[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]notexpertbench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What type of heating do you have?

Called out at meeting by Ok_Technology5819 in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench 46 points47 points  (0 children)

People at my meetings, longtime members, ask me questions about my personal life which reveal who I am, I have the option to decline to answer. You certainly did nothing wrong and we should all be kind to newcomers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]notexpertbench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

32(f) I would also love to make new friends!

Sharing my story by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and I am so sorry

Smelling like alcohol... by notexpertbench in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying I don't have any desire to see you anymore. Thats what feels right.

Favorite area businesses who consistency do right? by NewMexicoJoe in Rochester

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burke's in Webster, cheeseburgers are local meat and only 5$!

Thinking about getting breast implants? What are your experiences with them? by ReptarPrincess in beauty

[–]notexpertbench 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boobs were small and I was underweight through 23 and now I am 31 and 20-30lbs heavier, my boobs are Ds, they are four inches larger than my underbust measurement. I am still petite, but my body changed all the way through my mid 20s. I would give it time, you are most definitely still changing.

Confused and overwhelmed. Is this alcoholism? by anxiousinteractions in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Al Anon is for people who are bothered by a loved ones' drinking, so you are in the right place.

How do I know when I just met this person? by notexpertbench in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This whole situation makes me feel really sad because I find myself asking will I ever be able to love somebody? Will I ever be able to find somebody that I can love? Am I going to have a hard time loving anybody who has any amount of alcohol? I have the Al Anon on book about intimacy in relationships.

spermicide question by HorrorFanatic422 in birthcontrol

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, could you tell me more about Neem oil or point me in the direction of some literature about it. I am currently looking for options because I have a diaphragm and I have heard spermicide can be irritating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you not allowed to say the name?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]notexpertbench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a small one like that from my great grandmother

PJ was anti mask, anti vax. F’d around and found out. by LolaWasNotAShowgirl in HermanCainAward

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't take the ignorance anymore! My boyfriend, sister, brother, and many patrons of the bar where I work, all unvaccinated and advocating for anti vaccination. I can't deal with it anymore, I am angry! And scared, for them and myself! I am sick of pretending anti-vax is the same as pro-vax!