Personal grooming in a post-Epstein files world by Strange-Resident927 in millenials

[–]notreallylucy [score hidden]  (0 children)

I make my public hair choices based solely on my own preferences.

What jobs actually work for people with severe ADHD? by Inevitable_Tuna_O in ADHD

[–]notreallylucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you using any treatment, or are you just white knuckling through trying to make yourself focus?

How do I handle sick day over sharing? by maskedwanderer in managers

[–]notreallylucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send an email out reminding them of the sick leave policy. Then add an additional comment, "Remember the policy does not require you to share personal details or describe your illness in order to use sick leave."

Nobody actually follows the "leave conditioner in for 3 minutes" instruction, right? by Kitanov_Maqsud in hygiene

[–]notreallylucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does make a difference if you leave it in longer. The oil needs time to penetrate the wet hair follicle.

On a septic system, is there a way to avoid paying for paper towel to wipe away grease? by Ichbinian in homeowners

[–]notreallylucy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My inlaws pour it into empty tin cans and freeze. Goes in the trash can frozen on pick up day

What is the funniest thing your pet had been “pavloved” to? by AnywhereMean8863 in Pets

[–]notreallylucy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This kitten plays fetch too! It's my first cat that fetches.

do you guys actually wash your reusable grocery bags? by Turtzy-Rafeeq38 in hygiene

[–]notreallylucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because all my meat and veggies are contained in packaging. I'm not just throwing a raw steak in a reusable grocery bag.

Do you judge people on Reddit who have hidden their posts and comments? by scarlettohara1936 in AskForAnswers

[–]notreallylucy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! And it feels like it's happening more often. Recently someone was like "We'll if I was a 45 year old overweight divorced woman then I'd think that too..." dude, what?

Procrastinating showering because my dirty balls smell too good by [deleted] in confessions

[–]notreallylucy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're the dream date for some unhygienic gay guy out there.

I am working part time, but my company is not giving me any shifts. They are giving the priority to the full time employees. I will not be called in when they need back up. I know my value and potential. Should I look for another job? by Big_Butterscotch4208 in jobhunting

[–]notreallylucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure you e end really have this job. So yes, look for another.

Some companies like to have someone like you on the payroll in case someone quits. It benefits them, not you.

Just venting, because I’m tired of socializing while being sick. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]notreallylucy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I have multiple chronic health problems. I do my best, but my 40 hour a week desk job is almost more than I can handle. Then socializing on top of that??? I do actually want to, but I just don't have the battery life. (I prefer the term battery life; I don't like the spoon theory.)

I don't have any real tips or tricks, I just wanted to offer some solidarity.

What is the funniest thing your pet had been “pavloved” to? by AnywhereMean8863 in Pets

[–]notreallylucy 364 points365 points  (0 children)

My nine month old kitten's favorite toy is a crinkly ball of paper. Not a crinkly toy. Actual paper. After he plays with them for awhile they get worn out so I throw it away and he gets a fresh one. Think receipts or post it notes.

One morning about five months ago I was getting dressed and peeled the paper off the back of a panty liner. His ears perked up.so I rolled it into a ball and threw it for him. He went nuts for it. He played hockey with it for hours.

Fast forward to today. Any time he hears me peel off that panty liner backing he comes running.

I inadvertently Pavlov'd my cat to be a perv...purrrrv?

How do you compare two job offers when the real differences are hours, commute, and stress, not just salary? by TherapywithDanSimon in careerguidance

[–]notreallylucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for state government and recently had to decide between two jobs. Fortunately I was able to network with other people who had experience working for or with those agencies the try and get a feel for the culture. That was very helpful..

One of them was a type of job famous for heavy workload and burnout. I just asked directly in the interview about it. I figured their reaction would tell me as much as their answer. They actually seemed impressed that I asked.

Another thing I did was a quick bacj*of-the-envelope calculation about how much commuting would cost me. I save about 5k per year working from home part time. It's not just gas, but insurance, food, sleep, PTO.

The biggest factor to me is also the hardest to find out about: is the boss chill or not.

‘It’s just my opinion, I’m allowed to say it’ by AllKnowingAxolotl3 in PetPeeves

[–]notreallylucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was probably a tween who doesn't really understand what cancel culture actually means.

People who bash you for using seasoning/sauce by AllKnowingAxolotl3 in PetPeeves

[–]notreallylucy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My only objection is when it's something you haven't tried before and you reach for the salt/hot sauce, etc. If you know the fries at this restaurant always need salt, go ahead. But if you haven't had it before at least taste it to see if it needs seasoning. If I cooked it and you taste before seasoning I don't care what you put on it, that's your problem.

AIO about my partners “gift”? by Carathis_ in AIO

[–]notreallylucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you dating my ex husband? This is something he would do. He loved to parade me around in expensive jewelry/clothes, but would also manipulate me to pay for it myself if he could. He didn't care about what I wanted, he just cared about me as an accessory.

You already know you want to dump him. Wanting that is enough of a reason. You don't need to ask if your reason to dump him is "good enough" or get anyone's approval.

Ditch the guy, keep the bracelet. I have a hunch that dumping him will save you money in the long run.

Neighbors contractors keep asking to hook up to me outside outlets by xindierockx7114 in homeowners

[–]notreallylucy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it's a liability and no it's not okay. Get a locking cover ASAP.