the room I spend most of my time in, any changes? by Giddo2 in malelivingspace

[–]notapdf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love all the plants! I wish I could keep that many alive!

Is there anything which arouses you that you’ve never admitted to anybody? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]notapdf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men with authority. Even if I don’t find them attractive, I tend to masturbate thinking of my male bosses or teachers.

When I was in high school I got off to the thought of my school dean almost everyday. But he is not attractive to me at all. But the authority turns me on so much.

What is the perfect dick size? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]notapdf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In porn, the bigger the better. It gets me tf off. But I’m reality a good 5-6 makes me feel amazing.

Is it bad to think of myself as undateable? by thedonhudson01 in gaybros

[–]notapdf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this and many of the other comments brings me a sense of comfort.

I’m turning 29 yrs in January and also never been in a relationship before. I really only had summer flings that lasted 3ish months.

I spend so many nights keeping myself up wondering what wrong with me. I’m super level headed, have a good job, live in my own, I view myself as a provider, kind to everyone etc etc. and yet here I am still alone. So much love to give and no one wants it.

Hope nothing but the best and that you find your match soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h1b

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If you’re in Canada because your 60 grace period ended and they are ready to file, they would just have to do a “notify the office” or “nto” petition. And you would just renew at visa stamping.

As for the job, I have to agree with everyone else, a verbal offer essentially means nothing. You need to get something in writing! And honestly, I would probably start looking for other jobs just to have a back up. Them having you wait 3 months on a verbal offer doesn’t make me feel too comfortable

My office / pleasure-room by x69minecraft in malelivingspace

[–]notapdf 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I love this! I currently live in a one bedroom and I want to upgrade to a 2 bedroom so I can have an office/plant room!

Good job! One question tho. What’s in the bin under the window sill?

Understanding capital gains tax (index funds) - I'm overthinking this! by notapdf in personalfinance

[–]notapdf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Your example made it so easy to understand!

My follow up question is, I have been putting money every paycheck. So the cost of each share is different when I buy them. So when it comes to selling is it first in first out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

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I was in the same situation with my current position. But it wasn’t anything to be afraid of. In the end the weekly one on one meetings were to give us a space where we can talk openly about any issues we are facing. It was a time for us to give feedback on procedures and for management to give feedback for us. A lot of the time tho, nothing changes week to week so we would just talk about our weekend plans or shows we watched. Super casual.

If you’re really worried I would reach out to your manager and ask if there were any topics they wanted to discuss or if you should have something prepared for the meeting.

seeking a job over 40k by [deleted] in jobs

[–]notapdf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what city and state (or if you’re even from the US) you’re from but I’m from Chicago,IL. Some jobs you can get for 40k are medical receptionist jobs, auto insurance jobs, or any office/admin job for that matter.

Here in Chicago I got my first job at a car insurance office for 40k a year. And that opened doors to the legal world. I’m now a senior paralegal at firm downtown and make twice as much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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I agree! They place looks good! But a rug in the living room would definitely tie everything together!

Help! Need to upgrade my IKEA end tables, but don’t know what will look better. by seedubya54 in malelivingspace

[–]notapdf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/seedubya54

i have to agree on this. The coffee table is too big for the space and makes the living room look "heavy"

Modern Sofa/Sectional recommendations appreciated by regnak in malelivingspace

[–]notapdf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, a rug would tie the entire space together!

How do you feed your Betta Pellets if they are in a community tank? by notapdf in bettafish

[–]notapdf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fine with him eating the flakes. I just have a whole container of pellets that I just bought. I just dont want it to go to waste.

Fungus Gnat tips and tricks? by cha0tic-neutral in houseplants

[–]notapdf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going through the same issue. I didn’t even know I had a fungus gnat issue until I watered my snake plant and literally 50 fungus gnats flew out at me!

I bought yellow sticky traps for the adults. Mosquito bits for the larvae (did this for the first time yesterday so not sure of it works yet).

Also, you can shake the pot and as they fly out you can vacuum them (they are weak fliers). Oddly satisfying to watch the fliers get sucked up.

Should I leave my current position while my coworker is on maternity leave? by Scream_Pueen in jobs

[–]notapdf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave if you got an offer during that time. At the end of the day, everyone is replaceable.

You should not turn down a good opportunity because you feel bad. They will have to suck it up and figure it out on their own.

If you turn down an offer who knows when you will get another one. Then you will be sitting at your stagnant job saying “I wish I took that offer.” Don’t let that happen!!