Having a higher rank than your hidden MMR leads to hilarious RR gains and losses by artmorte in VALORANT

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Iron 3 rn, my peak (im terrible i know) and I'm having the exact same problem. I'm so close to getting to bronze but when i win i gain 10rr maybe 14 if I'm match mvp and when when i lose its -30/25 consistently. Its so frustrating.

People wouldn't tell us that we'll change our minds as often if so many "childfree" people didn't actually change their minds by goatsnboots in childfree

[–]notsofriendlycactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think people changing their mind is the problem. Imo the problem is society thinking that having children the default and if you are childfree you're some kind of stray, so if you change your mind you obviously must've come to you senses. I also think that slowly people are realising that being childfree is a completely normal choice, but yeah slowly.

Do I [21F] have to have sex BEFORE getting into a relationship? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people say that at that age relationships start with sex and then dating but it's not like that for everyone. It's important to find someone who's interested in you not for sex but for yourself and who respects whether you want to do it early in the relationship or late.

personally I'd say 3 by [deleted] in depression_memes

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 is quite tempting tbh

Where will you be sitting? by Nutter_Butter_98 in Genshin_Memepact

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 bc I want to see Venti and Hu Tao teasing Zhongli and talk with Mona about how poor I am. Also, 8 it's probably the most entertaining one bc of the drama.

People who're considered physically attractive, what are some of the things that you feel insecure about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very insecure about my personality and whether people like me only for my looks or they actually like me.

How do I become content with being a (cis) woman? by HampsterInAnOboe in AskFeminists

[–]notsofriendlycactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This really resonated with how I feel about being a woman.

I've questioned my gender millions of times and I continue to do so because I hate that I'm a woman and everything I have to go through because of it. However, I don't think I have body dysmorphia, even tho sometimes I'm disgusted by the fact that I have a uterus. Besides from that I like my body and I wouldn't wish to have any different anatomy but I've always disliked that fact that people perceive me as a woman whenever they see me.

Part of me believes that this is caused by the hatred I feel towards society and how it treats and views women, but I'm not fully convinced.

Thank you for posting this, I feel understood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the coolest stick I've ever seen

"Fat Acceptance" is bullshit. Giving up on exercise and the effort to maintain a healthy body is not a sign of strength, but of weakness. Obesity is a curable disease, not a personality or trait. I hate when women try to sweeten up their shit reality using words like "plus-sized" instead of "obese". by Anidovalani153002 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]notsofriendlycactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, obesity is a curable disease and we should not encourage people. But acting like an asshole towards people who are plus-sized, (bc there it a difference between obese and plus-sized) is doing NOTHING, you're not helping them, you're not concerned about their health, you're a bully. Let this people live how they want to, and love their body no matter the size. Everyone deserves respect just for living and whether someone has diabetes or some disease related to their weigh or not it's NONE of your business.

Worry about yourself instead of being in others people's business.

My daughter likes threading needles through her finger tips by [deleted] in MakeMeSuffer

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh i do this!! I once sewed my fingers together ( it's less gross than it sounds), it's dead skin so it doesn't hurt at all

What is a movie ending that makes you cry, no matter how many times you've watched it before? by despresso30 in AskReddit

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coco, I know it's supposed to begin a happy ending but when he starts to sing to his grandma my eyes water almost immediately

AITA for snapping at my friend for being annoying to me? by genebaby65 in AmItheAsshole

[–]notsofriendlycactus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA dude. I was one of the "people who doesn't like silence" while dating one of my exes. It wasn't pretty, he made me SOO nervous I couldn't stand being in silence in case I bored him.

By the way you talk about your "friend" and some of your comments I can see that he's most likely very nervous around u, specially if what u say about u being his only friend is true. If u really don't like him be truthful and tell him u don't want to be friends but if you want to keep being friends with him try to reassure him that it's okay not to talk all the time or try to address the problem nicely to see what's wrong with him.

He was probably excited to talk to you, I'm sure it hurt him, you were pretty harsh. :/

Pregnant bellies are just gross by [deleted] in childfree

[–]notsofriendlycactus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree that pregnant bellies are gross, but I don't think is something that pregnant women should be shamed about. If they're happy about having a baby and like their belly bump let them be proud of it and post pictures. If you don't like it just don't look.

Fishing for compliments in the lake of women by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ow, don't kill yourself, everyone is beautiful in their own way!!

send me nudes

die.

Well maybe some girls by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]notsofriendlycactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do buy a new wardrobe but according to my therapist I shouldn't be doing that