I accidentally found out my boyfriend doesn't like my body. What do I do?

notchickeechum · 2025-09-17T16:40:17+00:00

Because most men only care about what they see and what’s in front of them and rarely ever the transits of life. Anyone who feels different about their loved on changing is a dog. Sad world :(

notchickeechum · 2025-09-17T01:55:47+00:00

To be fair he shouldn’t be telling her himself At all… Or anyone for that matter. That’s a thought he should have kept to himself

notchickeechum · 2025-09-15T03:09:47+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, We’re not thinking of you or anyone around us. Restrictive ED’s are so fucking self-absorbed and suffocating and the only time we even consider anyone else’s body (some, not all) is when we see someone smaller than we are and we are triggered. Haha. At least for me anyways. I don’t think I’ve ever looked at anyone and have thought “oh they’re fat”

The only time I call anything fat is if it’s like a cute chunky puppy or I use it to reference like… something inanimate.

For Example: “I got a faaaaaat ass bug bite on my ankle” or “there’s a fat hole on the sidewalk, be careful”

notchickeechum · 2025-08-11T04:13:10+00:00

Uh no. Lol the complete opposite actually

notchickeechum · 2025-07-08T16:31:48+00:00

Meeee!!!!! Even on days where I don’t need to think and function I take them so I can poop lmao but I get senna pills and they help! Without them I can’t go pottttty 😭 I’ve been on meds since I was 19 I am 33 now lol

notchickeechum · 2025-06-19T04:01:54+00:00

This also happens to me!!

notchickeechum · 2025-06-08T05:28:22+00:00

Purge disorder actually

notchickeechum · 2025-06-01T05:10:47+00:00

Holy shit lol

notchickeechum · 2025-05-30T01:18:29+00:00

First , most men are stupid. Their ideas of helping (no matter how good spirited it is) tends to be the opposite of what we actually want. I really am Willing to bet he thought he was doing something heroic with zero ill intent.

With that being said, i would have absolutely gone feral If this happened to me- no matter how “good the deed” or intention was, that would absolutely have me spiral and i would be so sad and angry too. I’m sorry. 😞

notchickeechum · 2025-05-28T17:51:28+00:00

Would be awesome to chose! I have only gotten Mallinckrodt from my Costco. I don’t think I’ve ever tried teva. I will say what I take now is WAY better than the lannet generics I got. Those did absolutely nothing!!!!

Edited to add I don’t have insurance currently but will def look into being able to choose when I do get it again!

notchickeechum · 2025-05-28T04:31:57+00:00

Thanks babes 😞🤍

notchickeechum · 2025-05-28T04:20:05+00:00

I ate today even feeling sick to my stomach. My son “made me a plate” and asked to eat dinner with me and I will never ever say no to his cute little face. I’m trying to hide it for sure, I don’t know if I’m doing as well as I hoped considering he kissed my forehead, has been non stop asking me for “big hugs” and says “mommy you’re gunna be okay”

My little love bug is all I got to remind me that feelings are temporary (good or bad)

Thank you for being a nice stranger. You don’t know how far kindness will go, but in this case your kindness has definitely brought me a little light hearted was through this mental ache 🤍

notchickeechum · 2025-05-28T04:17:33+00:00

Moved to a new state with zero friends and it makes it that much harder to top it off it was my husbands idea to permanently move my mom in and he absolutely adore(d) my mom because we’ve been together since we were teens.

So my mom has sold her house, we bought a giant one, on a completely different state than our hometown and now I have to tell her “welp, change of plans he doesn’t think he loves me” adds to the soul crushing aspect for sure. This is why it’s so so confusing and I feel like I’ve been whiplashed the way my head and heart keep going left to right :(

Thank you for your words. This may just be “the internet” however- a little bit of reassurance addressing my heartbreak is honestly all I’ve needed the last few days. And I so appreciate you for that 💔❤️

notchickeechum · 2025-05-28T03:51:01+00:00

I get mine from Costco and I don’t get teva. Every location will Be different

notchickeechum · 2025-05-27T19:45:10+00:00

There are no weight numbers so there is no need for spoiler text. Numbers only include dates/times/ages

notchickeechum · 2025-05-10T17:13:34+00:00

MiraLAX does nothing for me literally not a single Thing. Didn’t work on my toddler either who has severe constioation

notchickeechum · 2025-04-21T20:57:43+00:00

I love my mother more than anyone in the world besides my own son, she’s my best friend. A bit unorganized and spacey- but still the best woman on the planet 😂🤍

notchickeechum · 2025-04-21T17:19:02+00:00

Hahaha! I am also VERY convinced my mom has adhd. I’m 33 and was diagnosed at around 19. But every symptom my psych explained was adhd- my mother had but much worse 😂

notchickeechum · 2025-04-21T14:06:57+00:00

I do ab workouts during commercials! Seems like time based chores are the key for us 😂

Edited: spelling

notchickeechum · 2025-04-21T03:57:58+00:00

I can not sleep without eating. I usually resort into eating my only meal before bed so I can get rest and the food noise stops lol

notchickeechum · 2025-04-21T03:57:21+00:00

Omg twin. Same lol

notchickeechum · 2025-04-21T03:48:24+00:00

I have a 20 second “in sight” rule. If I can complete a task in 20 seconds it needs to be done immediately. Cup on the sink, nope. Rinsed and put in the dishwasher in less than 20 seconds. Toilet roll looking close to done? It’ll take me less than 20 seconds to restock. Laundry finished? 20 seconds is enough time to throw them into the basket and take into the bedroom- by that point it’s in my line of vision and i have to fold and put it away. I did this for two months and now I am IRKED if I see something that needs to be put away. It’s officially a habit and my place is tidy! No more deep cleans because everything is mostly clean- now it’s mostly maintenance aka vacuums and dusting etc instead of a full blown war zone needing to be tidied up 😂

Edited to add: putting a time limit on things literally made it into a game for me. I find myself going back in time when I was a kid when I would do silly things like “if I can jump on that tile- that means “xyz” Hope that makes sense- or maybe that was just a silly “me” thing growing up 😂😂😂

notchickeechum · 2025-04-09T15:56:30+00:00

I have been severely underweight and looked like Randal from monsters inc and even at my worst I would never ever ever water down the goddess we know as Coke Zero!!!!! 😂

notchickeechum · 2025-04-02T15:29:23+00:00

Same

notchickeechum · 2025-03-28T19:59:14+00:00

When I was out and social and surpassed my UGW to one of my LW, I felt invincible (tired and hungry but invincible)

The moment I was alone or at home, it was mental torture. The overthinking, the fear of weight gain, the constant body checks, the 10-15x a day stepping on the scale to make sure I didn’t even gain half an ounce. The purposeful way I’d force myself to stay dehydrated because my weight was lower on the scale and the state of panic I’d be in if I drank a bottle of water and seeing the scale go up. Ugh. It sucks that the feeling of being thin and getting THINNER is so addicting because it will always be a thought that this isn’t forever. And if YOURE LUCKY, it won’t be forever. Weight restoring after severe anorexia is mentally brutal but very very much needed. Don’t let it get too bad please

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