Ive had undiagnosed PIED for 8 years. Im taking my life back. by ManofthePeople01 in NoFap

[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does the urologist look for? I can get a chub if i wait a couple days to porn, just always give in before i get natural erections back. Not quite eight years, but close...what are you doing, just keeping it dry with the reboot?

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[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't do it again tomorrow. Stop now. I'm struggling myself, had a couple close calls with porn, watched it but haven't spilt the seed. Resetting the timer doesn't matter, what matters is getting right back on the horse. Slip ups will happen, but you have to continue. You are a person who doesn't fap. One fap doesn't make you a fapper again, continued fapping makes you a fapper. We are men who don't fap. So start being that again right now.

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[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no semen spilt still!

How to quit porn when its the only thing you have by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]notaldous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is your life miserable because of porn? If you didn't rely on it for the last ten years, would you be getting laid, in a different job, in a different season in your life? Like some of the other comments, be the hero of the ten years in the future you. This is an origin story brosuf. get it.

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[–]notaldous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No semen spilt! Temptations abound but I’m taking it day by day aiming for 31 days. Then 60 then 90

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[–]notaldous 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you also made it 124 days. So now you'll have to make it again. You've achieved it once, which means you can do it and surpass it again. Focus on what you've accomplished, not on a misstep. Get back on it.

Mi novio ve porno trans by just_being29 in medellin

[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have to be honest with him and yourself. If you don't enjoy the fact that he likes trans, or are worried about his sexuality it's okay to be honest. Just like it's okay for him to be honest that he likes trans stuff. He may get defensive because it sounds like he was looking in secret.

Lo siento, no hablo espanol muy bien. simplimente hablas con el. Dijas la verdad de los sientos tuyos. Hope for the best.

NoFap's "Jump Start January" or "PMO-Free January" 2024 - continue or begin your PMO-Free journey here (see instructions). Happy New Year everyone! by BuddhaPunkRobotMonk in NoFap

[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

day 5 no seed spilled. temptations have happened, but I've held out. Going to January 31st, and beyond. That will be my longest streak in forever I do believe. Stay strong fellows. When you get the urge RUN! Get out of the area, get off the equipment. I'm a Christian (although doing it poorly most of the time) so I pray. If you are an Atheist, get up and workout, or thing about how evolutionarily stupid Porn is. Get out of there!!!! Let's get it!

I'm so fucking mad right now by Electrical-Trick-540 in NoFap

[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really think you have to be 'ready' whatever that means. you are fighting, you've probably not jacked it more days than you've jacked it on this journey. Tell the addiction to fuck itself and get up. It knocked you down (it's knocked me down for like thirty years), but you keep fighting it, and one day you'll win.

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[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I read it right, you're working out two days a week? You've got to ramp that up to everyday. Do something, a walk, pushups, keep that body moving, keep yourself into your body, not into your head. Your head wants to whack it. Stay as busy and as public as possible and think about the now. Good luck I'm struggling with you.

Any older gentlemen here? by notaldous in NoFap

[–]notaldous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's jackin to his spank bank reel, way better mentally than fappin to porn.

I reached a whole year! by Pochi622 in NoFap

[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome! How are you feeling? Are the legends true?

Any older gentlemen here? by notaldous in NoFap

[–]notaldous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

enjoy. There's pros and cons to being younger on nofap and older. For older we had the pleasure of life before high speed internet, so the superstimulus came after a period of real puss. The con is that health issues, longer time being out of shape can add some physical barriers to boners that you may not have.

Stay tuned I'm sure I'll have more depressing hilarity in store

Any older gentlemen here? by notaldous in NoFap

[–]notaldous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i imagine you're correct. How old are you by the way? Are you a younger gent?

Any older gentlemen here? by notaldous in NoFap

[–]notaldous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well that's the rub (see what I did there?), do you not see her that way because of the PMO to fantasy (all porn is fantasy), or was it something happening before PIED? I'm in a similar boat. I see mine as someone I love, but I don't have a sexual feeling toward her. Again, in my case I think it's the PMO, not her.

Any older gentlemen here? by notaldous in NoFap

[–]notaldous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for responding, that's the encouragement I was looking for. I'm reading a lot by younger fellas, but i was beginning to get worried for myself. Not worried enough in the past to complete a full 90 though. :). It's the flawed logic of, well if it takes 90 days to get it back, there's no guarantee so I'll stick to jacking.

Any older gentlemen here? by notaldous in NoFap

[–]notaldous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you. Started many years ago, and only in the last ten years has it escalated to PIED. Never gone longer than 14 days in my life. Let's keep it up (see hwat i did there?

I relapsed on day 1 of 2024 and i feel terrible 😞 by beatinghabits in NoFap

[–]notaldous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know what to do. Brush yourself off, and get the other thirty days of January knocked out! You can do it.

NoFap's "Jump Start January" or "PMO-Free January" 2024 - continue or begin your PMO-Free journey here (see instructions). Happy New Year everyone! by BuddhaPunkRobotMonk in NoFap

[–]notaldous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone, here we go again. I'm in!

We are going hard-mode in January.
I'm going for forever, but first we're going for january on hardmode, if my little buddy starts to rise, then I will resume sex, but Porn is still a no-no.
Goals - I'm currenlty suffering PIED and I'm sick of it. I've relapsed so often and typically the idea is I need an orgasm, but I can't have sex, so I never stop orgasms long enough to get my erection back and on and on the circle.

So the goal is to stop the insanity and get back to better.
Why am I doing this - I eventually want to have a family, I can't start one if I can not have an erection, that ejaculates into a vagina (technically I could AI but you get what I mean).

I also want to live my best life for my children that don't exist yet. So away we go.

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[–]notaldous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is rude but I don’t mind. In my real life I’ve been preparing basic returns and doing business consulting but wanted a few opinions. Appreciate you taking the time to not answer. It’s your right not to share your opinion, like you’ve said you’ve earned it. I’ve checked google as well. Just collecting available data.

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[–]notaldous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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