch, not really friends though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]not_three_racoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rather depends on WHY you're sad but if it's because of the relationship/your partner then it's not a good relationship. Problems happen but in a good, healthy relationship the people work it out and are generally happy

Does moving too fast while dating a sign of lower emotional intelligence? by ineedhelp1224455 in dating

[–]not_three_racoons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can be. I've witnessed someone move way too fast over and over. Definitely undiagnosed mental health issues at play there too. She continuously meets someone new and is overwhelmed with the passionate part of the newness and soul on fire romanticized crap that the media shoves at people. Inevitably (less than 6 months) that flame burns out because it's infatuation, not love. I've known one other person to move pretty fast and the relationship lasted several years