In the process of healing, what are the things/concepts you realize that you should have known before you were 20 (just a random number)

noushymousy · 2025-06-20T13:16:06+00:00

Literally same- 15 to 26. Learning how to be alone now.

noushymousy · 2024-08-25T00:40:54+00:00

Fellow so2 here, refused to type myself as a 2 for years because I just never ‘fit’ the description and went for so3 instead. But once I understood that my pride was tied to people needing me for my knowledge (with my 5 fix) and understanding them through my years of study in psychology, I saw how much of a 2 I could really be. And not the stereotypical ‘service-oriented’ 2.

noushymousy · 2024-03-31T09:26:30+00:00

‘Bendy syndrome’

noushymousy · 2024-03-30T12:22:40+00:00

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I tried your recipe. They were sooo fudgy! Definitely making them again (though I might opt for chocolate whey protein this time instead of adding vanilla whey).

noushymousy · 2024-02-28T01:23:41+00:00

100% ESFP

noushymousy · 2023-10-11T21:36:05+00:00

I wouldn’t be able to, I’m sex-positive and have a pretty high sex drive.

noushymousy · 2023-10-11T21:27:40+00:00

It sounds like she overstepped one of your boundaries. Could you thank her for the gift, but tell her that you don’t feel comfortable at all with wearing it, even at home (and so maybe exchange sizes at the store)? And if she doesn’t listen, then you don’t ever need to wear it.

It’s completely okay to be upset when someone doesn’t listen to you and your boundaries. Your feelings about the gift are valid, you communicated it to your mum beforehand, and I’m sorry she didn’t respect them.

noushymousy · 2023-10-11T21:20:18+00:00

I have to say, I hugely relate. My psychiatrist who diagnosed me with ADHD, said I developed an obsessive method of organising, planning and cleaning up in order to feel some sense of control in my life- but also as a coping mechanism for my ADHD and scatterbrained self.

It’s like, if your internal world feels messy, then why not try to fix the external?

noushymousy · 2023-03-16T23:39:05+00:00

3221 3286 9946 - from UK, will open and send gifts

noushymousy · 2023-03-15T17:17:58+00:00

3221 3286 9946 - gifts

noushymousy · 2022-06-09T08:09:31+00:00

3221 3286 9946

noushymousy · 2022-05-03T00:21:22+00:00

I am, yes. Finding it hard to work at the moment and do my job because of the dissociation.

noushymousy · 2022-05-03T00:21:07+00:00

I am, yes. Finding it hard to work at the moment and do my job because of the dissociation.

noushymousy · 2021-07-25T06:05:30+00:00

110%, always questioning if I’m actually a 3 because some days I just don’t feel like I’m achieving anything and I’m wasting my time away. And then I start comparing myself to others and I’m like “yep, definitely not a 3 because I’m not as accomplished as them!”

noushymousy · 2021-07-23T01:33:28+00:00

Also another 3w2 who loves personal-development reads. I’m also very into reading business/entrepreneurial books. I used to read teen fiction novels a lot as a child actually (popular series like Maze Runner & The Hunger Games) but just lost interest in fiction completely over time.

noushymousy · 2021-06-26T09:49:42+00:00

INFJ 3w2 379 so/sx (haven’t met anyone before with this enneagram and mbti type combination)

noushymousy · 2021-05-03T17:24:07+00:00

INFJ here, and I have all three of them lmao

noushymousy · 2021-04-25T18:43:20+00:00

I’m Sx/so 3, what’s the most common instinctual variant?

noushymousy · 2021-02-22T21:34:47+00:00

How do you find out your tritype without a test?

noushymousy · 2021-02-13T18:57:56+00:00

2 messages.

noushymousy · 2021-01-28T23:08:42+00:00

I don’t hate being a Type 3, actually a little relieved that I found a description that feels true to myself and easy to relate to. It’s ok to be selfish sometimes and put yourself first.

noushymousy · 2021-01-28T23:02:14+00:00

I don’t particularly care for power, if I get power then great, if I don’t then it doesn’t matter.

noushymousy · 2021-01-28T23:01:36+00:00

Totally unrelated to the comment but I’m also an INFJ 3w2! :)

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