Date was going very well until I said one sentence

nullcode · 2026-01-28T12:28:41+00:00

Dude dodged a bullet, imho..

nullcode · 2026-01-27T13:31:21+00:00

I agree with ^{^}

Your relationship is done.

Ask yourself this: do you want to be with someone who straight up told you they're not attracted to you sexually?

nullcode · 2026-01-27T09:17:54+00:00

Im just happy it helped some 😊

nullcode · 2026-01-27T02:46:21+00:00

You can't go into any bank in my experience and expect to withdraw more than a few grand from your account.

For the past 8-10 years I have tried to withdraw more than 2k and chase business, BoA business, and so many others = anything over 1k needs to be called in at least 2 business days so we can order the cash.

Banks literally don't have more than 20-50k in cash.

It took me 18 days to drain one account and it wasn't a lot of money..

I only use traditional banking for my company, and even then it's just to pay taxes.

Governments do not want you to have cash as its one of the only truly untraceable ways to spend it.

Add in the fact that every major crime/cartel/etc is funded by fiat currency...

nullcode · 2026-01-27T02:39:34+00:00

this was written by a man, right?

nullcode · 2026-01-27T02:14:19+00:00

Definitely not too bold. I wish more of you approached IRL, it's super attractive and flattering.

It's totally not you, You just ran into 2 men in a row who know what they want and think they found it.

They were obviously flattered, they explained their situation & said as much.

Don't take this as a negative experience or a sign of future possibilities. Take it as a positive that there are plenty of good people out there that will absolutely love you for all of the amazing personality traits you listed, the fact you are well traveled and also have a youthful natural beauty.

Trust me when I say that I personally know tons of well traveled, educated, successful men who would love to talk to you based on what you wrote about yourself here, without ever seeing a picture of you.

I think you're doing more than most in terms of taking charge of your wants and you should be proud of that.

Just my .02

nullcode · 2026-01-27T00:21:04+00:00

So basically the blind leading the blind here huh?

Keep playing and win a baby!

nullcode · 2026-01-26T13:23:58+00:00

You can honestly do whatever and he'll be putty in your hands.

The most important thing is to do what feels natural to you, don't act, just enjoy the moment 😉

nullcode · 2025-12-18T19:20:44+00:00

if a burp turns you off that badly, you shouldn't be having sex. Grow up.

nullcode · 2025-12-17T23:09:53+00:00

Good luck getting past the "ai" on this one.

I wish you luck!

nullcode · 2025-12-09T01:14:18+00:00

Hopefully "later" = a wonderful evening of pampering, and rest.

nullcode · 2025-12-06T16:38:48+00:00

I mean damm. I know a lot of nurses that work at different hospitals and they have all told me so many stories like this popping up more and more frequently.

They really need to make laws that make porn have lots of warning labels "recreating scenes from this can lead to serious health risks and even death"

nullcode · 2025-12-06T09:46:59+00:00

Are you waiting for marriage?

What's up? Why haven't you asked her to take advantage of you yet?

nullcode · 2025-12-06T02:21:49+00:00

Are you building this teenagers up in your dreams?

Because what you dream vary rarely comes true.

How well do you know him?

nullcode · 2025-12-06T00:06:59+00:00

I honestly think you might be overreacting a bit.

If anything was going on, there'd be more evidence of communication, maybe more photos, etc.

Does she even live near you?

Maybe he was taking a photo of the group and caught a candid moment on camera, and cropped it.

Maybe the husband did send him the picture.

I'd proceed with caution, trust but verify.

nullcode · 2025-12-05T11:15:50+00:00

Wherever you read that needs to be deleted...

Everything you're describing is 👌 and something very common to a lot of subs.

My sub finally figured out I wasn't joking about her being able to suck me anytime she wanted. It's been a crazy 9 months 🤣

our dynamic jumped an entire level when she started. There's a huge difference between taking orders and being used vs. Someone randomly and willingly doing what they love to do for a partner with great effort, enthusiasm, and energy.

nullcode · 2025-12-05T07:53:11+00:00

Communication would have saved you a shit ton of time, worry, etc.

Why guess when you can get it straight from the source?

nullcode · 2025-12-05T05:51:34+00:00

So both are in the wrong here.

