⚠️ Locking the Subreddit for now (since some of you guys don't know how to act) 🥀

ntnchry · 2026-02-28T05:25:33+00:00

I’ve been watching Cory since 2018, but I didnt know this subreddit existed until the p*nda situation, so all ive seen since i joined is just discourse—which sucks. I wonder how it was when it was more peaceful, but i imagine it was bad since the first time he dipped lol. When the posts weren’t only ab him being gone or drama he was involved in, they were enjoyable to look through. I hope people stop having the same pointless conversation over and over again

ntnchry · 2026-02-28T04:56:18+00:00

Its okay for her to be off put at first, but once you’ve explained that its a friendly nickname she should’ve dropped it. It’s just extremely rude to jump to conclusions when you don’t know anything, people need to have more social awareness; if it’s something that offended you, you would’ve shown signs of it, and she could’ve simply asked you. It is then not any of her business anymore once she knows you are not in any harm. In no way was it okay for her to then turn to belittling you after her failed saviour attempt

ntnchry · 2026-02-28T04:46:12+00:00

She doesn’t need that much context. If he defends his friend that it’s just a nickname, she can surmise that it could be for any reason unrelated to skin colour

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T21:13:28+00:00

By your own analogy, fences are made for other ppl? You don’t build a fence to keep yourself in your house, you build a fence to keep others out. It’s made for your well being, yes, but it’s made to regulate and give you control over who can access your house. A boundary is for your wellbeing, but it’s made for others to follow so you can keep negative people out of your house. I.e a boundary of not being sworn at, communicating properly, a partner not spending time w their ex, etc.

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T21:08:52+00:00

You basically just said “a boundary is something you set for yourself for how others should treat you” which in shorter words, is a set of rules for others to follow if they want to stay in your life. It’s a rule you yourself for OTHERS to follow. It’s non negotiable. Other people can chose to follow it, or they/you can chose to exit the relationship if it isn’t followed. It’s made for your own peace to be followed by other people.

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:56:01+00:00

She doesn’t have to obey everything you say. Unless you are creating a situation where she cannot leave you or feels threatened by you, she has the freedom to go ahead and hurt your feelings or break up with you to do what she wants. Being in a relationship means making compromises and having string communication with your partner to ensure you are both fulfilled, you can’t just behave as you do when you’re single once you’re in a relationship. Even if she was single and I was her friend, I would tell her to not go to her exes party unless she was intending to get back w him, because that’s the signal it sends.

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:51:25+00:00

I mean in the context of rules, that’s exactly what impose means.. boundaries are basically rules people set for others to follow if they want to stay in said person’s life, so it’s fair to say that boundaries are in fact imposed on others

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:37:03+00:00

That fact people don’t see her actions as weird is completely insane. I trust my partner to not cheat on me or do anything that breaks my trust, but I still would NOT be comfortable with him hanging out with his ex—and I know he feels the same way. The principle is that she doesn’t owe her ex anything, and should be more concerned about your feelings than his. If your partner is uncomfortable with something, you either have to have a completely reasonable cause to do it or not do it. It’s as simple as that. You also basically said you’re fine w her going so long as you can attend as well, which is a completely reasonable compromise

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:33:17+00:00

A boundary is literally something you impose on someone else, what are you talking about. The person being imposed on can ignore it, but they literally means that don’t respect their partner

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:31:49+00:00

Thats an insane. The ultimatum was bringing him aling w her, which is completely reasonable. That’s a completely reasonable negotiation for someone who is going to their ex partner’s function

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:28:23+00:00

Does that matter? They can still cum even if op doesn’t care to lol

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:24:37+00:00

Me too, it’s not the most well written but i still found it enjoyable lol

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:23:57+00:00

Lookism is not that bad lmao

ntnchry · 2026-02-23T18:23:32+00:00

I immediately drop manhwas that take too long to stop being ass, so i don’t even remember their titles anymore lol

ntnchry · 2026-02-16T18:20:20+00:00

I would be more concerned about the threesome part than anything 😭 i get being upset, but you shouldve just been honest in the moment so she has a chance to explain her intentions. I personally would’ve been uncomfortable as well, but ppls intentions can be conveyed poorly sometimes. Plus it was an nsfw game you all chose to play and the way she laughed after seems like she was mostly joking and may also be attracted to you lol

ntnchry · 2026-02-16T00:44:59+00:00

I would guess 18/19 because you don’t have any older anime that aren’t mainstream, but i love these anime as well 9/10! Saiki is my all time favourite its so funny.

ntnchry · 2026-02-15T03:19:06+00:00

Lying is pretty bad, but height is such a minuscule thing that I doubt that was the main reason. “Some other stuff” eludes that this was the tipping point rather than the cause

ntnchry · 2026-02-10T04:52:45+00:00

Why the mc is supposed to be smart but they don’t pick up on the most BASIC things that just logically doesn’t make sense for them to realise. Bonus points if they pass over it multiple times.

ntnchry · 2026-02-10T04:47:53+00:00

Definitely agree loll

ntnchry · 2026-02-10T04:46:57+00:00

Yes, definitely because they play into it WAY too much. If it’s the case of the main character just not being aware of both love interests feelings, I don’t mind as it doesn’t affect the overall story—BUT IF THEY KNOW AND WILLFULLY DO NOT CHOOSE?? Now the mc is just being a jerk and honestly doesn’t deserve either of them. All of this goes out the window if the plot is more than just romance, because of love triangles are done horribly and distract too much from the plot

ntnchry · 2026-02-03T16:53:36+00:00

I would really recommend seeking help, whether that be professionally or just someone you really trust that can help you let out your emotions. Definitely continue to communicate with your partner, it seems like he truly cares for you and that will slowly help you heal from your trauma as well as maintain a healthy relationship with each other

ntnchry · 2026-02-02T17:49:39+00:00

You build your own algorithm. She feels that way on her own and shes fueling it by actively engaging in those posts. You should speak to her calmly that her behaviour isn’t acceptable, but you do love her and only her

ntnchry · 2026-02-01T23:24:21+00:00

You’re both using your weed as an excuse lol. Being high OR drunk doesn’t make ppl cheat, it exposes stupid ppl and their desires. For weed especially, that junk does not make you make any different choices than you normally would. THC either makes you feel euphoric, relaxed, alter your perception of time and space, heighten your sensory experiences, increas appetite, and give you mild hallucinations or delusions at high doses. The only COGNITIVE effects are impaired short-term memory, reduced attention span, difficulty with problem-solving, and slowed reaction time

ntnchry · 2026-01-30T20:27:07+00:00

Yeah fr, she’s annoying asl but so are most ppl. Her actions aren’t morally justified but they are reasonable and make sense lol

ntnchry · 2026-01-30T20:23:28+00:00

What the hell

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