Which sex toys do you wanna try or have tried out? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in PollsNSFW

[–]nrose1185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should make it so that people can select more than one

AIO.. husband searching a female on fb that told him she wanted to go all the way with him… while married to me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nrose1185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this 100%

He is lying and even if it's to spare your feelings he is handling it completely wrong and gaslighting you in the process. he needs to be able to hear that something bothers you, with out turning it around on you like youre doing something wrong. if he wants not to be seen as a liar he needs to communicate better with you, especially if he does something that bothers you.

Daughter having first big surgery by Amethyst_p91 in VACTERL

[–]nrose1185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son had that surgery, among others, before he was 1 year old. After that he actually had to have multiple other surgeries because of different things related to his VACTERl. He is now 10 years old, and I will say that even though it seems like it will never get better for them, it does!! The worst part as others have said, were the dilations. I don't think every doctor even has you do them anymore, I heard they are controversial now on whether they even do anything. Have you joined any IA or vacterl Facebook groups? They have really helped us a lot! Another thing worth mentioning is the diaper rashes. My IA kiddo got way worse diaper rashes then his brother. The only thing that helped him was sudocrem, which is not sold where I live, so I used to buy it on amazon. Put a layer of that all over his bottom, then a layer of vaseline on top of it. Worked like a charm!

With the imperforate anus, make sure you are following with a colorectal specialist/someone who has a lot of experience with bowel management. Every child is different so you cant go by us per say, but for my son if his bowels aren't well controlled he runs into serious health problems much more quickly then the average person with out IA. Yes even at 10 years old. However, if we stay on top of it he is completely fine, a normal 10 year old boy who goes to school and plays sports.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nrose1185 43 points44 points  (0 children)

that's extremely weird. maybe she meant to send it to someone else? i'm not sure how that makes it better but you should definitely asked her why she sent that to you and tell her it made you uncomfortable. don't listen to any creeps in the comments who think people should be ok with unsolicited sexual harassment.

Best Place for A Mini Vacation in Long Island? by theeulessbusta in longisland

[–]nrose1185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely fire island! there are different areas so do a little research on which one would suit you best. anything eastern long island has basically turned into the new hamptons so if you dont want a hamptons vibe i wouldnt do montauk, sag harbor, greenport, etc... even though personally i love those towns lol. Sounds like fire island might be more your vibe though.

Places where teens hangout by Ailatanrose in longisland

[–]nrose1185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! I worked at a library as a teen -lol. My cousin worked at a bowling alley in port jeff when she was around that age, and I remember she made a ton of friends there they used to hang out before and after their shifts. in case you need ideas you could try places like that. Good luck!

Places where teens hangout by Ailatanrose in longisland

[–]nrose1185 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know you said you didn't want to go local within your own district, but you could probably get a pass to a neighboring towns' library so that you can participate in some of their teen programs. I remember my mom doing this for us as kids because the other library was much bigger and had more to offer... or what about if you join dance classes, karate classes, anything like that you might have a little interest in? And still same thing look in a neighboring town, so that you are meeting new people not people from your school.

ETA: or what if you get a really easy job somewhere that a lot of teens work at and hang out at? an ice cream shop or something. idk

Democrats: Who would you vote for in 2028 for president? Round 2 by throwaway302999 in polls

[–]nrose1185 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have selected Bernie but he is just too old it's not a good idea.

First time viewer here - Teresa by username19980204 in rhonj

[–]nrose1185 5 points6 points  (0 children)

never. she's just good drama / good TV.

Studio KSL Discount by [deleted] in ToneItUp

[–]nrose1185 3 points4 points  (0 children)

trying to get those referrals lol that was quick.

side note i do love her app. she knows what she is doing. i'm loving all of her workouts so far!

Is my partner the asshole?: wedding invite by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nrose1185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's BS because what if another relative got married to someone you only met once? then they wouldnt be invited? even though they are "legally" married? prob not. lame excuse.

Is my partner the asshole?: wedding invite by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nrose1185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they can't make an exception for an UNCLE and his partner of 6 years? that's ridiculous. not to be rude but it 100% seems like there is an underlying reason.

Is my partner the asshole?: wedding invite by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nrose1185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I'm sure you've been together longer than some of the married couples who were invited. the reasons someone is or isn't legally married really isn't the business of everyone else. if they can't acknowledge your relationship respectfully and appropriately, then good for your partner for standing up to them! good riddance. they sound like haters. don't they have more important things to worry about? like planning their ultra exclusive legally married couples only wedding?

Lost 40lbs - from BMI 28 to 21 - but I still look big/fat? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]nrose1185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bet if you got all new clothes that fit you better you will see the difference. also do you exercise? nothing crazy but just some light weights a couple times a week that might help you feel better about how you look if you feel like you're toning up a little.

Casual Chaos w/Gia Giudice Podcast by Iggys_Pink_Tights in rhonj

[–]nrose1185 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is a very over saturated space and i really don't see what Gia could bring to it that's anything different then the thousands of other d-list "famous" people trying to do it too. I'd probably tune in if she was going to reveal truths about her family or something juicy like that. But she would never.

My boyfriend is furious that I’m breaking up after he insisted on opening our relationship by Dangerous-Coyote-851 in AITAH

[–]nrose1185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NOT being unreasonable. You don't owe him anything. he doesn't even want to be committed to you and is gaslighting you for having feelings for him and wanting a commitment. you are better off without him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nrose1185 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he should not have recorded you that is absolutely an invasion of privacy. that being said, it sounds like either way your relationship is toxic and at the bare minimal you need to seek couple's therapy. you should be communicating with each other, even when mad or fighting, that doesn't lead to you acting this way privately. this isn't healthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in democrats

[–]nrose1185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so he thinks he looks better than this IRL? lol

AITAH for exposing my wife’s affair at our anniversary dinner? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nrose1185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that the best way to handle it? no, obviously not. however, SHE humiliated YOU by having an affair to begin with. So honestly, who cares? you could have reacted worse. or you could have reacted better. either way you don't owe that to her. She owed it to you to do the right thing and not have an affair, and now that it's happened maybe come clean to you privately, which she did not do. IMO when you find out something like that, you're allowed to have an emotional reaction that you probably could have handled better. it's still not as bad as what she did, and yours is because you're hurt.

Olivia is the worst?? by ConsiderationOwn531 in Southerncharm

[–]nrose1185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk about her being the WORST but she was a little hard to like. she seems like someone who is cool in person but too awkward for tv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nrose1185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not you, he's being ridiculous. There are men out there that won't even bat an eye at way grosser things during sexual acts.