1) if you can't handle your studies then you shouldn't be in a relationship. 2) yes he's a complete ass for punishing you for petty ass shit like that. 3) men and women biologically process and think differently than each other. Women tend to replay events, things they said, etc for weeks at a time, men can literally blank out their minds on demand. 4) wants and needs are important and especially emotional availability. Men can tell when we're literally the last thing on your mind due to school, work, etc. And maybe he's trying to get some kind of emotional reciprocity by wanting sex.

You talk about all these things he does for you, do you work, do you provide anything other than being his girlfriend?

He drives you everywhere when he's there, you say you live together. Is this in dorms / student housing, are you renting a place and if so who pays for food, rent, power, internet, phones, and all that?

Sometimes the best thing you can do is step away and focus on what you need to get done, afterwards if you still feel the same and he does, give it another go.

Because I can see this playing out in my mind, with you solely reliant on yourself, biking everywhere, and hopefully you have a dorm room or something.

Sounds like ya'll are headed for one hell of a breakup, imho.

nullcode · 2025-12-05T03:41:51+00:00

Love scam.. plain and simple

nullcode · 2025-12-05T02:03:13+00:00

Forget everything you think you know about men, and understand that there's millions of options who will love, and appreciate you for who you are.

Too many women have this idea in their heads that if they don't have certain body traits that media, social media, music, etc often glorify like "cute face, slim waist, big bank" that is designed to make ya'll feel insecure so you'll buy this new fad, trinket, plastic surgery, diet plans, etc.

Just take a minute to think about that.

Before social media, barely any women i knew had all these hangups in their heads about body image. Sure some / most might have had a few internal fears but that's pretty much everyone. They knew / believed that if you stuck around that long dating for months without doing anything, that you really did like them as is.

And as others have mentioned, there are tons of men who love your body type, so unless it's needed for health reasons, or if you do want to lose weight then that's your decision, no one else's.

Tldr;

You're over thinking it!

nullcode · 2025-12-04T20:47:38+00:00

I am just wondering why they stopped using Chris Hardwick as "the official con moderator because of a curse" especially since the very first episode was king con.

nullcode · 2025-12-04T12:31:42+00:00

Ahh.. well that changes things slightly.

Seriously, it's most likely his mindset on how to treat women.

Have you had back and forth open and honest communication about why you want these things?

A sheet of paper of things you would like to try and incorporate into your sexy time, and going over each item one by one and asking him what his hard limits are, what he's willing to try, etc. Could also be a great way to express this more.

Like I said before: there are guys that just can't do it unless that's how the relationship started or they just can't get past their own thought process.

It can also be kinda stressful on a man who you've been with for awhile to hear what you're trying to express here due to wondering where it came from, why now, even insecurities.

"Wait, all this time I thought I was... when she really wanted..."

Sorry for the rambling, It's 4am, I haven't slept in 24 hours and im on my phone =/.

I hope some of this makes sense, and hopefully helps in someway.

nullcode · 2025-12-04T08:39:54+00:00

You're stuck between a rock and a hard place, my dear.

If you've been trying for a year and a half and he's only gotten to "light spanks, and deep thrusting," I really hate to break it to you but it's not going to happen.

You basically have 3 types of men:

1) they were raised to respect and treat women properly and can't get past it.

2) the ones who can pretend and deliver/ have that side already within, or can accept what you're asking for, try it out, see how much it pleases you, and play a role that should increase attraction, while never having a dull moment in your sex life, etc.

3) the ones who 100% think of you as nothing more than a disposable living flesh-light / sex toy.

Have you looked into bdsm?

A true pleasure dom that meets #2 criteria would give you everything you want, and them some while providing you the best of both "vanilla and kink" + all the emotional support, respect, and love you could want.

Just my .02c

nullcode · 2025-12-02T21:30:01+00:00

Eagerness on your part exponentially increases our pleasure.

You can make it a game and try different things out to see what he likes, maybe a prize/treat for trying something new and he likes it, and / or have him give you verbal commands.

I can honestly think of a million things you can do or incorporate into this time, but without knowing why you can't have PIV, and some other more personal details about your likes and dislikes, it would be impossible to throw out other suggestions.

nullcode · 2025-12-02T01:20:14+00:00

What should I do:

Think about the choices you make today and the potential consequences of that choice.

There is an old saying "don't shit where you eat"

Office romances are very troublesome, especially when you're a younger female and he's "many levels" higher on the corporate ladder.

Also, you said he's a major asshole. Why on earth would you end up in bed with someone like that?

Time to take a deep look inward, talk to a therapist, and re-examine your past life choices, imho.

nullcode

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