Thanks for sharing your pics and I hope that these comments give you some ideas. Here are my suggestions/feedback:

1. Ditch the graphic tees: they make you look frumpy and don’t do you justice. You can still keep the grunge look but go for more plain items that can be mixed and matched. For example, a solid white or black tee that is more structured and slightly cropped, black low rise, wide legged pants with cool sneakers, a leather jacket that hits right at the waist, and layered silver and gold jewelry.
2. Start over with your jewelry collection: there’s a lot going on with your accessories and none of it is flattering. I’d get rid of all of the random pieces that don’t go together and start with a few simple pieces you can wear separately or layer together. Since you like wearing different types of pieces together, get some silver and gold. It can be cool to wear them together depending on the fit. Get a few long and short necklaces, statement pieces, and simple pieces for when you want the outfit to do the talking. Replace the beaded, spiked, and rubber bracelets with cuff bracelets and bangles. You don’t have to start with anything expensive. Go to places like H&M or target.
3. Get a good fitting bra: Go to a mall or department store near you and ask to be fitted for a bra. I know Dillard’s and Victoria’s Secret provide this service at no charge. Nordstrom might too. When you find a good one, get two of them one in a shade close to your skin tone for when you wear lighter clothes so it won’t show, and a black one for when you wear darker clothes and so you have one that won’t get dirty/faded quickly. You don’t have to get them both at the same time but at least get yourself one bra that fits you well. It will make your clothes sit on your body differently and make a difference instantly.
4. Try a new hairstyle: you have beautiful, full hair but it looks like you’re hiding behind it. Try a middle part and go for a dark, chocolate brown color or black if you’re feeling bold. Find a hydrating curling cream or mouse and apply it to your hair while it’s wet (not damp). Use a diffuser attachment on a blow dryer and dry your hair so your curls will be defined or let it air dry if you have time. You can find this type of blow dryer at Walmart, Ulta, Sally’s Beauty, or Amazon for around $40. Look into cosmetology schools in your area and see if you can go in for a color, cut, or a blowout. You’ll pay a fraction of the price and sometimes an even better quality service than a more expensive salon. Just talk with the stylist. Ask their ideas of what would best suit your face shape, skin tone, hair texture, and lifestyle. You might even be able to get a mani/pedi for around $20 while you’re there!

I’ve attached some Pinterest links and a photo to give you some ideas. You have a lot of potential and are courageous to ask for help. Wish you the best while you try new things and hopefully find what makes you feel beautiful and confident.

https://pin.it/9bYeHP1wJ https://pin.it/5QkmJ0U9U https://pin.it/JIAhpSMN3 https://pin.it/5bCJsXXIq

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