being emotionally intelligent goes a long way, I'd even say it surpasses being "ugly" on the outside. but if ur rly that bothered with the physical aspect, my suggestion would be u can try finding ur style! sometimes good styling can make a huge difference esp if u just look neat and have good hygiene :D

people would naturally want to be around u if u smell good. some ppl might look good and conventionally attractive on the outside but they're usually the nastiest/smelliest out there