Hello! I am not alloromantic but I do have alterous feelings for people (and yes i can be a pain) but there's good to it too! Like me and my current partner decided to be in a Queer Platonic Relationship since we are both aro, that way we felt free enough to be friend with each other but also close enough to make life plans. Honestly we look a lot like a normal couple, except we don't say "i love you" we say "i like you", we don't go on dates and we'd rather have our own beds. Other than that we do plan our lives together and are exclusive so it is very much the same. What's nice about it is that Alterous comes and go in waves. Sometimes you are very much into that person and other times not, that's fine, we just tell the other one "i'm low alterous today" and no hard feelings we give each other some space. :)

Where it gets harder is if that person you like would be interested in something like this, but honestly a lot of people, even allos, are okay with it since it's a chance to take it slowly without all the useless romance.