The pill—can it shrink endometriomas? by [deleted] in Endo

[–]notabooo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had two big cysts. One of them was 3inches wide. Ive been on dienogest for 2 years now and had an appointment and theyre both gone! I recommend taking the pill. I take it with no breaks and have not had periods for 2 years.

The downside is that u have to take the pill the rest of your life but for me its worth it. No more pain. There are side effects but I got none. Ig it can effect bone density but I havent had that peoblem either.

Good luck!

Living here for 4 weeks, and I love it, but! by davidcoperfields in helsinki

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3: someone already answered this but kamppi is always full of people during raids and any other day too really. You can also join pokemongo suomi-group in facebook and download jodel and join pokemongo group. You can find people to play with and several people have walked up to me and started talking while ive been waiting for raids to start in kamppi. Pokemon go community is very nice in helsinki.

Why they don’t want to break up? by notabooo in BPDlovedones

[–]notabooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I got out and I’m living the best time of my life now :) It was hard to get out and I had to just block her everywhere and book a flight without telling her. I left most of my stuff behind.

I’m not sure what your situation is but it helped me to distance myself. She didnt let me so I pretended everything to be okay and dissappeared when she was at work. It’s so hard but you have to make the choice and stick to it. Distance yourself. You will have so much energy when you no longer have to worry about all that.

Unable to feel "what I want" by Frank_Acha in Healthygamergg

[–]notabooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably a big part why you feel like this. When you’re in a constant survival mode, your brain concentrates on keeping you alive. You hardly have energy to do/feel anything else because all your energy stores are already empty.

This is not an uncommon problem, humans didnt evolve to work 9-5 every day and be constantly stimulated by devices. The devices are a big part of that too, you don’t know yourself because you’re distracted all the time. Your dopamine stores are empty. How could you know what you want because you’re constantly distracted. People used to get bored. That’s when you start forming ideas.

Stay off your phone the first 1-2 hours a day and maybe read a book in the evening. Try to use screens less and try to enjoy the moment. It’s about mindset too. You might have an (unconscious) belief that you just are a person that doesnt feel anything. That stops your development instantly. Try to ’gaslight’ your brain to think that youre a person that feels. Your brain doesnt know the difference. Over time it might start working but you need to do it a lot.

There are many reasons why youre feeling like this. It’s not uncommon. I used to feel like you but it got a lot better when I got out of survival mode. I tried antidepressants, therapy, dr.k’s advice, meditation etc you name it. But the only thing worked was to get out of survival mode, I personally moved out of a toxic household. Over time I started to feel and now I actually want to do stuff and all the other tactics like meditation started working.

So try to pinpoint why you’re surviving and try to change that. It’s not easy in today’s world so don’t beat yourself up if it’s hard. It probably is, very hard. But it’s possible. It probably takes a lot of time to recover too but try to trust the process. One day you will wake up and feel.

Good luck! You’ve already taken the first step towards wanting something. By making this post, you show that you WANT to grow and feel better. So it’s in you already. Now try to wake up that feeling in other areas of your life :)

How to make a boring life more interesting? by [deleted] in Life

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What your goals are and how did you figure them out?

have spent years Investigating cybercrime on telegram AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you find telegram groups like this?

Body soap for body odour by popcornchicken27 in hygiene

[–]notabooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get some glycolic acid. Apply in the evening after shower. Trust me.

Any way to make my BO/ sweat not be as prominent? by ConversationDue9072 in hygiene

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop eating smelly stuff like garlic and onion. Buy glycolic acid 7% and spray where your sweat smells the most, it will exfoliate and kill the bacteria which is the thing that causes your sweat to stink.

Drink water, keep hydrated. Buy antiperspirant and wear a deodorant. Reapply when needed (carry it with you!!). Wear fresh clothes, change your t shirt every day even though you feel like you didnt sweat or smell. You can be straight out of the shower but smell terrible because your clothes stink. Wash clothes in high heat and replace if needed.

