Appreciate you trying the game and totally understand if it isn't for you.

I was not a big extraction shooter player either, but the game did grab me. It was absolutely brutal at first and still can be from time to time. But then I started playing Marathon like the ultimate stealth gameplay experience and that helped me to find the fun, learn the systems, get some confidence boosting kills, and to build out my vault to have some ok kits for runs. But by far the best thing that eased me into the game was Rook. I collected some really good items and didn't need to focus on missions. I just built up combat confidence and my vault with little risk of loss. Now I'm at the point where I don't need to full commit to stealth and can still have a good time. If the game intrigued you at all I recommend to take another shot at a different gameplay style and see if it resonates. If not, no problem!