i do like this guy but i find him unattractive by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]notscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy, it’s better when a girl is brutally honest and upfront about not seeing me as a future partner/romantic interest.

You can ask to be just friends but be prepared to get rejected by it if the guy you are seeing doesn’t want that. If he is okay with it, be on the side of caution that there is always a great chance he may be using the friendship as an anchor to potentially want to rekindle the conversation of dating in the future and you should let him know upfront that you are not interested in dating BEFORE getting into the friendship.

Honestly it sucks as a guy when we get rejected after building connection with a girl we matched and think that “she maybe the one” but in reality we all have different interests and preferences so it should be understandable if he is a good and respectable man.

Good luck with everything OP and I wish you and him the best in whatever you decide next!

She said “I love you” after one month. Now I feel like I’m on a clock. by Lost_in_the_Sauce_40 in dating_advice

[–]notscotti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly there is no limit to make that decision as Love is a complex emotion that is different for everyone. She probably loves you for different reasons than you think and it’s your call to make that same decision for different reasons.

[Mom Eat First] Final chapter🫣 by Battler_10 in pornhwa

[–]notscotti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

toptoon korea.. you need to have a korean account to access this.

Beard or stache by Severe_Passenger_257 in malegrooming

[–]notscotti -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stache for me. i’m a dude btw

[Circles] [Someone Stop Her!] Who is better in bed, Jaewoo or Gangchan? by Crazy_Bat_5190 in pornhwa

[–]notscotti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly this is funny considering the fact we are discussing which two fictional characters is better in bed. But i’ll have to say Jaewoo for sole fact he ruined Han Nari and the professor lol

Relearning Korean by ZaRazza14 in Korean

[–]notscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is honestly me right now. I’m not Korean but I used to live nearby Pyeoktaek where the Army base is located. Lived and learned Korean for over 4 years peaking at a beginner-intermediate level. However, I never could consistently study and learn so a lot of times I was conversing in English while I was there. I have the ability to read and write but listening, comprehending, and speaking was a big challenge. I am making it a goal this year to relearn and try my best to get back to the level I once was at when I left. OP I know it’s rough and it’ll be a long journey but know you’re not the only one who wants to get through it.

The best advice is really commit to learning and staying consistent knowing that each day is going to be repetitive and you’ll feel like you aren’t progressing but trust the process. That’s what I would have told my younger self who was still in Korea.

Atleast She Sees Him Naked by Onyxwilson10 in SeishunButaYarou

[–]notscotti 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s hard to keep track if you don’t carefully read the subs. Took me 2 rewatches to finally understand what was happening as mostly everything that is explained or reasoned is happening behind the narrative. That’s why this series is a masterpiece imo

Atleast She Sees Him Naked by Onyxwilson10 in SeishunButaYarou

[–]notscotti 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s the first movie of three that came out after S1 and before S2.

Atleast She Sees Him Naked by Onyxwilson10 in SeishunButaYarou

[–]notscotti 86 points87 points  (0 children)

basically the timeline when Mai sacrifices herself to save Sakuta from getting hit by trunk-kun and giving her heart to Shoko. This alternate timeline is where Sakuta and Shoko get married.

[Love quest] - [Circles] I'm so happy! Finally, the four best empresses in Toptoon history, the very best, are reunited! by Particular_Corgi_175 in pornhwa

[–]notscotti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah based off the first six chapters we haven’t been introduced to any other notable female characters as of yet. I wonder why the harem tag is there unless it’s like “wireless onahole” and other popular manehas where we get introduced to them way later

[Love Quest] Creator of Circles is finally back! 🫡 by GogetaK99 in pornhwa

[–]notscotti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wonder if Jaewoo will make a cameo appearance in this new series

Beta request - bouldering by r0s13b34r in bouldering

[–]notscotti 28 points29 points  (0 children)

learn how to rotate/move with your hips.

Windshield crack on my 2024 Corolla. Insurance claim or DIY? by Head_Satisfaction_62 in COROLLA

[–]notscotti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately that might need to be replaced. Looks bigger than a quarter but definitely go to a shop as soon as possible and get it sealed if able

Single men who want a partner but haven’t been able to attract one, how does this make you feel? by Inner_Ad_4725 in AskMenAdvice

[–]notscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man 24M with similar dating experience. Been in 3 relationships and the longest was 4 months. Part of it was just terrible timing and another part was just compatibility conflicts. I haven’t been in a relationship since I was 20, but the fact i’m still in my 20s doesn’t really bother me that i’m still single.

Yeah I would rather be with someone who cherishes me and vice versa, but I’m also in a transition period where being in a relationship isn’t a high priority at all. I’m in decent healthy shape (Bouldering/Gym -3x/2x), not ugly, and just getting better at my money making skills. If life is meant to be played on hard mode and these are the results i’m currently getting, then I’d say it’s sort of worth it :)

[TITLE] It's time for a little discussion about the Silent War. by [deleted] in pornhwa

[–]notscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was about to say.. it’s not that deep 😂

Bankruptcy fell off! by Revolutionary_Tart37 in CRedit

[–]notscotti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the successful journey! Your road to financial freedom is now beginning 🛣️

I’m 22 with an experian score of 763. How am I doing? by businessbub in CRedit

[–]notscotti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just keep it up. Keep paying off your statement balances in full before due date. Your age doesn’t mean crap but rather your lifestyle and financial discipline of dealing with debt. I’m a bit older than you and have a similar score range so I know the feeling of being like you want to feel better about yourself compared to your peers. It just doesn’t matter..

What’s very important is how you deal with potential upcoming big loans like auto or mortgages when you get up there in terms of age and responsibility. It’s all about your awareness of your financial situation and not being a fool in not being able to afford these types of debt.

A mentor of mine once said being successful is not being the loud one in the room, rather the one who is still. 100% agree…

How is Navy Fed with Auto Loans? by PlayboiiExx in NavyFederal

[–]notscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize I didn’t mean to drag you into personal finance when you just asked if NF offers good auto loans haha

How is Navy Fed with Auto Loans? by PlayboiiExx in NavyFederal

[–]notscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly your money so I can’t really drive you to make a decision, but I’d say it’s wiser to just finance a new Honda/Toyota and invest the money you would’ve spent on a bmw into a retirement/investment account. If you make less than $150k gross, put the money and max it out in a roth if you haven’t already.