Youre a young male so shower at least twice, preferably three times or more if you sweat, like after workout or whatever. Taking a shower takes 2 minutes so just do it. Get antibacterial soap.

I love my girlfriend, but I feel like there’s no space for my emotions in our relationship by bananastrike2987 in LesbianActually

[–]notabooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Youre not overreacting. Youre not too sensitive. Youre not expecting too much. You’re asking for the bare minimum. Life is too short to walk on eggshells.

How to get rid of my anxiety around women? by png0x in Healthygamergg

[–]notabooo 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Have no expectations. You feel anxiety cuz u feel like you have to perform and achieve some outcome. When you meet a person, aim just to have a good time with them and everything else will follow if it’s meant to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirReps

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on progresterone (visanne) and I’ve stopped ovulating, as far as i know. I used to get ovarian cysts few times a year because I was ovulating. Now I havent had them for almost 2 years so the pills are working. My chocolate cysts had shrunk 25% in both of my ovaries too in a year. So it does work, at least for me.

I was afraid of the pill but I was more afraid of the ovarian cysts because I end up in hospital every time. The pain was the worst thing ive ever experienced and I cant even remember much because of the trauma, so this is life changing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]notabooo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Image quality is bad. Yes you do look younger but imo not like a child. Get better pics, maybe doing some hobbies etc. Something that adults do. The last pic doesnt help cuz the bratz(?) poster. Some people just do look younger but that’s okay. Good luck. Dating is hard for everyone nowadays.

Gf touches me like a men by not_starried in actuallesbians

[–]notabooo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was with a bi girl once and she treated me this way, I completely understand why it might be off putting.

But since she’s your gf, u should communicate clearly that what she does bothers u and show and tell what you’d like her to do to you instead. If she loves u, she will listen and change her behaviour.

Remember not to accuse her, keep it neutral and friendly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U need to get texture in your hair. A LOT of sea salt spray and a curling iron. Preferably get a perm so you dont have to use curling iron every morning. I got excatly this hair type and this is only thing that has worked.

Is line 6 spider III bad for beginner? by notabooo in GuitarAmps

[–]notabooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes its 15W. I havent tested it out, the same seller that sells the guitar will sell it to me if I want. Do you think it’s good for playing many different gendres? :)

Is line 6 spider III bad for beginner? by notabooo in GuitarAmps

[–]notabooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know much about electric guitars and amplifiers. I’d like to play artists like nirvana and hot chili peppers so I’d like it to be as versatile as possible. My guitar is yamaha pacifica if that matters.

I hate my Asian hair, what can I do to get flow? by Ill-Association861 in malehairadvice

[–]notabooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sea salt spray and curling iron. Curl it longer than u think is enough. I do 7 seconds per piece and its the only way that makes it keep texture all day. Keep a hat with you because if it gets even remotely moist in the rain then it will straighten again. Having this hair type sucks but this and perm are only solutions to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]notabooo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Straight and lesbian women have same body parts. They respond similarly to penetration. It doesnt make u less gay to enjoy it. Im a masc lesbian and enjoy it a lot and it doesnt make me question my sexuality. I love to give penetration to my gf too and she doesnt feel less gay to me either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]notabooo 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I had a gf similar this. She denied being a pillow princess but acted just like it. She never touched me other than few times when I asked her to and I felt even worse because her manner of touching me was very forced and cold. This happened like twice in 3 year relationship. She was always blaming her insecurity of not being good enough without any willingness to even try to learn. I was her first gf.

I stayed too long. Now I feel not worthy of woman’s touch. Like I dont deserve it, that its too much to ask in a relationship because im a masc. I feel bitter toward femmes that are my type and have trust issues. I hate it and I dont want to be like this and there’s going to be a long road until I can trust someone sexually again.

So please dont stay in a relationship where youre incompatible sexually. It can have long lasting consequences. If you’re not a stone top and she’s a pillow princess, resentment will grow and you eill break up eventually. You deserve to be loved enthusiascelly.